How do I fix these problems with my best friend?
Super-cliche answer coming up, but the truth is, if she's really your friend, this will pass. She's not going to throw away her best friend because she had to go to work. Eventually you two will get to talking and you'll explain that if you had to answer which is your favorite thing to do: go to work vs. hang out with your friend, you'd obviously answer the latter because, duh.She'll still be defensive even though she knows she's wrong and didn't need to blow up in that way because she doesn't want to look stupid but you're sympathetic to the fact that hey, it's your birthday, we had plans. Your expectations were not met and as a result, she felt bad. Shit happens. It wasn't your idea to plan all of this and then leave her hanging at the last minute because, duh. That's just not cool.If she's your friend, it'll be water under the bridge soon enough. If it never happens, congratulations, you just lost a fake friend.
How can I help my best friend deal with his problems at home?
Now, if this is the situation!He must get out and stand on his own. And seriously if you want to help him, you must take him to your home..give him shelter and food for sometime.Give him sometime to grow himself! If he does, he will be all over it. Then, he should go back to his home and make his parents see what he has done. If he doesnt, he must find a way. Make him understand this way!See dear, this is a very practical as well as emotional life. But always remember that we all are on our own because this the modern age and everybody is selfish!Cheers! Hope this helped.
I have a problem me and my best friend both like the same girl but I am also pretty much best friends with her too. What do I do because I don't want to cause any problems?
Talk to the non-girl best friend about it. If you don’t, somewhere down the line, there’ll probably be problems, and a little bit of jealousy. Remember to keep a very open mind, and try and reach a mutually agreeable conclusion.If there’s a terrible fallout over her, then lie down and cry.However, keep the lady in mind- she’s not an object, and she has her own opinions.Most usual outcome for scenarios like this is that she isn’t romantically interested in either one of you, and there’s no falling out, just slight disappointment.Though, if you happen to know that she is definitely 100% romantically interested in one of you, someone’s going to be sad.It might work out if one of you get in a relationship with her, and the relationship doesn’t work out. Then person #2 can usually ask her out, and as long as person #1 isn’t still in love, things could actually go okay.
How can I fix problems with my best friends when they don’t trust and they don't want to talk to me?
You cannot, you can only begin to fix those problems once they both want to talk to you and they trust you. Do n`t put on them by letter writing, you will require to move in their circles but with new friends, do the best job of it this time, and the old friends must be the ones to approach you.
What’s up with my best friend?
Okay so, I have been friend with this girl for a year (I am also a girl) we are best friends only because she kind of rushed the friendship because of home issues. I just found out that she might be bisexual from another friend and I’m totally okay with that! The only problem is that she took one of my sweatshirts to wear to bed because my scent calms her down and she shows up to my house unexpected and barely hangs out with anyone else and gets upset when I do. She always talks about how she wants to live with me because her mom is crazy and how I’m the only one who makes her happy, and whenever she sleeps over she wants to share a bed but I kick in my sleep and like my space(it’s the same with everyone also). Ok anyways I just need clarification does she like me? Is she obsessed or something? I really want to keep out friendship but she just seems a little too attatched.
My best guy friend hates me, how do I fix it?
Long story short I hurt my best guy friend badly because I was apparently stressing him out too much about my problems and telling him too much about others problems. My best guy friend was someone I always came to for help because he understood me and told me not to worry about things because he was aka way here for me and he'd never leave me. He even said he loved me once. So, he told me I was stressing him out and causing his grades to drop. After I apologized for everything, he accused me of constantly lying to him. Stabbing him in the back, and hurting the ones he cares about most. (The girl he likes was going to do something humiliating to me) but he claims I start things because I have an attention problem. I don't. I hate drama. But she hurt me badly. And he said he would always be there. So I told him. And he accused me of all of that, so I aplogized. He then completely ended our friendships over text and said "I think it would be better for me if we don't talk." I miss him like crazy and I want to talk things out but he won't let me. I love him. And I just want us to be friends again. Please help me.
How do I fix a realtionship between me and my best friend?
Not quorans but only you can help yourself with it.Additionally what I can suggest is:TALK.. not to win a battle or argument but to win your friendship.. Don't be polemical. Make a polite approach, doesn't matter who is wrong. Everyone commits some crime, trivial or significant. Accordingly everyone has some flaws including you. Accept it and respect it. When friendship become priority then ego, attitude, any stupid reason will be secondary and can be sorted out. He/She is your best friend for a reason. Blow your hesitation away. Be honest and spread happiness. Good luck. Thanks!
Im having friendship problems.. HELP!?
ok well i have been having a rocky friendship, between my bestfriend and my ex bestfriend, i ABSOULUTLY HATE my ex bestfriend and my bestfriend has like every class with her, i cant help but to get extremly jelious when i see them together, or talking. i trust my bestfriend but i think i need to kno how to trust myself, sometimes when my bestfriend is over and were bored she send text messages to everyone in her phone contact and my ex bestfriend is part of it, well she sends something back and then they start texting, i get extremly jelious and worried, my bestfriend says that she hates her and everything, but when i see stuff writtin on her hand by my ex bestfriend gets me soo mad but i dont say anything, i act like it dont bother me but inside im melting, i cant help but to think of them 2 becoming friends, or something i need to kno what to do, and FAST this is realy concerning me.
Friendship: Had a fight with my best friend. what should I do?
I don't know. It's exactly not a fight but somehow it is…It happened with me today just a hour back .Little background, I know him for at least 3years and he his stuck in his life because of some personal issues and tried alot that he tried at least once to come out from his stuck situation but I totally failed in that.Whenever he needs me I am there butHe is simply saying he is stuck . He knows this but never tried to come out . If tried he is scared.He is a nice guy but his difficult situation made him a guy who has no feelings , no happiness . He thinks he is happy to be stay alone but internally he is not strong . He is not giving importance to anyone in his life he doesn't think once this is the high time to get out from all this but he doesn't do and blaming me that I am not understanding.I don't want to able to see him like this because he is my very fast friend.Today again when I am trying to explain the things in positive manner he doesn't understand and go in a negative way and his anger get out like a lava.I said him “ tu bol le , Tere andar Jo bahara h usko Nikal le am listening”He misinterpreted my wordings and said me many things and he also said that am irritating him.I was shocked to listen this and cried but can't because at that time I am in a metro but it hurts alot and very peaceful we had cut the call.And after 5 minutes, I called him again and said “ it's ok whatever you feel, if it's your anger or not , we have to stop all this here. Now we don't talk anymore “ and cut the call .But , it's not easy to finish the friendship . I'm shocked too he is completely okay with it. He said it's okay. He never think once what he is saying.It feels bad.I Don't know.. what's next but I pray whatever he wants in his life god will give him and hope soon he will get out from all his problem.Stay happy friend. Bye.Please don't go on my English ignore error..