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How Can I Learn To Love My Pale Skin

I hate my pale skin?

for the longest time i hated my pale skin and i wanted a tan so badly i fried myself every time i went to the beach and it never worked. but i then i realized my pale skin looks super cute with my hair and eyes and that i have a nice complexion, even if it is very pale. so find upsides to it, there are many if you look for them. and to be honest, even though i'm generally straight, i have always found something a bit sexy about dark haired pale girls, so i work for me =]

How long will it take to get pale skin?

1. Your genetics play a big part, I was born pretty pale, but my natural skin tone that I grew into was a medium tone. My mom is really pale but my dad is pretty dark so look at your parents and see how light they are, that's a big indicator as to how far your skin could POSSIBLY lighten up to.

2. It's honestly going to take a long time. At least a year...at least. So to help speed that along, you should just honestly cover up... lol wear high spf, stay out of the sun, wear hats, sunglasses. Go out for your daily dose of vitamin D (about 30 min) and just try to stay covered if you have to be outside. Thats why in Asia so many girls carry umbrellas, wear long pants in summer, older women have those huge face shield hat things....

3. For skin care, be careful with the lemon juice. I would just invest in a really good skin care system, where you're cleaning off all your makeup, exfoliating, using a toner, and moisturizing it well. They have lightening products that can help you in all steps, like lightening toners, moisturizers, cleansers... so shop around you have a lot of choices, I can't really recommend any to you since I don't know your skin type and history. But usually Asian skin care lines are pretty good like shiseido.

So yeah if you keep all of that up, your skin will be at its lightest naturally over time. If you want to help lighten your body....I'm not sure if it's safe honestly but I have heard of a lightening body soap. My friend used that and now she's...super pale. I don't think it looks natural for her though. But if you want to look into that option, now you know it exists and you can investigate it. lol Good luck!

How can I embrace my pale skin?

I am really pale. REALLY pale. I've used self tanner (Sun Labs) for the past four years because of how insecure I am of my pale skin. A guy friend recently asked how I stay so tan all year and I told him while feeling a bit embarrassed. I'm home on break and left my bottle at college so I ordered another one freaking out that it wouldn't get here in time for some slathering before Christmas pictures. Luckily it came in time!

I feel like my desperation for my need to self tan means I need to stop. Any tips on loving pale skin? I literally look like a vampire in pictures and I didn't notice my tan was noticeable until my guy friend asked about it.

I’m 15 years old with yellowish skin. What are some ways to get a pale skin?

See a physician immediately. It sounds like you have a serious medical problem!

I hate my dark skin!! its so ugly..why me?!?!?

I hate my dark skin!! its so ugly..why me?!?!?
i want to be LIGHT SKINNED!! I HATE MY DARK SKIN!!! I ALWAYS GET PICKED ON BECAUSE OF IT!! THEY ALWAYS CALL ME BLACK ***, MIDNIGHT OR OTHER ANNOYING AND HARSH THINGS!!! I MEAN I WASNT ALWAYS LIKE THIS, WHEN I WAS IN MIDDLE SCHOOL I DIDNT REALLY CARE ABOUT IT!! BUT IN 8TH GRADE THINGS WENT HAYWIRE FOR ME!! I dont know why either, i didnt do anything to no one!! they just kept reminding me of how black i was, and they said that that makes me ugly!! i dont want to be ugly!! i'm sick of it!!! i cant get a CUTE boyfriend! the ones i date are so UGLY!! i dont even date guys anymore!! i wish i was lightskinned so i can get more attentiong! i'm sick of being midnight and ulgy because i'm dark!! i mean even one WHITE said...SHARICE..YOURE REALLY DARK ( DONT WORRY I HANDLED THAT RIGHT AWAY)..i thought i was cute, but i guess i'm not! its so embrassing too to get made fun of by UGLY ppl who are lol WAY WORSE OF THAN ME!! i guess, i should face it..i'm ugly and dark and there's nothing i can do..

How can one overcome anxiety over pale skin?

One way is to learn to embrace it and see the beauty of your paleness. I like what the other author said about dressing not to hide your paleness but to make it stand out more stylishly. It is not a flaw at all. Attractiveness comes in all colours! :)In Asia, paleness is a celebrated trait. It is seen as flawness, pure, and even upper-class. Because in the past the poor were often hard laborers who got tanned from working hard under the sun.Hope you will remember to apply sunblock when you go under the sun. I believe pale skin burns more easily, so good to protect it from being red and painful. :)One tip a friend gave me is: Don’t worry about what others think about how you look. Most people are too occupied with themselves, also even concerned with their own perceived flaws, to pick on the flaws of others.Embrace you! Be proud of your pale skin. As the now popular saying goes, “Be-you-tiful”.

Why do some people love brown skin rather than white skin?

Umm… I don't know how to tell you this, but here we go:People are free to love who they love, but a million random factors go into the decision of falling in love.I love guys with brown hair.When I was a young and secretly gay lad, I discovered the Internet and I almost immediately came onto my first gay porn star. I remember a window popping-up with this gorgeous star, Roman Heart. He had pouty pink lips with deep, penisive eyes, a luscious tush, a body that just won't quit, and brown hair.Pepole are attracted to others based on subconscious concepts of what they find appealing. Skin color may factor in, but so does weight, health, age, and a myriad of other things.

Do black people like their skin color?

I am a Black American.I cannot speak for all Black people. But I can speak for myself.I fucking love my skin color. I believe that it is the nicest shade of chocolate brown.I love all of me from the crown of my head to the bottom of my feet.Some non-Black American people want me to hate myself and believe their lies about me. I refuse to join the club or accept their limited speculations about me.Whenever I travel abroad, I am constantly complimented for my skin tone. Especially in Southeast Asia and East Asia. I am very thankful that many people in this part of the world see me as an attractive human being with intelligence. That’s the same way I see myself.I am thankful that I was raised in a Black family where I received historical education about Blackness. I learned about our accomplishments in the USA and on the continent of Africa. From a very young age, I had a firm and positive understanding about Blackness.The only people that ever wanted me to hate myself were racist people that weren’t Black. I knew that their hate for me had to stem from hate for themselves. I learned to avoid these types of people.But I never understood why they needed to constantly remind me of my so-called “inferiority” for being Black? If I were truly inferior, why would they need to remind me? I believe it was because they knew that I wasn’t inferior. They believed if they kept telling me those words, eventually they’d stick. It didn’t happen.I will always love my brown chocolate skin. I greatly enjoy looking in the mirror and admiring myself. Sometimes, I even do it without any clothes on my body. I believe that being Black is a wonderful experience. I cherish it every single day!

How to tan super pale skin? I'm tired of being an outcast?

Everyone in my school is always making fun of my pale skin. Its pretty much colorless and ugly, and people call me a vampire :( I've tried to use fake tanner, but it just turned out orange and blotchy and I couldn't go to school for a few days because it wouldn't come off. I have just bought an SPF 8 sunscreen with bronzer (like makeup mixed in to give me a slightly darker appearance). Would that work? I don't want to get skin cancer, though... PLEASE HELP ME OUT.

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