How do I get over a girl I like?
I agree with some of the other postings here that you need to realize that this is your mind playing tricks on you. If there were something… anything… that was based on reality, or her showing a genuine interest in you, that would be one thing, but there isn’t.For anyone obsessing on anything, the first key is to realize what you’re doing. In this case, good news— you do realize what’s happening.Secondly, you need to understand why you’re obsessing on her. Is she beautiful and your type? Have you possibly created a fantasy in your mind of who she is? Remember, so far, this is only based on what you imagine about her, not reality.So a good first step might be realizing that you don’t know her. She might well be the exact opposite of what you think she is, and in fact, there’s a pretty good chance that she is.So to bring you back to Earth, what’s needed is a good dose of reality. Can I suggest you say hello to her and see how she reacts? Get to know the real her. Then, you can see that she’s an actual person and not the goddess of your imagination. That will allow you to relate to her as an equal, which is critical if you want to try and date her.Once you see her as a normal person, with faults, and who burps and farts and poops and blows her nose just like everyone else, the obsession part will slowly start to be replaced with just a regular, healthy interest in getting to know her instead.
Can't get over this girl?
if she is ignoring you or acting cold.. delete her number. i know it's hard. i'd probably delete hr off of facebook too, to resist any urges to look. she gave you absolutely no closure. she came off acting like a saint, and dumped you out of the blue. she also gave no concrete reason why she borke up with you. it makes absolutely no sense. stop trying to get closure from someone who was not upfront with you, who is avoiding you, you hasn't really given you closure, etc. you need to give yourself closure. you will find a woman who will have enough empathy to really, honestly talk to you if she is leaving. but you probably wouldn't need that much of an explanation, because a good and mature woman would have communicated issues to you well before the break-up. she would be real and committed to her dude. she isn't that great of a person. more like a phony coward. stop contacting her and she may get really curious because her ego is missing all your attention. if she comes back, DO NOT TAKE HER! and don't contact her! NO CONTACT!!!!!! She is NOT YUR SOUL-MATE!!! your "perfect" woman would never, ever, ever leave you CONFUSED and heart-broken. Her lack of empathy will not change for ANYONE!!! there is no man on earth that will make her a warmer person. maybe she was sweet as sugar when you were togethr, but this is the REAL her. The phony. Empathy is UNDERSTANDING and CARING about another's feelings. she either doesn't understand, doesn't care, or both. Forget her, forgive her, learn from this, and don't let someone BS you. PLEASE don't listen to the others here... knocking on her door? trying harder? She made her point clear by not answering you. Those suggestions put you into deperate/restraining order territory!
How do you get over a girl?
man up and confess to her. tell her how you feel about her no matter what she say. life is too short for regret. i am 18yrs old guy and here is my personal experience. i fell in love with this girl 5 months ago. i thought she is the one because she has everything i could ever wanted. intelligent, down to earth, outgoing and genuinely beautiful. i wanted to tell her that i like her everyday for the past 5 months. but i was too shy and made speechless by her. 3 weeks ago i found out she got a boyfriend, that news just completely teared my heart apart. but in the end, i still decide to tell her how i feel about her even though i knew i have absolutely no chance with her. i did it last week, i told her how i felt about her. it feels like a huge rock had been taken off my chest. this monday, she walked up to me and told me that she is very sorry that she never felt the same way about me. she told the truth just like i told her the truth. i accepted the reality and walk away wishing that she is happy with her boyfriend.
How can I get over a girl I'm still friends with?
Actually, i too am going through the same phase as the OP. We broke up 5 months ago, but we still occasionally talk on social media. In fact, We even went out on a ‘Friendly Date’, few weeks back. But i’m completely over her by now. Even when First few months were really tough, i managed to hold myself together. Following are the measures i took to get over her, while still remaining friends. I suggest you to follow these as well.Avoid much interaction with her in first place.Don’t let the emotions overwhelm you.Delete/throwaway every little things that reminds you of her.Don’t share any of your personal feelings with her anymore.Find a rebound (Another girl, who would help you get over her. But choose your new Girl wisely as you wouldn’t want to break her heart. Don’t just use her! Be responsible and learn from the past mistakes.)Always keep yourself occupied by doing things of your interest. Never let your mind perch on any Emotional thoughts.Surround yourself with positive friends, and start spending more time with them rather than clinging to your ex.Start hanging out with other girl-friends more often (This will help you reduce the emotional stress)Always remember, Life is too short to be spent with just one boring person.Take it rather as an opportunity, and explore the versatility in women kind. You definitely will find a better person than her. Good luck!
How can I get over a girl who is my best friend?
Thanks for the A2A. Funny thing is I am actually presently friends with a girl I am in love with and I have told her but she said I am too young for her considering it's just a one year difference. Anyways we are still very good friends even though she knows how I feel about her and to be frank I don't know for sure how she feels about me. So my advice will be to just continue being friends or you just distant yourself from her. Your choice.
How can I get over a girl who has a boyfriend?
Justin, You need to realize that what your feeling is just an infatuation. Think about this for a minute, would you really want someone that was already in a relationship? What if you were the other guy, how would you feel if someone was trying to get with your lady. Karma is a Bitc* and it never fails that it will come back to bite you in the as* when you least expect it. One more thing to think about buddy. While your investing so much time concentrating on this girl that is already taken, the right girl for you is being completely ignored. Statistically, they say there are 5 girls to every one man, that means we're outnumbered and if you get with this girl, there are 4 other girls that are going to miss their chance to be treated the way you will have the chance to treat them, don't settle buddy for number two, when you can really be number 1. Good Luck
How to get over a girl you really like?
lol yea... I liked a girl.. you know how i got over her? She called me an idiot.. dont know how she meant it, but it was over facebook. what pissed me off was, the context of it. made me so mad lol, that i hate her now, apparently she still had a thing for me that just made me hate her more. Obviously you got not control over her being mean to you.. so i dunt know what to tell you cuz ive liked this other girl for 8years its almost obsessive.. But i know i cant do anything about it.. so i have no clue how to get over her.. Date someone else works.. somewhat.. not as well if you still see them. All i know is my friends have gotten over by breaking all contact with them. not seeing them, and deleting them from fb, myspace etc. ( i know that this method works very well..)
How to get over a girl who's played you?
A girl I have been dating since February has literally just told me since we broke up December 20th of 2010, that she started dating her ex b/f like a week after we stopped talking. She dated him for 4 years, and it hurts a lot knowing that I was a rebound in this. I knew she always stayed in good terms with him, like they remained friends and hung out and seen each other at random parties, but nothing talking about getting back together. It just really sucks because I really liked and cared about her and made her a priority when I was just an option. It made me paranoid at times because I was afraid of this was going too happen, and she got mad at me for being paranoid, but in the end I was right the entire time. I have trouble trusting people as it is (esp girls), but this makes it a lot worst. I feel like absolute sh!t right now, and friends say just forget it about her and move on, but its pretty difficult. Any good advice? please dont say "just move on and find a new girl" or "do you for a while". Thankyou