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How Can I Get Alone With Someone

I'm home alone and someone is in the house!?

If this isnt a joke (even though most people realise its a joke!) then I hope youre alright
I just wanted to say these answers are all f*****g hilarious!

What should you do when someone leaves you alone?

This question could be more specific: who is leaving you alone in what situation?However, let’s go through some scenarios:You have been left by a boyfriend or girlfriend and they aren’t texting or messaging or calling or answering your call. They are probably wanting to break up but lack the courage to tell you. Send a note saying “you obviously aren’t wanting to communicate with me, so I am moving on. Be well.”You have a husband or wife that is not talking to you for days. You’ve asked “what is wrong? What have I done?” but they won’t tell you or say “you should know. I shouldn’t have to tell you.” We aren’t mind readers and that is “passive aggressive” behavior, intended to make you suffer. It is a character flaw. The way to deal with passive aggressive behavior is to call it out. “You are punishing me but I don’t know why. No one likes to be punished if they are in the dark. Your silence is really intended to hurt me, and I want you to know, that I think this is NOT acceptable.”If you are being left alone for a short time, but you are needy and want constant company and reassurance, consider, some people like alone time. Evaluate whether you are being insecure and try to be mindful of space needed by others.

I am all alone I really need someone in my life, what do I do?

Thanks for the A2A...Don't act desperate. The more you think like this, the more you'll feel depressed. And you'll end up living a regretful life.Stop being needy. This speaks of your low self-image. Rather learn to respect yourself.  You've come alone in this world, and you'll also go alone. In the meantime, people might help you in your struggle called 'Life', but they are certainly not going to fight it for you. You've to do it all alone. So get up, stop relying on others, and give 100% of yourself to this life that you've got.Find out your passion, and keep yourself busy at it. Forget about everything else, and let your passion kill you from inside. Be so busy at it that you can't even find the time to feel lonely. And for this, you have to love the subject and have the desire to learn it.And lastly, but most importantly,learn to enjoy your own company. Be your own best friend, share everything with yourself. You'll never know the magic of it if you don't do it. Don't feel lonely when you are alone, rather accept this alone-feeling and enjoy with yourself. And if you speak of a relationship, you also have to be strong enough to support your partner. You have to be self-dependent, then only you can hope for a right partner. So stop having these BS feelings, work on your weaknesses, and start doing something productive from today. It will be hard at first, but you'll be able to do it if you try. Hope this helps. Good Luck!

How come I'm so uncomfortable being alone with someone?

After a break up, I've developed some anxieties and depression. For some reason I'm fine with a group of people, but have a hard time being alone with someone. I get anxiety and don't know what to say and feel worthless. Also I used to be comfortable in any situation, but I'm findig myself uncomfortable in a lot of situations now. I don't feel funny, don't feel even slightly good looking, and don't see what people see in me that's good. What's up with all this? Thanks.

I'm wide awake and alone and someone is tapping me on the shoulder?

during these past few my spouse's snoring has become a bit too much for me, so i sleep on the fold out bed in the living room. for the past three weeks, i've been laying in bed, by myself, wide awake and someone/thing taps on my shoulder, like it is trying to get my attention. up until a night or so ago, i was ghastly afraid to turn over to see who it was.
as i said, a few nights ago, the 'being' tapped my on the shoulder and i finally rolled over. from my point of view in bed, i can see the glass door leading to my back deck. outside of the glass door is an odd looking fellow who looks kind of like paul newman from pee wee's playhouse.
i've never seen this person at any point in my life. it wasn't a stalker/burgler because the man was wearing a nice white tuxedo. i don't know what to make of this. this is either a very realistic dream or some kind of apparation.

i've talked to friends about it and they scoff. to be honest, i think it's the devil himself.

any ideas/ opinions

Which is worse: to be alone or to be with somebody you don't actually love?

I have just finished with a nine year relationship. The love dwindled to nothingness.I would sit with her and be completely emotionless. We would share the same bed, but in the end, I felt like a lodger. This meant homelife was strained. I felt like I was walking on eggshells the whole time.Now I am alone. Separated. The shackles of matrimony have been relaxed. I don't feel any happier for it, I know the guilt will subside. After nine years, it's hard to feel normal again. All I can do is try to fend off loneliness.So which is it? I've reasoned with myself that loneliness is temporary. I will be a stronger person from this. I do miss the support, financial stability and company, but I have to look to the future. Where's my crystal ball.

Do you prefer to go shopping alone or with someone?

I like shopping alone, but trying on stuff with friends there. If that makes sense! I don't like when people try to show me a million things while I'm shopping, and I hate feeling rushed. But I like when I have someone in the dressing room with me telling me if what I have looks good on me or not.

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