My life is terrible what do you think of it?
When I was four years old my mum and dad split up. My dad used to beat my mother I ended up getting hurt mentally and physically. Then when I started school I was bullied all the way through. It was none stop I just didn't know what to do with myself. Everyone I ever trusted let me down I had three best friends who all turned on me in the end. When I was seven I was run over and damaged my spine badly. Which gives me hell when the weathers cold living in Britain doesn't help either. Then at school I got jumped and they broke my arm and gave me a black eye. I get paranoid now because of the bulling I went through. Then I found out I was shortsighted and had to wear glasses not so bad. Then found out I have a 50% chance of getting a inherited eye condition which everyone in my family has which makes you go blind when your older. I have a grandmother who always causes trouble for me for no reason what so ever. I have to give money to my mother because she has money trouble. I have very little money at the moment as it is. Then just a few months ago my granddad the man who has been the rock in my life had a very bad stroke. He now has been told he hasn't got more than a year to live. I don't know what I will do without him. On top of that I had my best friend fall out with me over a misunderstanding which wasn't my fault. I just don't know what to do anymore. I am training at college at the moment hopefully it will lead to a decent job where I can support myself financially. I just feel like my life is going no where and its all been wasted I wish I was never born. Others have live's where everything goes perfect I didn't chose to have this one. what do you think of my life ? cos all I can think is I want it to end soon.
I HATE MY LITTLE brother!!!!!?
He is banned from my room and my computer! his plan is too destroy my life! What should i tell him!? He is not even nice to me!! He doesn't play tricks on me but he is just so annoying and mean! one day i tried to be nice to him but he was still dang mean to me!!!!! What should i tell my parents! the bad thing i have a computer in my room and he doesn't he is always trying to barge into my room to go on my computer! and i always tell him NO! because i do not want him in there! i have signs that say stay out, knock first!(which he does not), and i have a doorhanger that you can write on! he never obeys it! When i say i am having a friend over do not go on my computer and do not go into my room! When my friend leaves i go up to my room and find him playing a dumb cartoon network game!! IN MAY i already told my parents that he gets on my nerves but all they said was that is not nice! But he is a lying jerk face that i have to live with him for like 8 more years! i am annoyed out! Help!?
I am a terrible son and an awful brother. I am not close to my own family because of my character. I tried to sort out the issue by talking but failed terribly. I am depressed and suicidal. What is the point of living my life?
I can understand your pain as I have suffered through the same, the same feeling of hopelessness, self loathing and isolation and the unbearable pain. Just can't see any way of finding relief except through death. But one day when I was walking alone on the street I saw a man who was trying to eat bread (roti) from his mouth, but couldn't able to do it as he was with no hands and legs. Then I looked up myself and ask myself why I am thinking of suicide as I have gifted with a beautiful life and just can't waste it by my own choice of death. Yes, suicide is a choice but not depression. Encourage yourself to recognize that the problems and that situations are temporary. You have to live for yourself and make others believe that you are awesome and life is worth living.
My brother (28) wants to propose to his horrible girlfriend (Mid-30s) who everyone in our family hates. How do I talk to him about it?
Something perhaps like this, “Brother God gave us a free choice and a free will”. To look at it any other way would be contary to Gods' way of looking at things. I know that you are old enough to make up your mind who you wanna get married to, and regardless who says what, or likes her or whatever. I just wanted to tell you that you know that I love you and that you certainly got my blessings big time. The both of you. I really, really mean it. I know that none of us are perfect especially me. And that in the eyes of God, we are all brothers and sisters. Whether we are this or that we are all His children. And if I were to hear any one of my very own sons or daughters say something that wasn't exactly nice about their brother or sister for whatever reason it being true or not, it would surely without a doubt bring tears to my heart. Please always remember, you'll always find a friend in Jesus, and also dear brother, me”.
I feel so bad for my brother, what should i do?!?
My brother is 26 years old, and i'm 17 years old if it matters. I'll be 18 soon and i always planned on moving out around 18 or 19 years old. But i just feel so bad for my brother that sometimes i lose sleep over it. He's unemployed and he just gave up on life. He tried committing suicide last year twice in a really horrible way. Well anyway, i would ask him why he doesn't wanna get a job, he just tells me that no one wants to hire him, that every time he looks for a job people always reject him. But i just feel so horrible because he's capable of so much more. I'm just afraid he'll be like this forever, and this is hurting me so bad that i'm literally tearing writing this. I feel as if no one cares about him. And i don't wanna move out and he's gonna be all alone by himself. Last night my parents were having financial problems, and i yelled at my brother. I said he needs to grow a pair and get up and get a job. And now i just feel so horrible. He's totally isolated, he never gets out the house. From the minute he wakes up, he's always playing video games and he doesn't have any friends outside the game world. This is hurting me and bothering me soooo much. What should i do?
My brother hates us, what do i do?
If he knows you hate his wife, I'm not surprised he isn't talking to you. When you marry someone, you commit your life to them, and they become your #1 priority - that means over EVERYBODY, even your family. I can't imagine what it must be like to hate your brother's wife, but I can tell you that it's unlikely your brother can have a good relationship with you while you hate his wife. And can you imagine how his wife feels? I can't imagine how horrible I would feel if my fiance's family hated me. :( My advice is this: try your best to have a good relationship with his wife. Be committed to loving her as much as you love your brother, despite your differences and despite her faults (remember, you have faults too!). Your brother obviously married her for a reason (likely more than one!). Find out what your brother loves about her, and learn to love her too. :) Remember, she is an army wife and that itself comes with a lot of stress and fear. You can't control how she behaves, but you can ALWAYS control how you behave. Love her so much that she can't help but love you back! :)
I feel as though my Autistic brother controls my life...?
Everything I do revolves around him. And when he gets upset...I feel even worse. Sometimes I think he hates me because lately I've been getting angry very easily when he does something wrong.
I hate my brother.....?
Wow that's a bummer...but honestly I've been in the same boat...I'm the oldest boy of 5 brothers...and the one closest to me used to be the biggest jerk to me...if you have a bedroom just go in there and chill...hopefully either you or he will move out soon...and when that happens...don't speak to each other and time just heals you up...give it like 6 months of away time...and you'll miss each other...that's what happened with me anyway...I would say smoking weed once a month or so helps to mellow out...but I can't tell you to because it's illegal...I hope you reach a resolution :)
Why do I hate my brother so much?
I have the same problem. Its gotten to the point where he makes comments like, you will regret treating me like this for the rest of your life and its not fair that you treat me like this. The only thing I do is give one word answers and not really respond. My reasons for acting the way I do started in middle school. He would steal my mothers quarters and silver change to get sodas at school and blame me for the missing change, I had no proof that I could use to prove my innocence so I let it go……. this happened at least twice that I can remember. Literally 10 years later I learned that he was coming into my room at night and stealing my debit card. This freak would withdraw money from ATMs and put my debit card back in the morning. He stole at least 300 that I have found so far. Apparently he made a bad investment, he also sold the Wii among other things. When I try to talk to my mom about this she defends him. Now its 2 years later, he goes to work and comes home to smoke weed. He leaves his laundry on the floor in the bathroom instead of using the hamper which is right next to the washer, he does not do any chores, he thinks cleaning up the kitchen means putting everything in the sink and waiting for it to magically disappear. I can no longer talk to my mother about this problem because she will say he does what I tell him to (when pigs fly) and I don’t want to talk about this anymore. The frustration has built up inside me sing I was 12 (Im 26 now) Im not sure what do do about this now. All I can say is that I have no love for this pot head residing in the room next door. All the advice I can give to you is to:A. Talk to your parents in a very adult manner, give them a impression for concernB. Get therapy (Its all I got right now)
Do I have the worst life ever?
You sound a lot like me (Except the mum part, and my dad is already dead) I'm lonely and depressed too, but what you have to do, is try get past that, make some friends. I'm sure your not fat and ugly. But staying depressed will not make this any better. As one of my friends told me, try joining a youth group or something. Just get out there. =) Oh yeah, and I'm sure you don't have the worst life, at least you aren't dying of starvation or something in Africa! Just think of it that way.