How can I just ignore my sister?
I'm 21, and my sister is 15. We constantly argue. My sister doesn't respect anything that she doesn't care about. If its not hers, she doesn't give a crap,but if it's hers,all hell breaks loose. She always does what she wants when she wants.(taking more than an hr in the shower, washing the dishes and making a lot of noise at 12pm)she'll yell at anyone whose i her way but if you get angry she'll make it seem like theirs something wrong with you.In any argument,she'll either treat you like you're stupid or nod along while ignoring you.I'm an introvert,but I get so angry she disrespects my parents so much.They pretty much can't do much, its just an attitude(she's a good kid at school, and no drugs or boy issues)its just when shes stomping around, bullying our younger siblings to tears, telling at my mother, or trying to make me feel like an idiot, I see red.(We've gotten in a few physical fights and she's tried grabbing her by the throat while i throw heavy things at her, then im left with scratches)feel so angry, I don't want her to have the upperhand when I know she's being unnecessary.My dad says she just wants attention.He's probably right, but I remember I would get slapped around by my dad with one wrong move or saying something out of line. I was much more disciplined than her, so I'm more obidient.I hate being instigated by every word she says.Everything turns into an argument with her, she only knows sarcastic remarks.Im starting to consider counseling for myself.
How do I ignore my sister?
okay so this is not just your average sibling fight this has been going on for as long as I can remember but I just want to completely shut her out of my life. Today she called me gay and has been a total b*tch to me. We both are adopted she's 11 and I'm 14 I just want to shut her out of my life for the most part.
How To Ignore Your Younger Sister?
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Why does my sister ignore me?
I have a 16 year old sister, but it's not my birthday yet. So we're like only two years apart, and lately her ignorance has gotten even worse. Ever since she's gotten her boyfriend she's practically cut out all of us in her family and only focuses on him. When I ask her one little question she'll ignore me first and then say "Your annoying the hell out of me" it really hurts my feelings...and I want it to stop. She's also a gamer so she's ALWAYS playing this game online. I've told my mom several times about this, and my sister won't EVER listen to me. She never takes me seriously when I have something to say. She doesn't care about anyone and makes NO EFFORT AT ALL to help anyone. The last people I can look to is anyone who answers to this. Please don't leave anything like "Just give her time" She doesn't need time because she's always like this. And she loves her boyfriend so much and he's so mean to me, well he "teases me" but it makes me mad to the point that I cry a lot ._. My mom doesn't have time to talk to her and my dad isn't very "talkative" My mom doesn't know how mean he is to me, and I realize that this one question turned into a bunch but please answer I'm going insane >.< I REALLY wanna tell my mom all the crap he's said to me but I would hate to tear my sister apart from her best realtionship. and FYI they're a long-distance realtionship, I will hate his guts if he makes her personality change. And he's pretty pervy...but I guess it's not that bad. Sometimes I wish I could talk to him seriously but I don't know him well enough to really know if he'll ruin her life. And they're like nocturnal, they sleep all day and stay up all night, so I can't really sleep because I can hear what they're saying through the wall. And I'll come in and say something like "wanna eat?" and then she won't care after that one time I left the room and I heard him say "did she leave?" and then she said "yay, she left" I don't get why they hate me so much. Also her boyfriend says "shut up! shut up! shut up! shut up!" over and over, I swear...if he says that to me if we ever meet I'll punch him in the nose.... =.= can someone please help me? :(
My sister always ignores me?
Dude my sisters exactly the same! If shes lazy, think of some way you can get her doing jobs she hates, or let her get caught for jobs not done.. Dont vandalise any of her stuff though, cos she'll do the same to you. When she's out of the house, rearrange stuff in her room (not messily but just so she knows stuff has been moved) so then when she asks you if you were in her room, just smile innocently and say no. If she leaves clothes or stuff hanging around the house, hide them. This wont improve anything though, i just want to warn you! Or else you just dont talk to her and soon, she'll get sick of the silence and will talk to you, even if its only a few words at a time. Good luck x
Should I continue to ignore my sister?
I am a 17 year old girl and my sister is 21 years old (let's call her A). We had a (verbal) fight 3 days ago. I didn't care much about the fight, I wasn't upset or anything. That was until I heard my other big sister (22 years old - let's call her J) and my 21 yr old sister b*tching about me. I wasn't eavesdropping but I was walking by her room and I just heard my name. I didn't want to listen anymore but I was compelled to stay there a bit longer. It hurt to hear what they were saying about me, it really did. I thought J wasn't two-faced, I thought she liked me better than my other sister did. I guess I was wrong, but what pissed me off most was the patronizing tone J spoke to me with (after she realized I wasn't going to speak to her). So, I went to the bathroom and cried until I felt better, then wrote in my diary because I hate speaking about my feelings. They both helped... BUT I caught J digging around for my diary the next morning. I was FUMING. I kicked her out of the room and haven't spoken to her or A since then (which was two days ago). Yesterday, A saw me outside the tube station. She smiled at me and came over to say "hi" and "where are you going". I looked around me as though she was speaking to someone else and just gave her one of those polite smiles strangers give each other. She felt embarrassed and just walked away. I felt a little bit bad about what I did but I think she deserved it. That's not where it's going to end, this is just the beginning. She asked for it. I would have appreciated it if they both had the decency to say all those nasty things about me to my face and not behind me back. It would hurt but it's the right thing to do. I have a lot of dirt on her and I'm going to use it to blackmail her. She may be older than me but she had better not underestimate me. I don't know whether I should continue to ignore them (because we live under the same roof and all) or speak to her and try to find out more about what she's been hiding? I feel like such a b*tch for doing this but at least then I'll have something else occupying my mind instead of hiding indoors and being depressed for weeks. Yes, I am hurt but I will not let myself become depressed this time. I have a tendency to become depressed about the smallest of things - these bouts of depression last for weeks and I don't like it one bit.
How do I ignore my annoying sister?
My sister is VERY annoying too. So how do I deal with it? Patience people patience.Dont let her know you are annoyed.Don't be angry. Even if you are in a bad mood act like you are in a good mood.Nomatter how annoyed you are try to be sweet.Suggest her to do something else instead of annoying you. Just say something like ‘hey completed your home works? Well please do. After that we can play something like monopoly or any game you prefer’ or you can try ‘ hey why dont you go out of my room for a moment. Then after I finish my work quickly we can have some fun like watch a movie or cartoon or I will let you borrow a book or have a sweet’If she is super annoying warn her you will tell mom or tell her you will not do somthing she really wants.These are some ways I tried. Try them at your own risk ; ) 4 and 5 works most of the times.
How do I deal with a sister-in-law who ignores me?
It’s unfortunate but true that you can’t “make” others like you. It’s unlikely you can change her personality - and it’s probably a waste of time trying to figure out what, if anything, she has against you - but you can try to change the dynamic.Was your husband raised in a large family and you in a small family? That could be part of the difference in approach.Using resources - e.g., kitchen utensils while working in the kitchen - can often be viewed as helpful behavior using common tools, with people from large families more likely to just pitch in without asking. Sure it would be great if she said “which bowl may I use?” or “do you have a paring knife?” before using your carving knife on the vegetables, but if she’s going after tools or implements you would prefer she not use why not be proactive and say “oh, the red bowl would be better for that…let me get it.” If you gently and consistently redirect her away from the things you would prefer she not use she may get the idea of asking.Or just move the “good stuff” to higher cabinets so she chooses things you don’t mind her using that are easier to find.Next, where is it written you need to give presents? You might ask your husband about how gift-giving was handled in his family and find you’re creating an obligation she isn’t used to. Sure she should thank for presents, but perhaps giving up gift-giving is an option that removes that tension.As to your husband “not seeing anything wrong” it’s quite possible his sister has always been like this so it’s normal to him. Asking your husband to tell his sister to “stay out of the kitchen” or “say thank you for gifts” is likely to cause more hard feelings rather than less, particularly if she’s an older sister.You need to enforce your own boundaries. Say it with love, say it with humor, say it with a smile, but instead of stewing say “We really love having you over, and I’d like to make your stay comfortable. Please ask me if you need anything and I’ll be happy to show you where things are.”You may need to say it every time, but eventually she’ll likely get the drift.Finally, on your SIL ignoring you, you’ll just need to remain friendly and try to engage her. Find out from your husband about his sister’s interests, and try to ask her questions. People tend to warm up to those who show an interest in them, so if you make a bit of effort to engage her on topics with which she’s comfortable it may get her to open up.Thank you to OK for the A2A and best of luck!
Why my sister ignoring me?
In siblings fight it generally happen that we automatically start talking to each other after some time even without any apologies. It's a relation of love that we can not live apart for a long time. If your sister is ignoring you there might be some reasons behind her rude attitude towards you. There would be a reason that someone's must have been instigated her against you or had made falsely interpretations and without confirming you directly, she is accepting it. Or she could have been found you in some wrong way like scolding her in a loud voice unreasonably or your attitude towards her loved ones like friends must have gone ill treated.There should be a face to face conversation between you and your lovely sister then only it is going to be solved. Running away from problem is not a solution rather you face it and finalise it.