At what age do guys finally grow up?
Sorry, I don't think males ever grow up.My husband is almost 40, still acts like a kid sometimes.
What age do guys finally grow up?
It depends on the guy. I knew guys in high school who had the mentality and maturity of a 35 year old, and I know guys my age (28) who still act like they're in high school. In general, though, it's a matter of life experience. Americans don't have rights of passage like some other cultures to tell them when you're an adult. A Bar Mitzvah is close, but still not right. So we kind of become adults at a disjointed pace. We also tend to learn by doing things wrong. That is to say, we don't learn to not do dumb things until we've done a dumb thing already and have to deal with the consequences. I learned an aphorism when I was little that explained it a lot easier: "Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement." Substitute maturity for judgement, and it still holds true. So if you're asking when a guy will grow up and stop treating you like a jerk, then the answer is that he will as soon as you dump his *** and he loses you forever. It doesn't help *you* any, but the next woman he's with will benefit. For your own benefit, you'll probably have to find a guy to whom that's already happened. There's also the possibility that kicking him to the curb will be the boot in the butt he needs in order to get his life together, in which case you two might wind up back together and better than ever. It's doubtful, but it's possible. Last thought to share is that men are interesting. We can be mature and immature at the same time. By that I mean that we can be mature, rational adults who treat their loved ones with respect, but we'll always have a soft spot for, say, Guitar Hero or KISS action figures. If a guy has a hobby like that and you think it's immature, then be conscious of the fact that he can still be a perfectly normal person in all other respects. Let him have his quirks, if that's the case. It's more interesting that way. In the meantime, good luck. We can be a frustrating lot, but I think we're worth it.
Why does travelling help you grow as a person?
Traveling helps you break away from stereotypes and develop an understanding of the subtle differences and yet intrinsic similarities between people from around the world. The birds eye view of life that you will get will definitely make you simpler and humbler. You will learn to appreciate others.No matter how much you plan for a trip, there will be situations in each and every trip when you have to take some decisions instantly. The experiences will gradually make you more confident as a person. You will get the opportunity to learn so many things.The best part of traveling is the journey not the destinations. You will meet so many strangers in the train or in the bus or in the boats. You will get so many stories to tell everyone when you are back. Personally, the first time when I went outside my state three years back, I was scared but excited. I had to go to Mohali from Kolkata for my summer internship. In the train, I met three amazing persons : a PhD scholar from IACS, an army engineer who was posted in Ladakh and an old business man. The whole journey was so much fun. We talked about politics in West Bengal, watched movies together in our laptop and finally said goodbye to each other. That summer, I roamed around so many places in Punjub and Himachal Pradesh. My views were changed.And finally you will realize how beautiful the world is. The stunning view of mountains, valleys, lonely beaches, dense jungles, deserts will be a source of energy when you will be back in your busy life.
When do men finally grow up and become responsible?
I'm engaged to a man in his mid 40's who is not financially stable enough to take care of a family yet, but he says he wants one. He has many good qualities, but this is one thing I'm hesitant about because it could affect my future. He's never been married and has no kids. He works full time and has a stable job, but I'm not exactly sure how he manages to spend all of his income and not save anything. I know this because a couple things have come up in his life and he has not had the $ to pay for things, and has needed to set up payment plans. He also goes to those check cashing places for cash advances, which I don't believe is a good thing. I'm thinking of holding off on setting a wedding date until he works on his credit and gets some $ in savings. I'm very responsible, with near perfect credit and an emergency fund, contribute to my 401k to the match, etc, have my act together. It seemed like he had things together, too, until I asked more questions. If someone has been irresponsible in the past will they always be that way? Or is there a chance of a person changing their ways? I'm a single mom and doing just fine, I don't want someone to drag me down, I think essentially that's what I'm worried about.
What is the condition called where a person can't grow hair? not just on their head, but all over their body?
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Do geminis ever grow up mentally and emotionally?
Sorry, I don't want to bash geminis. Based on the people I know - who happen to be geminis, I feel like they've never change. I'm sure they do have their moments when they are wise but I think it's bc you're so used to hearing silly things from them and they're rarely serious. You either get their fun side or their pissed off "I'm talking behind your back" side. It seems that they think buying a house, getting married, or having children prove maturity but many there are many spiritual signs who believe it's inner spirit that show maturity, regardless of a new house or marriage. It seems like some of them who do mature, seem to calm down a bit but they still have that same mentality. Again, I don't want to speak bad and we're all different and I accept it. (My grandfather is in his 70's and his thought process is still of a teenager...cannot seem to think outside the box; my colleague is in his 40's and his thought process is like a catty, 16 year old girl...the way he deals with people is...mmm...let's say a 6th grader can handle better...and a "friend"....is getting married but still has the same thought process from when she was 17...she really didn't change. She does seem more calm though...) PEACE geminis!!