I've lost my family & my closest friends im not sure what to do but i think its time i left this world?
Obviously you are a very caring person who has the potential to make many people in your life happy, otherwise you would not care that you supposively don't have anyone that care about you. Life gets hard and you must stay strong because sometimes it takes a person to hit rock bottom before they can see the light of great things that are coming. IF you are a religious person, please pray. It really does help. If you are a not a religious person, go talk to someone or even try to talk to God if you have never before and see how it makes you feel. Don't take yourself out of this world, there are people out there who need you just like you need people right now.
Should you choose a girlfriend over a best friend or the other way round?
I wouldn’t choose the one who puts me in that situation.It’s simple.Friendship and love are two different aspects of my life. I can’t compare the two. My best friends mean as much to me as love, if not more. Anybody who wants me to choose one out of the two, goes out of my life. I will hold the door open for that person. Be it love, be it a best friend.I’m the kind of person who will never say to the love of my life or to my best friend, “I can’t live without you.” Instead, I’d say, “I can live without you. But I don’t want to.”What’s the difference?The fact that I don’t need anybody. People are there in my life because I want them to be there and I make efforts to keep them in my life. It’s not because I need them. I have survived days with zero friends, nobody to call up and talk to, and I’ve been okay. I know what it is like to not have a close friend or someone you truly love, and that is why I learnt to make amazing friendships.But I’ve also learnt from that phase, that people come and go. They stay if they want to stay in your life. Sometimes, you can try as hard as you want, but if they want to leave, you will eventually have to let them go. And that’s difficult but not impossible.I have taught myself to be okay on my own.So, when it comes to choosing between a best friend and love, I don’t think I’d make a choice. Whoever wants me to choose knows where the exit door is.I’m a secure individual who is mature enough to manage her relationships, to not let either my best friend or love feel insecure of where they stand in my life. I’m sure I won’t ever get into a situation where my best friend would have a problem with the person I love, or vice versa. I can handle love with love, and friendship with friendship.But if I ever come across a choice, I won’t make any.
My girlfriend doesn't want to talk to me after a death in her family,any thoughts?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years on March. On January 24th her step father passed in a horrible car accident that morning. She texted when she got to the hospital to tell me what happened and I told her that I would be there in 20min. I got there to try to make her feel better and comfort her through her hard time. My mom and I went to the funeral to pay our respects and to help my girlfriend and her family. After the funeral she doesn't want to talk to me and gets mad when I text or call her. Before the accident her and I were doing great, I took her out to dinner and things were good. I asked her cousins if she has been talking to anyone and they said no but I just can't believe that she would want to shut everyone out. Any advice?
I miss my ex girlfriend and I'm depressed?
how old are you and her? The worst I ever had a girl break my heart was after we had a baby, while I was at work she was doing my best friend, It hurts, even though I knew all that, I quit 2 jobs making top dollar. It seems like she wanted your virginity, look at it this way, You had a woman want you cause you were a virgin, strut your stuff, I know it hurts, but cry at home if you have to, and laugh it off around your friends, Talk it like you had her and tell everyone you dumped her when you found out she was a slut. The Pain will pass buddy
If we all die eventually, why is suicide considered wrong?
I mean, the world is pretty over populated, and not everyone wants to be alive. Isn't it cruel to keep someone where they don't want to be? Why is it considered wrong if you're just going to die anyways? Why do people call those who are at the end of their rope selfish for thinking that way? I've never really gotten how it's selfish. It's their life, they can do what they want with it, can't they? Thank you. =]