Why is he treating me like a stranger?
So there's this guy and he's my friend and we would always talk and he would always say hi & give me a big hug. Then a couple days ago we went and did something ;p like got a liddo freakyy youu knoooww idk i dont wanna use a lotta detail then people are gonna be like shlluuuut but yea & now he makes it seem awkward when we see eachother like ill be walking to class & he looks at me all weird & im like ohh hi cuz i see him looking u kno & he justt sayysss hiiii.. like not the same anymore. & he was staring straight at me so idk why you would stare then say hi all weird. & he does that ALL the time now. then when im with him and my other friend he talks to her more & ignores me and acts like he hardly knows me. idk my friend says i need to be normal and talk first so he wont feel awkward but idk wat do u guys think sorry if i suck at explaining i kinda dont wana make this that long. but yea my question is why is he doing this it irritates me like we're in a group & he acts like i'm not there like he ignores me its like HELLO IM RIGHT HERE do u not remember what happened -_- ! soo yess yess .... ;p
He treats me like a queen?
He has been a professional colleague for 3 years now. Our friendship has been casual. We are the only ones from our department who are attending a conference away from our city ( for 3 weeks) now. We will be here for another week. He has been very good to me and treats me like a queen. He is single and a real nice person. I know he likes me a lot. Even though i have been alone with him most times, he has not attempted to touch or kiss me. This makes me feel very respected and i think i like him. is it too early?
Why does he treat me like a nobody?
He treats you badly because he is selfish, inconsiderate, thoughtless, and has no respect for you. He is nice just enough to keep you hanging on. This is called manipulation, and is dishonest and cruel.He doesn’t sound like much of a catch to me. Even if a relationship is strictly sexual with no strings, who wants to spend ANY time with a horrible person?YOU deserve a lot better. I found when I set my standards high— no exceptions— that life was a lot easier. I simply don’t have time for cruel, thoughtless, shallow people. I’m sure you spotted this in your friend early on, yet you continued to pursue the relationship. Don’t do this.Self-esteem is important. I suggest surrounding yourself with people who appreciate you instead of sketchy men who abuse and mistreat you. If you can, speak to a professional counsellor or therapist.Good luck!
How can I treat tendinitis in my thumb?
I have tendinitis in my thumb as a result of texting. I have been to the doctors, but he just said "rest it and come back if it get any worse" - very helpful! Has anyone had the same form of tendinitis, and do you have any tips on how I can treat it myself? It goes without saying - I've changed my method of texting!
Why did he treat me this way after everything I have done for him?
For starters he doesn't seem like long term for anyone. With so many men out there why in the world would you want to taken on so much baggage? He's got a lot of issues and unless you want to deal with all that there's no better advice I can give you than to move on with your life and find a partner that can give you the long term relationship you are looking for (like your parents) without all the unnecessary extra baggage. We all have issues and no one is perfect but seriously starting with all that is not going to give you a good start. A lot of people start off good and things happen and people change and then there's divorce but in your case you are already starting up bad. Just ask yourself is this the kind of father I would want? Then think of your future kids. People get with the wrong person then wonder why they are such shitty fathers well your kids can't choose their father but you can so don't just think of yourself think of them. Find someone you will be happy to call your babies daddy and someone your kids will one day be proud off.
How do I deal with the person I love but treats me like shit?
It's very hard to deal with loving someone so much but having them discard that love and hurt your heart every time you talk to them.Why do they treat you like shit?I doubt it is your fault that THEY treat you like shit but you could always try to think about WHY they do so.Are they stressed from work?Are you mean to them?Are they emotionless and has the heart of someone who doesn't have a heart?Or, do you just not have any idea?I'm going to say flat out, there's nothing you can do but cutting yourself off from them and backing off, or upfront telling them what they are doing wrong. Cutting them off and doing this may make them:A) Realize they are treating you like shit and work in themselvesB) Make them not careAnd flat out just telling them what they have been treating you like will probably not get you anywhere. I know very few people who will willingly admit to their mistakes to help the relationship. Many of my relationships that I cut off, this helped almost 0% and just caused fighting. But communication is key. Try to communicate with them and they may understand and see what they are doing.But chances are, if they treat you like shit, they won't stop.Loving someone like that and being vulnerable towards them is not good when you aren't receiving it back. It hurts you and crashes and bashes your heart.I recommend distancing yourself from them. No, it will not be easy. No, you will not take it okay. And you will probably be very sad but overall it will help you and change you for the better.Recognizing the bad in a relationship is actually important in order to know your boundaries.Love isn't always mutual.
How can he love me if all he does is treat and talk to me so badly? How can he say he loves me?
Honey he doesn't love you he's lying he saying whatever you need to hear because he's got an ulterior motive maybe you're doing his laundry maybe you know how to cook really good and he gets a free meal maybe he gets to do sexual things to you that no other girl would let him do whatever the reason is he doesn't love you you don't treat someone like s*** if you love them you need to get that through your head and get away from this guy put your foot down hold your ground make boundaries for yourself and say I will not allow anyone to talk to me like that and if that's how you're going to talk to me I'm gone goodbye you'll never hear from me again that's what you need to do and once you do that he will either get right and realize hey I can't take advantage of this girl she really does love me and I don't want to lose her or he'll say okay f*** you too then and the guy that comes along next and every one of them after that will be more attracted to you because they'll see the confidence in you cuz you know what you want and you won't settle for less and you'll never be treated like s*** again but you must put your foot down and keep boundaries. Don't get me wrong everybody has bad days I'm shooting to my kids I'm shity to my friend sometimes but you know what I can turn around and say hey I apologize for talking to you like that that was uncalled for because I care about these people and I don't want to be like that everybody's entitled to a bad day but on the General on the norm if he's being an ass leave him behind and don't ever look back or tell him to kick rocks. There's something about confidence when people have it it's very attractive so make yourself more attractive make sure you know how you want people to treat you and stick to it your confidence will attract so many people then you'll think to yourself why did I even waste my time with that guy and next time you see me this laugh because he's the one losing out he's losing out on having a good solid relationship with anybody because you don't treat people like that and he's definitely not going to be treating you like that because you're not going to allow it you're not going to wonder why he's doing it you're not going to wonder if he loves you you're going to not settle for it you're not going to accept it. Good luck hope this helps
My boyfriend doesn't treat me how he used to?
I have no idea what to do I'm 22 yrs old & I've had a bf for a yr & 4 mos yet we had broken up for a month...we were engaged for 6 mos and I meant the world to him anytime we had a fight he would do something really sweet to make it up to me....I had broken up with him due to his obsessive game playing on the computer I got sick of no attention paid to me...we barely see each other (one day a week) and I wouldn't mind if he played an hour or two in the morning but it seemed like all day long he played....anyways after we got back together now it's like he's completely changed...he used to run things by me if there was something he wanted to do on our one day together...now he tells me I'm doing this you can come if you want...also I've done so many nice things for him and I get a thanks and nothing back ever...also he goes out w/co workers girls and guys and no significant others are invited which I don't like. I'm completely lost he's not how he used to be and I don't know what to do
Why does he treats me differently?
This is a good time to have the chance to ask this question, as I would not have known at your age, but I do have some info. for you! You 'catch him staring at me when he flirts with them' because he want to know your reaction, if you become jealous. He's looking for a sign from you that you like him! 'Whenever I'm playing with other guys he gets quiet and looks away' means he wants to be one of those other guys, if fact, he wants to be your 'guy'! 'He hugged two of my girl friends and grabbed their butts both times he looked at me .When he hugged me he said he wasn't going to do that to me .' This is a sign of respect he will not do that to you. When he grabs a handful of butt in public, he's looking for a reaction from the girls, but he doesn't care if the get upset or bothered because as you said, 'I know for a fact that he doesn't like them either because he said it .' Finally, 'Why does he flirt with other girls and not me ? Why do I get treated differently ?' He's worried you will reject him, and that will hurt him. This guy has a tender heart, but you'll need to care for it gently if you want to have him. If you like him, tell him. He's waiting for you....