How do you get over a crush?
I'm a 14 year old freshman and I still have a crush on a certain guy I see every day so ignoring won't help - it's just that guys are so immature... I'm not crushing as in obsessing but I do have a little feelings - I feel a lot happier if I get those feelings of my chest even if that's for an hour - but that sanity doesn't last for long... Can you give me some advises? I'd love to hear about your first crush too ^^
I have a crush on a girl, but i'm straight?
so i met this girl 2 months ago, in the beginning, i never really noticed her, but then we started talking, and we became friends. the more we talk, the more we like each other. but i think we're both straight. its really weird. she always looks at me and stuff and tries to touch me sometimes. i think i might have a crush on her. its not the same feeling as liking a guy. i feel safer liking her. but like what is going on here? i think about her a lot and i dunno if i should make a move (kinda weird) or anything. but i don't wanna talk to her about it. AHH!
If I have a crush on a girl but she is committed, what should I do?
Move on. This is probably the best thing to do even if you are serious about your crush. Find some new girl or focus more on your work but try to remove her from your head because it will only bother you. Don't wait. Especially if the girl is committed, chances are very rare that she will break off her relationship. And lastly if you wish to express your feelings to her you should be aware of the consequences. Generally there can be two possibilities that may occur after you express your feelings.First: You will definitely get rejected. Understand her predicament. Respect her honest answer. And move on. This is the last chance you have. The second possibility is the worst experience that a boy can have with a girl. So move on when you still have time.Second:(A not so harsh rejection ) Please understand that girls have a tendency to like Boys even if they don't want to romantically associate with them. It is possible that after you confess she might develop an interest in you, she might start talking with you and even chat with you. That my friend is the time when you realize that after sometime someone is going to get hurt badly. You will become friends. You will start having expectations. You will become her shoulder when she needs one, you will help her with her assignments, her work, her issues and finally when the day comes , when the ultimate encounter happens, you will realize that you have always been an option for someone you have prioritized. No amount of waiting or helping or loving would be enough to suffice the pain then. So trust me, moving on is the best thing to do and just realize that you made a wrong choice.
How do I get over a girl I have a crush on who is also my best friend?
It depends on you my friend. This is a common problem that you have. You have to decide if you want to tell her about how you feel or not. You may lose a friend through her freaking out or you may gain a more meaningful relationship. Obviously she isn't showing the same affection to you as you are to her. If its burning you up you may have to just tell her how you feel and see what she thinks. If she is not mature enough to deal with it then you may just have to let her go both as a friend and a potential girlfriend. You have to be bold enough to go with it but remember if she isn't interested you should not bother her with advances of any sort. Sounds like you suffering already though.
Can a guy have a crush on two girls at the same time?
There's really no limit to how many women he can have a crush on at the same time, crushes are attraction, not love. Sounds to me like maybe he has a crush on #2 but knows he doesn't have a real chance with her. I'd guess, and I'm going way out on a limb here, that he'd be willing to give it a shot with #1 and before long might forget completely about #2 once he settles in with a real woman (no offense #2!) Never undersestimate the power of asking a guy out, the #1 thing that attracts people is knowing there is already a strong attraction from the other person. Have you ever found yurself suddenly more attracted to a guy when you learn that he's really interested in you? Just joking ask him when he's going to finally take you out for the night, but then give him a look so he'll know that an answer is still expected! That always works well, because it takes the pressure of initiating things off him, plus lets him know he is not risking rejection, but you still don;t have to be the one to do the asking!
Why can't I get over my crush?
Have no fear, Hunter, I’m an expert in this subject. Some call me a whore, but I just call myself the boyfriend connoisseur. My heart has been broken so many times that you would think I’m numb to the pain.Love sets off a similar reaction to your brain as a drug addiction; you get withdrawals when your source of affection is taken away. It’s just like how a cocaine addict can’t go on without a fix. Since I’m aware that you can’t have this girl at all, you are in constant withdrawal mode. This isn’t safe for your mental health at all.First, you need to take a step back and examine. Why do you like this girl? What’s so special? This will help you when you venture in your quest of moving on. I’ll tell you why in a second.My advice is going to sound really insensitive at the moment. When people told me to do this, I wanted to slap them upside the head. But boy, did it alleviate the pain. Even if it makes you feel special for a split second, that’s still something. It’s all baby steps at first. Ready for my advice?Talk to other girls. Even if it’s just a fling, it brings you one step closer to forgetting an old crush.I’m not telling you to hoe around, but it’s probably best to begin with girls who aren’t serious. You’ll get a taste of what you’re missing out on. Then, as time passes, you’re going to want to move to more serious endeavors. All you want to do is distract, distract, DISTRACT! Occupy yourself!In the meantime, spend your time doing things that make you happy on your own. What are your passions? This may make me sound like a hypocrite, considering I really don’t have hobbies, but this is tried and true advice. If you’re like me, find something h that relaxes you. Binge watch a show, play a computer game, or simply take a stroll around the mall. You may even find love this way.Anyways, I wish you the best of luck in trying to solve this dilemma. You know where to crack more advice out of me! As for the rest of the readers, you can always ask for my social media if you need to talk.This is part of an answer session.