How to deal with bullies?
Read: So there are these two quite popular and funny people in my form, who my best friend has recently become best friends with. However, she is literally to blind to notice they are bullying me and there is nothing I can do about it. Everyday they exclude me from their coversations, talk about times they met up without me etc when I'm there. Especially when my friend isn't there, they make rude and unnecessary comments like: (A group of people was having a conversation about school uniform prices) Me - " I know, and I think the jumpers are getting more expensive" The other person "Oh you can't complain, your grandparents are doctors" The only time they ever speak to me without making a horrid comment is when they ask to copy my homework...
What are ways to deal with bullies?
bullys prey on the weak or those susceptible to teasing, and harassing. Its harder to bully someone who shows no fear or timidness.
How should I deal with Ghetto bullies?
Before you read this, I am not basing this off of race/ethnicity, I'm basing this off of past experience as everyone who was considered "ghetto" has bullied me for being "the new white kid" in the two middle schools I've been to. Anyway, I'm about to move to Jacksonville, FL and I'm really nervous because I know that cities with a larger population have a lot of schools with these kinds of kids in them. I even lived in Champaign, Illinois for 2 years when I was in middle school and the schools over there are not what I would call decent. These kids would always call me ugly, fat. and even tried to pick fights with me. I moved away from Champaign after my 8th grade year ended and moved to Gulf Shores, Alabama. I'm a freshman in high school and I've already had to move to 2 different schools with the next one being the 3rd one because of my families financial issues. Anyway, I'm not concerned about rumors and name calling. It's mainly them coming up to me and taunting me. And by that I'm talking about them get pretty close and personal and just being violent towards me. And by the way, I already know telling a teacher/administrator won't do anything. If anything it'll make the situation worse Anyway, that's all I'm concerned about. I'm trying to avoid a fight as best I can since my parents would raise hell on me for fighting.
How to deal with bullies at school?
I'm 13 and in 8th grade. I get picked on a lot by the jocks. 2-3 in particular. I cant go to the school about it, because one of the kids is the teachers son. She would simply bail him out. I've tried talking to my best friend. He's a jock too, but he's the nicest guy you could ever meet. And he's a massive line backer. He always defends me when I have a problem, even though I don't always want him to. He's a great friend, but I can't hang out with him much because of these people. I talked to my parents, and they don't really do anything. The best I got was from a 50 year old pothead so far. And that was to get all the freaks to gang up on the jocks. It's not really gonna work Lol. So I really need help here. These guys are all round superior to me. The are more athletic, smarter, "nicer",funnier, get more girls than I could imagine,and they are 2-3 times my size (actual weight). I'm fairly good at most of those traits but they just kick my *** at it. I can fight a little bit, but if I do choose so, I will have 30 150 pound guys raining punches on me all day every day. That's only if they resort to violence as well. What can I do/say to get them off my back. Only I can do this. And I need to do it ASAP, because I did think a lot, and my performance this year in school determines the rest of my life. This is hs placement. That is college placement. And college determines your life. If I mess up I'm fxcked. And these guys are making me falter and its the SECOND day of school. If I don't stop them soon I will not have a home, or a job, or a family. Everything in ky life resides on this. Please help!
How to deal with a bully?
Okay, First of all I am in the 7th grade. Okay today is my first day at highschool and its been great, I doing well at school and all. But Year 11's are bullying me (Physically) And I am a really weak person. I DO NOT want to tell the teacher cause they actually might harm me more since the teacher knows and just tells them off. ARGGH They wont leave me alone. And my big bro isn't doing anything :(
How do I deal with fake friends and bullies?
Have affirmations: Start saying to yourself that this in not the friendship you wanted and you moving on with bigger and better things. Make an affirmation that copies this same affirmation, so that you can let yourself know what you are doing as far as the friendship is going. Set goals, imagine that you are being motivated. Just by your fake friends not building you up or being there, get around to activities and things that you like, so that you won't end up being drained by your fake friend. Strive to become better, and meet other people who are open to you. Obviously you are doing something right if they are not around you. So, be yourself and wear your new confidence as this sentence: as long as you keep mistreating me, im going to still treat you right with respect because my life goals say that you can go/handle the next level im going to.