How do you make friends on tumblr?
As someone with 30k followers and have been active for the past 4 years.I can tell you it’s extremely easy to make friends on there.~But that it to say, you should NOT randomly message every stranger you meet on there.On Tumblr, it’s important to establish a theme and consistency first.Sharing your interests will gravitate those who are similar to you.For my blog, it’s anime-based. So my group of ‘friends’ would be those who have an interest in anime (Duh).What makes Tumblr amazing is that whatever interests you have, it exists. You can do literally anything like photography, lifestyle, food, mental health, pastel pink..etc~Now that you have a specific theme, next is messaging. When you reach out, consider these three rules in mind.These rules will help increase the likelihood of making friends.Rule 1. Don’t expect other people to message you (you have to take the initiative and message first).Rule 2. Not everyone you message will reply back (it’s life).Rule 3. Don’t message with only ‘Hi’ (this is such a pet peeve of mine. It’s so plain and basic that I don’t even bother with them).▲ This is an example of WHAT TO NOT DO ▲As you can see, I don’t reply to those who said hi, have simple statements or overly creepy.Why?Two reasons.I am an asshole. And people on Tumblr are assholes.I know you can type a better and more thoughtful message than that.~You should be saying something like this.“Hi X, I love your blog (insert content).” Then put something about yourself or ask a question about the theme they have.That’s it.Easy.You do this about twenty times, you are bound to have at least one friend at the end of the day.
Do you make friends easily?
I agree that online it's easier but I did make some friends eventually through work and school. When I first moved to another town in 7th grade I had no friends what so ever, A lot of the kids were stuck up but I found a few that weren't and I also now have plenty of friends from other places. Now that I'm in college I feel thankful and lucky of how much I accomplished in my life!
How do you make friends in a new city?
Think about the things you like doing. Join groups that do those things. Make a project out of making friends - start with simple steps like "today I'm going to talk to five people I don't know." Just have conversations. The more activities you take up (within reason, obviously) the more likely you are to meet people you like. Good luck.
How do you make friends in jail?
Be nice and open. Workout everyday so you are alert and focused. Ignore when people curse or talk about doing bad things. Avoid making bad choices, make good choices much as possible and always just be yourself. Think of yourself as a warrior who was put in jail by bad guys. Just listen to others. When you help others you will help yourself. Be careful though of bad apples, those people that seem over nice and friendly may have hidden agenda's and they trick people by being friends, and they try to use people. So just stay strong and just be first your own best friend, open and honest. Learn everyday, it will bring you peace. Inspire to each day. Learning is our lives. You can have a great deal of value to others when you are learning and growing, you can have positive influence on the world.
How did you make friends in college?
First of all..... you don't "lose" your high school friends, if you make the slightest bit of effort to keep in contact. If you want to make meaningful connections join some club that interests you ( sports, academic, religious......). Be positive, have a voice, and just be yourself. Or if you want just anybody to pass the time with , take the preceeding suggestions.
How easy is it to make friends in college?
Friends are an important part of your college education. You will make connections in college that could possibly affect your whole life if you meet up with the right people. The trick to having a successful social life in college is to not think of people in terms of cliques. Everyone is human and has feelings, right? So why essentialize someone into a category that may or may not fit the way they feel inside about themselves. Someone that's a nerd, a jock, a goth, etc can be your closest friend and best asset when it comes to studying. Remember that college is an even playing field so just get out there and make as many friends as you possibly can. Some you'll have for at least the next four years, others you'll take with you through life. Regardless, the more open and vocal you are with them the better. I went to college with my two best friends and came out with a truck load of awesome people. In fact, one of my good friends will be playing in the Superbowl! You never know what kind of people you will meet so just get out there and introduce yourself to EVERYONE! Good luck!