What should I do if the girl I love has rejected my proposal? She rejected it by saying "We were friends and still are. If you feel this, don't talk to me from now onwards." She is my first love and this is hard for me.
Rejection is difficult for all. This the reason why many of us fear to tell the other person about our true feelings. The fear of rejection kills everything inside a human. But, I am glad that you are such a brave human. You went and confessed it to her knowing that you might just end up losing her. It requires a huge amount of strength, my friend and I am so proud of you.I know this a very difficult time for you. But, if you really love her then despite the rejection, be beside her. Be a friend to her, just like how she expects it from you.Let me tell you something very honestly, a girl always looks for a ‘best friend’ within her boyfriend. Trust me, the first step to a relationship is friendship. In fact, friendship surpasses that, too. Friendship is the beginning and end of everything. So, be a good friend to her. Be there for her during her best and worst times and within time, she will realise what a gem you are and that you are a keep.Unfortunately, even if she does not want a relationship after your presence in her life for over years, then understand that sometimes it is important to move on. No, I am not asking you to forget her. Remember her. Remember her as somebody who stole your heart with her innocence. Remember her as somebody who was your light during your dark times. Remember her as your inspiration in the field of love. Remember her as someone who made your heartbeat rise and taught you how is it like to fall in love. It’s always good to remember someone who brought love into your life. But move on, let her be happy in whichever way she thinks is best for her to be happy.The best things in life happen at the most unexpected time. Tomorrow, somebody else might just sweep you off your feet, you never know. Simply go with the flow.And yes, it is good to be heartbroken because if it hurts, it’s love.Be strong and hope for the best.All the best. :)
Can you fall in love when your 13?
oh course, hun, I'm 13. I had my first boyfriend at 11(matured early....way to early) I dated a guy for a year and I really wanted to spend forever with him, but his family life was bad, and he didnt have the best of friends, so we lost it. Id have to say....its just love. Hes like a drug isnt it? You dont even have to ask... love is ~that funny feeling in your tummy that u get when hes near ~when you feel like your going to die when he hugs you ~you'll wait all day by the phone ~you cant wait to see him ~you will get pissed at your friends if they say something rude ~you blush a lot around him Its very possibal....
Egypt: Would someone translate this into Arabic please?
- yea last year in romania , we were heading egypt and @ the departure passport check thingy , the guy was like .. oh you need father's approval ( dad was with us .. and law says if he is present with the children , no need for approvals ) .. he was like no no , you need to go back to the embassy and have a written approval! .. wth he is right in front of you and he approves ! .. we called for the manager , he was too busy to come , he called one of his coleagues and she was like omg yeah you need approval -_- .. unfortunately we went back home and stayed for another 2 weeks to get approval .. very lame though because this year we went , and we passed without any sort of " approval " crap .. - and i always have issues with the security .. idk why =/ and it never turned out that i have bombs with me or smth .. weird
Do Muslims find repeating Surahs in Arabic to be vainly repetitive or spiritually fulfilling?
Of course it was not "spiritually fulfilling." It was indeed vain repetition, if not done with the intention of developing closeness with God.Many Muslims in families who have not actually learned the Arabic of the Qur'an will read short suras memorized as a series of sounds, without any deep connection with the language, the meaning.I don't want to say that they are wrong, but this practice leads to exactly what the OP describes. Deadly boredom, meaninglessness, ennui and then, often, rejection of this ignorance and the religion with it.However, if one actually learns the Qur'an, reciting it deepens familiarity and understanding. It is not "vain repetition," it is being reminded, more and more deeply with each repetition, of Reality, in words revealed by Reality.So .... "Muslim" in the question may not be well-defined. The OP was considered a Muslim. Was he (or she)? What does "Muslim" mean? That the family is Muslim?Yes, the word is used that way, but this is not how it is used in the Qur'an. Most Muslims, by the "family" definition, know little of the Qur'an.I remember, once, a Muslim saying that he held the Qur'an in high respect, it was kept on a high shelf.And never taken down.Basically, OP, you never learned to actually read the book, you learned some movements and some sounds to make, probably from a very few verses, perhaps Ikhlas, qul huwa llahu ahad.Without the depth of the Qur'an behind it, those words may be almost meaningless, though when they are said with understanding, they are transcendent.I prefer honest atheists to pretend-Muslims and I would condemn the latter, except that most are simply ignorant and have never examined the foundations of their religion, they are just drifting. They can be fine people, and perhaps God will open up more for them.After all, atheists have the first half: "There is no god ...."
Why is it so hard for people to understand what Allah means to muslims?
Allah literally is the same word as God. That's what it means in Arabic. Muslims believe in one God, the same God as Christians and Jews. It's the interpretation that is different. Look, it's not like you have to agree with the religion, but there's just some things you have to understand.
How can I look more Middle Eastern? (picture)?
I just think the women are gorgeous and I love exotic they look. Plus I'm a little Armenian and I want to emphasize that. do you have any makeup tips/tips in general? Here are a couple pictures of me. My hair is currently black. http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-a... http://a3.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-a...
I'm a Muslim. I love music. Will I rot in hell?
Just to note a couple of things I knew and assumed from the question:You are a Muslim, who believes in Allah and the Day of Judgment, and in Paradise and Hell. If this is accurate, then most of the answers to this question from non-Muslims is obsolete/irrelevant.You believe that music is haraam or impermissible.You either want to stop listening to Music or cannot stop and are afraid of the consequences.I (also) believe—after analyzing the evidences of Qur’aan and the Sunnah—that music is haraam. There is a great amount of evidence for those who say that it is haraam.I can certainly understand your situation. I also have a great number of sins that I very often or occasionally fall into, finding it most of the time to be a difficult thing to stop or get rid of, and am afraid of the consequences. May Allah forgive me and you.As a friend, and as a fellow Muslim, I would give the following advice to anyone in the same boat as you and me:Try your best to stop doing it.Try harder (than you did before) to find other means of feeling better when you are down. Study the Qur’aan. Learn its meanings. Listen to heart-warming lectures and stuff.Allah says in the Qur’aan [translation of the meaning]: Verily, in remembering Allah do hearts find rest.Continuously ask Allah for forgiveness, even if you are persisting in doing the sin. Don’t stop at any rate, even if the Shaithaan try to make you ashamed of yourself.If you can, do it in secret. Letting others know of your sins is another sin.Do a lot of worship to compensate for your sins, for good deeds erase bad deeds.Keep asking Allah to help you to stop and show you the way to alternatives.As for rotting in Hell, it is the belief of Ahl-uh-Sunnah wal-Jamaa’ah that a muwahhid (one who believes in the Oneness of Allah) will not remain in the Hell forever. Rather, any such person who has sins will be under the Will of Allah on the Day of Judgment. If He wishes, He will forgive them their sins and enter them in to the Paradise. And if He wishes, He will punish them in accordance with their sins (and not even a bit more than they deserve) in Hell, then remove them from it, and enter them in to the Paradise.May Allah grant us and you the Paradise.