Girls... How is a guy supposed to flirt with u?
make eye contact and smile at them. easy, nonverbal approach. that way you can feel a vibe before you even talk to them. if they hold the stare and smile back then they want to talk. find something about her that sets her apart from her friends and compliment her on it, but be sincere cause girls can always tell. maybe she has an interesting bracelet? tell her that its nice and if their is any meaning behind it. if your still in high school and your into a girl ask for her number so that sometimes you can hang out. just talk to them and become charming! good luck!
How am i supposed to flirt with this guys?
so there is this really hot guy and i have no idea how to flirt with him...like at all. and he doesnt flirt back. days that i dress up my guy friends are like you look hot/sexy etc but the guy im interested in wont even say i look nice or even comment on what im wearing. we're in college now but in high school he used to compliment me a little and comment on my clothes but not anymore. i know he thinks im attractive but he doesnt compliment me anymore. i know he doesnt want a relationship so that's maybe why he doesnt flirt so i start liking him. but i dont want a relationship with him either. so how do i let him know i wanna make out with him and thats it without sounding like...a slut lol. so far all i do is look at his eyes when we talking then very quickly at his lips but then i look away...is that even noticeable to him? and i touching his back one time....i dont know what to do! he doesnt flirt back.... Suggestions? maybe he's just not that into me...lol idk
How is a guy supposed to flirt with a girl?
Just loosen up. Become playful with the opposite sex and have fun with them. To break the ice, you can pretend you're "bugging" your little sister or an annoying next door neighbor, or cousin. Only, you don't really want to annoy a pretty girl, just think of something to get her going and make her laugh WITH you, not at you. Then as your confidence builds, you will become more sophisticated at it. When that happens, you'll look intently into her eyes and hear your self saying things like... (groan...) "You make me so glad I'm a guy and you're a girl." (should be said in a low, husky, coarse voice) Then gently shake your head from side to side as you continue to stare seductively into her wide eyes and raised eyebrows. Then say "Tsk, what have you done to me hon?" Well... maybe the "seductive" look will come after you marry and reserve it for your wife, of course. .
How am I supposed to flirt when I'm so shy?!?
You don't have to flirt. If a guy truly likes you, he'll let you know. You don't need to resort to flirting to get a guy's attention. As for being more outgoing, practice makes better! Ask your friends for help. Start going to more events, like after school programs, or get involved in an extra curricular activity. Sit at a different table during lunch every once in a while, and you maybe you'll make a new friend. I know what it's like to be insecure around guys, and people in general. One of the things that truly helped me was getting involved in 4-H. I met a lot of people, and before I knew it, I was having an easier time talking to people. Someone once said, that at the end of your life, you are very fortunate if you can count your true friends on the fingers of your two hands. Nowadays, we consider everyone we know to be a friend. But there's a difference between a friend - someone you see on a regular basis and talk to - and then a true friend, one willing to stand by your side no matter what. There's nothing wrong with the first type of friend, but just a thing to keep in mind. I'm sure you're pretty in your own way, and in someone's eyes, you're beautiful. Besides, it's what's inside that really counts. I hope this helps!
How am i supposed to recognize a flirt?
Oh trust me, you'll know. If a girls treating you extra nicely, maybe cutely teasing you, smiling and giggling a lot, she's most likely flirting with you (: Answer mine please! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Arlov_a_Xyqns8QxWKQS9qXK_Nw4;_ylv=3?qid=20120902223125AAi0O90
What am I suppose to do with shy guy who likes me?
Background information first, he nor I have dated, christians, and shy. He and I have formed a friendship on myspace over last 2 months. We talk about everything but sometimes we flirt but in a round about way. I only see him in mornings at school since school is so large and we have no classes near each other. What am I suppose to do when I see him and he's all smiles. Yes, remember the Chester cat from Alice in Wonderland? Its that kind of smile! He's even told his friends about me. This morning, I seen him and he walked up to me. I ask for a hug, even begged but he only stood there and smiled like the CAT and wobbled. Why he do that? I told him it was alright while patting his shoulder. We then walked down hallway slowly shoulder to shoulder. After arriving were his friends are he still stood beside me same way but chatted away to them. I didn't notice what was being said only the 2 boys looked in my direction couple times and continued chatting. I guess it was only for a minute but it felt like hour. I then told my shy guy I had to go and he gave me that same CAT smile and said okay. Tonight, i questioned him about it on myspace. Hes never gotten this attention from a girl before. Says he doesn't feel completely comfortable around me. I was like huh? then he said he does feel comfortable around a lot of people. I then ask if I bugged him or was a pest and like always he ressures me i'm not. So, I know he likes me but what am I suppose to do with him?
SO I'm going to suggest that if his type of flirting isn't your thing, he's probably not your type... so no real loss. :)One day, you'll end up thoroughly connecting with someone unexpectedly and completely get his type of flirting, you won't need a sign... you'll be too busy enjoying his company and laughing delightedly at his jokes (which by the way is a perfectly good response to flirting).
How are GUYS supposed to flirt without looking totally stupid?
Girls like sillysweet. Yes its one word...look it up. :) Sillysweet happens when you are just being yourself...but a very Open self. Remember those moments with your girlfriend where you could just lie in bed together and say the stupidest things?....you would be talking and joking each other and words wouldnt even make any sense because it wasnt the words that mattered! Thats the kind of openess you need. Free to think and say what comes to mind, but its a focused freedom...you are focused on the other person and letting them enjoy the moment as much as you are. More specifically, 1) Joke them. lol...they love it. But not to the point where it hurts their feelings. You should have experience with this after having a gf for so long. 2) Be somewhat mysterious when you are talking about yourself, dont act like your filling in an information page for a dating website. 3) ...oh i gotta go hope that all helps!
How are you supposed to let a guy know your interested in them?
guys like girls who are confident and true to themselves. if he doesn't like you for you then he's not worth it at all. :) if you want a guy to know you are interested, talk to him, get to know him, but don't stalk! (ha, i learned the hard way) and smile at him when you see him. you could try looking away shyly and when he looks at you. be cute. good luck! :)
Flirting is so much fun in this age. We are young and this is the time when we fall in love or make boyfriend/girlfriends. So don't be nervous about it. Just enjoy these moments. Are you an introvert ? Because some people speak less or sometimes find themselves in awkward situations as how to handle it. It happens and if you try talk to more with people of any kind. Either your friends or anybody this fear will go away. Secondly, are you a bit skeptical while talking to opposite gender ? May be you haven't spoken to them in your early years and this can be a reason that now you find it difficult. If you have guy friends, talk to them on phone a bit more so that when they are present physically, you don't feel nervous. Everything depends about the environment you are in. Make new friends. Especially of opposite gender. Be friendly. Be a good listener. Encourage healthy flirting. After all guy are just as nervous sometimes as you are. Its all about how comfortable they make you fee around themselves and vice versa. If I knew your nature personally. I could have suggested a few more things. Feel free to comment if you want to ask anything, Universal Trick is: Just respond by saying... HaHa..Very funny. But then a long and healthy flirting takes much more effort and skillHappy Flirting !!