I need to escape from Saudi Arabia because my parents are abusing me. How can I find an organization that helps a woman like me?
Ok I will try to give you some tips and possibillities, this will be expensive though so you will need cash as well.Delete all trails online leading to this page or any related searches: Delete the operating system on any device you are using, reset them to factory, if you are not doing so yet utilise a proxy service (TOR e.g.) If you have a n old computer or laptop use that one from now on solely for this endeavour. keep using your other devices normal as nothing is going on.It is of utmost importance that you do NOT change any behaviour.You will need Cash USD or Gold of the Value, the more the better, but probably at least 250k. This should cover escort, passports and fake ids, it will get you out of the country, if you have more money try to sent it to yourself or trusted friends in very small batches via western union or similar services, keep in mind a lot of amounts from the same area to a few persons can trigger checks of governments and SA is a close ally of the US.once you have that use your safe device (which you should encrypt) to contact some private contractors. (there are Facebook groups you can utilise if you have no other means), they will be able to also get you a fake id, depending on your borders you will probably have to leave on the land way, as the security at airports will be much tighter. I can and will not go into details about how this can be done as this will have to go with preparation in secret and once initialised extremely fast. and sudden, you will not be able nor should you try to take anything with you. Get a free cloud service account and take pictures of all your documents upload them there and memorise the access data, do under no circumstances write anything down.Try to get in contact with a European or Northern American NGO for females in need. Once you are outside of the country got to a US, German, dutch, Canadian or Scandinavian embassy and ask for asylum, do under no circumstances leave the embassy once you entered it. You have to stay in the embassy until they agree to have you flown out, stay calm do not start a scene, try to get in contact with the ego from before as well, they will know how to help and put public pressure on the government of the embassy.This is kept in general for certain reasons but this is a plan you can utilise in order to leave the country.
If a Saudi man marries an American women (in Saudi Arabia)?
It often happens, but is less likely to happen in Saudi than abroad. I know many American women who are successfully married to Saudis and have wonderful families. The Saudi families have been very accepting, in some cases accepting the children the American bride has from previous marriages and raising them as part of the family. My husband (who is Arab and not Saudi) says that some people are just attracted to people who are different (the opposites attract theory.) He also says that an American woman is much more likely to be willing to work to help support the family, and to contribute the to family expenses. A Saudi man might want to marry an American woman because she is well-educated (very important in Arab culture), she might be more willing to contribute to the family finances (which is optional for a Muslim woman), he might want to help and support a new Muslim (if she is Muslim), or he might just be attracted to someone who is different. As to the second part of the question, he might be reluctant to marry her because he might be afraid that she was not really settled in the culture and might want to leave later, or because his family expects him to marry someone else, or he might worry that she and he would be so different in their attitudes and expectations that they wouldn't be able to get along. Anyway, if the American woman who is considering marrying a Saudi writes to me (click on my avatar symbol on the left), I can connect her with a couple of email groups for western women in this type of cross-cultural situation. Helpful and fun!
Can I leave me parents and live alone in Saudi Arabia if I become 18?
It seems that he's asking as a foreigner who lives in Saudi Arabia, and no longer wishes to live at home with his parents. Though I agree with the general premise of being a man about it and having an adult conversation with your parents, there are some harsh realities of living in Saudi Arabia.You may NOT live there without a kafeel, sponsor. Your sponsor presently is your father, whose kafeel is his employer. (This of course is assuming that you are not a Saudi citizen). Leaving home is like being a runaway slave. You are very likely to be stopped at one of the many checkpoints and be asked for your iqama. It is very likely that at some point, you will have to call your kafeel (dad) to come get you from jail.This might get your dad in trouble and get him kicked out of the kingdom. It might even get you kicked out without your parents. Are you ready to live like that in another country?It is possible to change your kafeel (sponsor) via the nakalah kafalla process but your father would have to agree and do the paper work to actually transfer.But let me strongly warn you against going to a kafeel that's not your father. Parents might be tough on you but not like slave masters. Depending on who your sponsor is, you may get a cool one, or you might end up with a bad one. Regardless, your life is in their hands. Choose wisely.
Can men have long hair in Saudi Arabia?
Waist-length hair is a huge 'no-no' in Saudi Arabia. You can get away with hiding a small ponytail underneath your shmagh, but even that won't work when you're a high school student. High school is hell everywhere in the world, but in Saudi Arabia it's even more so. Your dad should try to send you to one of those American or British schools or, at the very least, to an expensive private school. If you go to a government high school, well, let's just say it won't be a pleasant experience.
I fell in love with a Saudi Arabian girl...?
1. You have to convert to Islam to marry a Muslima. 2. She needs permission from the authorities to marry a foreigner (that can take years). 3. You may not be accepted by her family 4. You will not gain Saudi citizenship by marriage 5. Your kids will have your nationality 6. She will loose her nationality by aplying for yours 7. Do not think about getting married in your home country, because she would need her father's/brother's permission to travel. Please think twice before to put a girl through all these hassles. I live in the UAE. A friend of mine got marred to a British Muslim without permission. She returned to the UAE to renew her passport and got detained on the spot for 7 months. It took us to involve human rights to free her. You as a Christian European and a Saudi girl? Please think twice for both of you. edit@your additional: not very often. As a father I may not give my permission for this marriage either. I am able to think in the long run. Please do not hurt a girl by being selfish.
How's life like for women in Saudi Arabia?
You know.. These questions are common place to Saudi girls.. I have to say.. We Saudi girls are happy and content with our lives.. Our culture is different from a western girls prospective, but we've survived and lived for many thousands of years in our culture and are fine with it.. People seem to think that if we dont live in a "western" style environment that we arent happy.. Ask your women, are all the western girls truly "happy" with their lives? Life is what you make of it. And we are generally happy as much as the next girl.. Sure there are always exceptions.. Ask the oppressed wife, daughter, sister that is in a complicated family there in USA, is she content? We Saudi women live by Islam, which is geared to protect us.. Yes we have guardians, its to protect us in all situations, more so than some women in other countries that are exploited for sex and their bodies. WE cannot drive, but this is to no fault of our men, in fact, id say 90% of the husbands, uncles, brothers etc probably would like if we can drive. It certainly would save on importing foreign drivers that who knows what morals they have.. Some of us are working women, some not, we have bank accounts, we travel, we socialize. WE work out (some of us do) we hang out and socialize with friends. We do not date in the western sense of the word "date".. Here dating or finding a partner is not for socializing fun.. Its serious and only done with the intent to find a spouse.. So once you find a partner, you make your intent to get engaged, then after legal formal engagement, this is the time you can date and get to know the person. Still though, we do not have sexual relations till after the formal marriage.. But if during the engagement you find you are not compatable with your fiance. you can call off things and no ones chastity has been breached..
What is the process for a mexican citizen woman to marry a saudi man and move to saudi arabia?
although there is some truth to the rules that "bird" gave you up there.. Dont let that scare you off.. I have hundreds of western women friends that are here in SaudiArabia married to Saudi men.. And they are fine about it.. (my mother being one of them).. Yes there is a headache of paperwork getting you approved to move to Saudi, but its doable, just takes time and patience.. You need to contact the Saudi Embassy in Mexico to ask what papers you need, they can start you through the process on your end.. and as for how long it takes.. That depends on the luck of who is in office at the time when your husband submits his papers.. It can take as little as a few weeks, up to 3 or 4 years.. Ive heard all stories.. For my Mom personally it took her 3 years to gain permission.. I have a best friend who it only took 3 weeks. so who knows..