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How Can I Get Rid Of My Urges To Jerk Off

How. Do I rid sexual urges to masterbate?

I've been pure for two months Im a Christian and god drew me back to him after all that time and I want to have a close relationship with him and I'm afraid I might fall into it again but through gods strength you won't but I'm thinking I'll have to chase after him harder if I give in to lust thanks and I want to get married im 18 btw

Should I resist the urge to masturbate or not?

It depends on whether or not you have a reason not to.If you are trying to harness this pent up energy and redirect into a more worthy activity than splurging over a fantasy. You should probably limit it or slowly cut it out of your life, in favor of sex with a person.Either way, the advocates of masturbation who claim it is harmless, may be missing some facts, that your nervous system is put under stress everytime you orgasm. It is enjoyable but just like drug use can eventually lead to addiction or other issues.I believe that this should be done in moderation if you do want to. To do so daily leaves you low on testosterone, which could be described as the hormone of desire in men.This in turn would leave you demotivated, and slow down your advancement in life.Not so harmless when you think about it.PS: If you're really considering resisting the urge to use the energy productively, I wrote a short book titled The Celibate Soul about Celibacy and ways to harness the sexual energy, which can apply to this context, even if you plan on dating. You can find it on my Amazon Author page, the link is on my profile.

Jerking off has become a daily habit! How can I end it?

It is an excellent decision to end this self-destructive habit, and earlier the better. Masturbation addiction can be disastrous for long term health as well as sex life with wife. It also distracts in day-to-day life and one can't focus on other important things and career.To break the habit use these simple steps, and you will see within few days you will have completely stopped masturbation,1. Sleep early to wake up early. Late nights can arouse a person.2. Do not touch (except for quick cleaning during bath) or see your, or others', genitals. Take shower as quick as possible, don't spend a second extra to avoid any kind of self-attraction or arousal. Do not watch porn (video, magazines, etc.).3. Do not see or talk about sex with others, as that can arouse the senses.4. Whenever urge to masturbate comes or erection starts, immediately get yourself busy with other things, or take a walk or exercise or talk to a friend, read an inspirational book (not fiction or about sex). Keep yourself always busy in productive work, like study, work, gym, walking, reading, etc.5. The world is now over half-nude everywhere, so it is difficult to avoid seeing it totally, but try to ignore and focus on what you want to achieve in life.6. Use your will power, and make determination to not do it anymore, no matter what.7. Be with family members as much as possible to avoid any temptation of masturbation. Do not be alone, so as to avoid masturbation.8. Eat only freshly cooked healthy home meal with least spices in it. It helps stabilize sex drive. Avoid restaurant, packaged, reheated food.9. There are a few websites that can also help, like https://www.nofap.com , https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap , https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075VC... .10. Within few days your confidence and willpower to stay away from it will automatically increase.11. Very soon the habit or frequent temptations will be gone.No matter what just do not masturbate for at least two months and see the positive changes coming to your life, and how your outlook also changes towards everything. You will also feel much more energetic, healthier, confident, and focused in life.

Have you ever had the urge to masturbate in public?

My older brother and I were on a hike up somewhere (he's 19, I'm 17) and there was no one around. I told him I felt like jerking one off, so I wanted to go somewhere away from the road. Then he dared me to just do it on the sidewalk near the road since no one was around. I was scared we might get caught, but he just took his out and started jerking off, so I did what he did. He's always been an exhibitionist. A car came up, and I covered up really fast, but my brother didn't stop and he just kept on jerking until the car passed. I'm sure the people in the car saw what he was doing..lol

How does a teenager resist the urge to masturbate?

so ive been doing it for one year and im not addicted, but i have a problem. My parents tell me its okay to masturbate(their catholics) but the bible says otherwise. My friends told me not to worry about it and that it was very normal and natural(and healthy since they said it reduces prostate cancer). The thing is that i feel bad for not feeling bad. I enjoy doing it without guilt, it feels good and dont feel guilty for doing it since i feel like im finally growing up, and honestly, i find it pointless to confess something i dont feel bad about doing. But i also love my lord and would do anything to see him. But i feel troubled because i dont want to confess it, but if i do, it will be pointless And this whole concept of "masturbation" has been so opinionated and biased that its hard to find the truth. And honestly, its completely impossible for one not to lust in this generation especially teens. we have all done it and like the bible says- no one is safe from sin. I am emotionally troubled and thinking about this puts me into a depressive mood. so how can teenagers resist the urge to masturbate, and how can one escape lust if the urge itself IS lust? How could teenagers find pleasure and relief without sinning at all? What should i do in my scenario? im really confused and dangerously stressed, depressed and worried.

How to stop the urge to masturbate?

There's not much you can do to stop - the urge is natural. If you were spending hours a day doing this, then you would have a problem. But, once a day is very normal for your age. It's natural to feel bad since it's something you have to hide. But, it's a social responsibility to not do it in front of people. Just realize it's a private act that is natural. Everyone has the urge, and most give in - it's natural to let your juice out and to want the "relief" that comes with it.

If this is all too much for you, I attempted and lasted three months without once (probably a record). I did so by meditating each time I got the urge (in private).

I can't resist the urge to masturbate. What should I do?

You’ve pretty much answered your own question. While it’s not a necessity in the same way that hunger, thirst, or sleep is, the drive to orgasm frequently is very strong. In males, every day that you don’t ejaculate, the seminal vesicles get fuller. It’s believed they press on a nerve that increases the urge to ejaculate.For that reason and the high testosterone levels associated with puberty, it’s almost impossible not to masturbate. Since it’s not harmful in any way, just enjoy it and do it as often as you feel the urge, whether it’s a few times a week or a few times a day.

How come I don't feel the urge to masturbate every day anymore?

I am 18, and back when I was 12-17, I was always horny. And would sometimes jerk off 5-6 times a day. And when I first turned 18, the thing that I was happiest about the most was being able to sleep with women and being able to buy porn.

Now 6 months later, I have done A LOT of both of those things, but recently, I sit down at a computer and would rather just search random stuff on Youtube, or shop online at Amazon, rather than watch porn... I seriously just realised 10 minutes ago, that it has been 3 days since I last jacked off.

I don't get it. It's sort of depressing.

What are the best ways to stop the urge to masturbate?

I can go for three days without masturbating but then i get a VERY strong urge to masturbate and when that happens i can't stop thinking about masturbating.
also at night when i'm in bed trying to get to sleep i get a VERY strong urge to masturbate.

So what are some good ways to distract and ignore and control these urges especially in bed


PS Don't tell me masturbating is good for you because i know it ISN'T!
I'm 19 and I'm already getting hair loss and memory loss and weak legs and fatigue because of this addiction to masturbation.