Can i feel this way aboud only one person in the world you never meet?
i have the biggest crush on princeton from mb (mindless behivre) and we have a lot in common.... everytime i see him in a music video or tv i always blush and wish to date him....i dont care if he had only 10 dollors or live in a box i still love him.. (i kno love is a strong word) hes everything i dreamed for... also it made me say when he got bullied when he was younger.i started to cry when i heared it because i was bullied too and use to sit alone... i even think my love for is getting worst...(in a good way for me) i dont have any posters of him tho but i think hes a beautyful (or can say HOT), sweet person also from the way he acts romantic and flirty..the type of guy i like and we are the same age..i even dream that we will go out ..is it ok to feel this way about one preson in the world you love but they dont know you??? ps: i kno it might be weird to some people and im a fan but not the crazy fan girl,just a fan thats in love with only one guy princeton thanks :3
How can a quiet person not seem quiet?..?
I think i know what you're getting at, but if you dont like to talk alot then unfortunately people will think of you as being quiet. But perhaps they dont need to think of you as being shy. Like James Bond, he is as you say more of a silent type, but you wouldnt think of him as shy cos he exudes self confidence. When he does talk, his voice isnt passive and quiet. He holds his head up when he walks, looks people in the eye when he talks to them. So perhaps you can do this. That way people wont think of you as being shy, but they will prob still think of you as being the silent/quiet type...but perhaps in a "he's mysterious" type of way, which might suit you better. And when you do have something to say, say it confidently, command peoples respect. The tricky thing of course is not to come across as being arrogant and stuck up...cos thats worse than being thought of as quiet :)
One day I feel one way about a person, situation, dream of mine and so on but on another day I will feel the complete opposite towards them. I keep going to and fro for years now. I just can't seem to make my mind up. Is this normal?
Double-minded is the word - seek to have one mind, bind, cast out the other, in the name of Christ, all that is not of God, and seek to have one mind with Jesus - that will stabilize you.
How can someone feel so much hate towards another person?
Hatred stems from intense emotions in the hater that are the result of unresolved conflict within themselves. Hatred is not rational or logical. People who are secure with themselves and happy with their lives , do not feel compelled to hate or put down others . Hate is a waste of time and energy. It only serves to infuriate the hater and keep him in his own hell. Haters avoid confronting the reality of their own lives and dysfunction, and to viciously hate and keep hating, IS dysfunction. Hate doesn't make you feel good. Hate makes you angry and tense and bitter. Now, we can legitimately be hurt by another person and feel rage , which shares components with hate. Regardless, I've known haters, and they are very negative individuals, they spend an exorbitant amount of time hating, they appear bitter, and they also gossip a lot. I never met a productive or ambitious hater. They seem to thrive on hate, on dysfunction, on advising others why you should hate, too. Hardly happy or secure, they lack self knowledge and never ever see themselves as the problem, but heck yeah, they ARE the problem. All that effort and time hating someone else…..could have been spent doing great things in their lives and in the world. A logical rational person would be able to put things in perspective and deal with it in a more healthy mature way. So, personally, I don't see haters as healthy, mature, logical, or even very smart. When you let your own problems grow and deny your own role in your dysfunctional life, it's the perfect formula for hate and bitterness. Whatever the reason they hate, the reality is, they are choosing to feel that and act on it. Oh, and they like to play the victim, too, when they know their actions are wrong. They will never admit it. They feed off hate. If you come across a hater, run away. Until they grow up, they can only bring you down or bore you with the constant complaining.
I feel my husband is a better person than me. I feel he deserves better. What can I do to fight these feelings
I think you should start by looking inside of yourself. I know loving yourself sound cliche.. but it's real. You have to start liking and loving yourself so you don't poison your relatiohship. Your husband obvioulsy sees something beautiful in you, or else he wouldn't have fallen in love in married you. One thing I learned from expereince is, if you start having this mindset that he's better than you and deserves better- you'll start acting that way and inevitably- he will start feeling that way- It's called a self fulfilling prophecy. The first thing you need to do is stop doing that to yourself and thinking those things. The second thing you need to do is forgive your family for thier dysfunctions. It's not your fault, but if you harbor any bitterness or hate toward them- it will only poison you in the long run. The third thing is concentrating on things the enhance yourself. Start working out and getting your body like you want it, get a hobby, read self-help books to help you combat your moodiness and anger. Whenever you feel angry and moody, do something nice for your husband. When ever you feel something negative beginning to form in your brain tell your husband you love him and give him a hug. Give yourself a mini makeover so you can feel good on the outside as you concentrate on the inside. Have days where you look sexy for no reason. In stead of concentrating on such negative thoughts- practice being romantic and spantaneos. Last but not least- if none of these suggestions work for you- you may have to see a psychologist to help you work out some of the kinks from your past.
Am i the only person who feels this way about watching certain movies with my boyfriend?
OMG!!! NO I FEEL EXACTLY LIKE THAT!!!!! no kidding!! like seriously! i hateeee it! :(!!! well..I HAATEED watching those movies with my ex boyfriend because he was an *** and looked at other girls, but if it makes you feel better, I have a better boyfriend and well, we havnet' really watched a ton of movies like taht but yeahhhhhhhhhh I hate that. It's not as bad because my boyfriend is better but it stilll bothers me sooo much!!! Like American Pie , I have never seen but my boyfriend has but I know it has a lot of naked girls in it and I was like okay why do you liike this movie?? and he was like oh it's funny....it has nothing to do withthat. my sister likes that movie. but then he was like yeah i would have to cover your eyes for a lot of parts...God !! I hate that!!! Ohh-I know something that could make you feel better for real-Okay so I have a guy best friend who isn't my boyfriend and we talked about this and he said something along the lines of, "Yeah i hate that! because you are sitting there watching it and you don'tknow what to do and you feel really bad " and he has a girlfriend. so that made me feel better...b/c maybe some guys hate it too and feel bad for their girlfriends...like my best friend..so yeah..:) hope that helped...it really is the worst feeling though
Can someone else make me feel a certain way?
In my opinion, no.Your mind is your own. You can choose what you do with it, including how you react to things others say or do.For example, let’s say somebody is really judgemental of you, or of something you did, or your life in general. That's their opinion, based on their perceptions. Let's say they criticise you, or refuse you certain privileges based on their assumptions.You could get angry. Or defensive. Upset. Revengeful.You could feel sorry for them - perhaps they have an unquiet mind, caused by who-knows-what. You could choose to remain neutral, or even start thinking of ways to cheer them up.Hell, maybe they are right, and you could use some self-reflection. Still your decision.If you allow yourself to feel angry etc, then you are going to have a difficult time of it, and that's your choice.If you allow yourself to remain calm, to have a mind of equanimity, that's also your choice, and you'll be fine.Conversely, let’s say you start the day feeling angry or sad. Someone comes along and cheers you up. Thanks, friend!Or, you can still be determined to have a bad day if you really put your mind to it.
How can a person make bossy people feel like nothing?
Probably, but that really isn't a great way to deal with bossy people. You don't have to destroy someone's self-esteem to get them to stop being bossy. In fact, bossiness could be a result of low self-esteem, an attempt to make the bossy person feel "better" than other people, so trying to destroy their self-esteem would just make the problem worse. Instead, try to set some kind of limit, or let them know that their bossiness is a real problem, but really try to be tactful.