How can I fix things with a girl? I thought she didn’t like me, so I told her I just wanted to be friends, and that made her mad because she thought I was stringing her along.
Thanks for the A2A !Well, am not the person in right mind who would like to amend things with a girl, after it got screwed up. But you learn from your mistakes and so did I. What i write further may not work wonders for you, but try giving it a shot.i) First and foremost, donot look down upon yourself and stop calling yourself a dumbass, for the sake of people who love and care about you. I assume that you are relatively young and have lots to do and see in life. You learn from your experiences, so you would learn about women too eventually.ii) Question yourself that why do you want this girl so badly, and what is the existence of this female in your life at any point of time and is it so important that you are leading a conflicted life because of that. If you can convince yourself with the answer, read further else try to figure out what is wrong.iii) Misunderstandings do happen and we all being human tend to do that. But its equally important to clear off the air, which you want to do. And how can you do that ?, reach out to her by call/mail/ watsapp or whatever technology suits you better. Do not let the preconceived notion of "i think she would or i am not sure how she would" come in picture at all. How can do you even think on her behalf. I smell more of a male ego here, so let go of that.iv)If the technology aspect doesnot work, find a close friend of hers, explain the situation and if you are desperate, you would find means to have a meeting with her. But donot stalk her or follow her, women find it creepy.v) Now when you have got to meet her, remember one thing. This might be the last opportunity to meet or talk out to her. So pour your heart out. It okay for a man to be emotional, so show you emotional side rather than the masculine one.vi) And always keep it in mind that there's a thin line between conversation, an argument and a fight, so keep your nerves under control. And its always a woman who decides the difference between talking and harassment, so donot let things go out of your control.All the best, give it a shot. I have a gut feeling that you will get through this. P.S. If the lady in question does not a give a damn despite of your attempts to reach out to her, perhaps she is not the one for you. Accept the fact and move on, life has certainly a better one in store for you.
How to fix things between me and my crush ?
I did some stupid stuff...nohing serious like hitting her or sth but things that mess things up..we had a mini fight (lol) and exchanged blocking on all social medias (lolol) . It's been 7 months and we're gonna meet in a class reunion and I really want her to see me again as a "friend"... for now at least :D So any tips ? Thanks !
How do I fix things with my now ex-girlfriend?
Hi, I am madly and deeply in love with my recently ex-girlfriend. I ****** up, I'm not even going to try and justify, I plain ****** up. I have a friend, a girl, whom I sort of talked to a lot during our relationship. I never thought anything more of her than a friend because well, I had a girlfriend whom I love very much. However, I did say some questionable things to her, I would kind of use her as a vent to rant about my frustrations about my girlfriend and I did say some insulting things about her. As well, I told her that I loved her, as a friend, and I was semi-flirty with her. My girlfriend went through and read all of our messages to each other and she feels like I've lied to her, betrayed her trust, and cheated on her. And although I did not cheat on her physically, I did go a little too far in some of the things I said to my friend and it was completely inappropriate to do as I was in a relationship. I've cried and plead to my ex-girlfriend over these past couple days telling her that this girl meant nothing to me, and I was completely in the wrong. I've told her countless times how much I love her but she just doesn't feel like she can trust me anymore. And yes, I've told her all of this, I've told her that I just wish we could cry our hearts out, be completely truthful to each other about everything, and work this out. But it just doesn't seem to be working. She told me that she wants to try and rebuild her trust in me as friends but until then she can't be in a relationship with someone she can't trust. She told me that she is still in love with me and she hasn't lost hope in us just yet but I'm very scared of what our future holds. I've been talking to her non-stop as always, that much hasn't changed. But I'm wondering what I should do from here, should I still be talking to her? Is that going to make her comfortable with the idea of being just friends with me? What approach should I take to this? I really ****** things up and I feel like a worthless piece of **** for what I've done. I love her very, very, very, much, she's the best thing that's ever happened to me. What should I do? (Sorry for the wall of text.)
I want to fix things between us. What should I do now?
My boyfriend broke up with me a couple days ago. It was one of those things where he still loves me, and hes leaving it open to possibly get back together someday, but hes got a lot going on right now and I'm going to college an hour away in a week so hes stressed about that and thinks i wont have time to come home like i said, but he still loves me very much and doesnt exactly want this break up, but thinks its best for now. Today, i decided to try texting him because he begged me to stay friends with him. He answered quickly enough, and he's never been much for texting more than a few words at a time...when we dated sometimes i would confuse this for him being upset, but thats just how he is. I asked him how he was doing, and he said ok i guess. Hes making no effort to hide that hes not happy. I took the cheery approach and sent him encouraging texts back, and even putting smiley faces to keep the mood light. I want him to enjoy talking to me, not dread it because i bum him out. Well he stopped answering me after about 45 minutes of talking, and my last text was very positive about the rain stopping so he could work on his deck building project (the same project that he has for school that is part of why he doesnt have much time to devote to a relationship with me at this point in time) and then i sent him one saying "11:11 make a wish!" after about 10- 15 minutes of not hearing back. Ive left it alone, but now idk what to do. He seems very unhappy, but im the one that got broken up with here and hes seen me cry and be upset over it. But my positivity doesnt seem to be working...is it good that im being positive or should i drop the happy face and tell him that i miss him? i feel awkward about initiating conversation again after him just dropping out of texting me. What should i do? Im trying to keep the window open for us to work things out...i want nothing more than to be back with him as his girlfriend, but i know that hes got a lot going on. If it helps to know, hes the typical nice guy. Never lies, cheats, and wasn't impatient or cold on me at all when he broke up with me. He hugged me and even kissed me on the lips before i left his house after we talked and he explained why and i cried and asked him not to go. so what do i do from here?
Accidentally rejected the man I really like; help with fixing things?
Hate to quibble (yea, right) but it doesn't seem to me you rejected him. Maybe got ahead of his "schedule" for a connecting but that's not rejection at all. The best relationships involving romance are between friends. So, be a friend. Friends talk, help each other (in small ways first), respond, discuss events, and problems solve.
Help! My crush thinks I'm obsessed and I need to fix things between us.?
Just go up to him and tell him in a sincere and kind voice that you believe he got the wrong impression of you, but you forgive him and you would like to sing the duet with him. You may think I read your question wrong, but psychologically it works if you shift the blame more to him so you seem innocent. Good luck! Answer my question? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...
My girlfriend is distancing herself from me. What can I do to fix it?
Stay as close to her as possible. I go through periods like this with my boyfriend. It's a difficult time for her and you. She must be feeling pretty down to feel the need to push you away. It's not even really pushing you away. When I distance myself from my boyfriend it just means I'm very stressed out at that time and as a way of avoiding pulling him down with me I distance myself. This gives me space so I can pick myself back up and allows me to avoid hurting him at the same time. I think he notices that I'm distancing myself from him, as you have noticed with your girlfriend. I text him back sometimes 6 hours after he has sent me a message and I don't ask him to see me as often as I usually do and I simply don't show him as much love. The way he seems to pull me back in is not to distance himself too. Don't try and seek revenge at all. Keep her close and communicate. Ask her how she is often and just try to see her as much as you can. This really helps and then hopefully, when she is ready, things will go back to normal again.Good luck and if you need anymore advice don't hesitate to comment or PM me:)
I asked out a friend and she said no, now things are awkward. How do I make things cool between us again?
Things are going to be a little bit awkward for a while. The best thing you can do is say “Hey, it’s okay that you said no, I don’t want things to be awkward between us,” and see what she says. The second best thing you can do is express interest in someone else. I’ve been in a lot of situations where I will avoid someone who likes me if I don’t like them back, but once that person says “Oh, this girl I met is so great” or “I really like this girl”, it completely will lift the pressure off my shoulders and I’m more comfortable.Give her space for now, and see where things go! Good luck!