I don't like going over to my best friends house?
I really like my best friends but I don't like hanging out with him outside of schools and events. Whenever I hang out with him he wants to stay inside and play video games (Normally single player, so I end up watching him for 3 hrs), don't get me wrong I like video games but I don't go over to my friends house just to watch people play them. I've asked him if he wants to go outside and do something else and he normally turns it into a joke about how the outdoors can kill you. He always wants me to come over to his house but I end up making excuses (Saying my mom is home, I'm sick, etc.) so I can play games with the neighbor kids. One of my neighbors are really Christa in so they have like 10 kids which makes for a big game no matter what time of day. Aside from them there are about 4 other kids who play regularly with us and about 5 more who will play with us every once in a while. I don't consider the neighbor kids my friends but they are good to play kick ball for an afternoon or ghost in the grave yard at night (I'm 16 and still play tag, is that weird). With the neighbor kids I end up being outside literally all day, lately we've been playing series of kickball games every day but that changed to Volleyball in the last couple days by using the top of a swing set as a net. I'd say the majority of kids who play are about 14 so it's a little weird for me to be playing with them but there are other 16 yr olds so its not that wierd Also whenever I do decide to go to his house (About once evry 2 wks or so) he has this kid over who I used to hang out with because he was friends with all my friends. I hated him though because he would talk about me and everyone else behind their back and he manipulated EVERYONE into doing what he wanted, so naturally I don't want to hang out with this kid because he pretends to like me, thinking I don't know what he says about me and everyone else. I've asked him if he wants to play with us, he doesn't. I still want to be freinds though but his house is so boring. My house is a no-no because one day I apparently smelled like smoke coming from his house (No one smelled it but my mom) and she got reallly mad and thought I was smoking and doing drugs at his house (No one in his family smokes or does drugs) and got really angry at me. She apologized later but I haven't asked to go over to his house again, I normally just go for about 2 hrs while she's at work. What should I do?
How to stop your friend from staying over at your place?
the first three days/nights was what i thought of as interesting for her to stay over. but once it gets more frequent that she really enjoyed staying at my place, i started to find it pretty uncomfortable. i miss the room i once had just for myself, the toilet that i didn't have to share with anybody, the privacy of changing inside the room and such. but now it seems like somebody's taking half of the space. besides the company, your privacy is interrupted and you're figuring out how to tell your friend to stop staying over at your place. her own place is comfortable enough, just that she's alone since her roommate kept on missing staying over at some other friend's place. how to let her know that, i do need my very own space? p.s. we are far away from our family's home.
How can I may my hobbies enjoyable again?
It mainly pertains to trading card games. I got back into them because thought this could be a more social and enjoyable hobby. I could get out of the house and have fun. I started looking online for tips and deck building ideas to see what I could make and it was fun. But now when I online at the upcoming products, I just feel an overwhelming sense of dread and sorrow for no real reason. Or is this some form of depression? I want to enjoy it and keep playing with the friends I made.
Is it weird I don't like sleepovers or meeting up with friends?
Okay I'm 15 years old and everybody always says how teenage years are supose to be your best years of your life and its when you should have fun with friends and go to parties... Well I'm the opposite. I can never be bothered to meet up with my friends and don't really like it! It's not that I don't like my friends...I get on with them really well. But I see them everyday at school and tbh I'd rather sit indoors on my iPod and tv then having to go out. I also hate sleepovers. I just feel really uncomfortable in someone else's house also when ever someone's at mine! I also kind of have OCD about using other people's cutlery and I don't like eating anybody else's food apart from the food me and my family make and in restaurants. So I force myself to eat food or else I feel rude. Also I'm really shy and don't like talking to new people. I get so stressed out about school and friendships and it makes me really depressed which is one of the reasons I prefer to be alone in my spare time. I also have low self asteem so I don't like to go out because I always feel like I'm being judged and people are looking at me an thinking rude things, even when there not. I have really bad anxiety over it. Also because I'm really shy, I'm a bit of a pushover so whenever my friends ask to stay round at my house or invites me to go out with them I have to say yes or else I feel rude. Is this hormonal or will I stay the same? I just feel that life for me will be so much better once I leave home, finish school and start university SORRY IT'S LONG AND I EXPLAINED MYSELF TO BE REALLY WEIRD BUT I PROMISE IM NOT THAT WEIRD IN REAL LIFE :)
My friend mastertbates!!!!?
Ok, I have the coolest, and most popular friend there is until today, I dropped by her house unexpectingly, and her mom, told me to got straight upstairs where she was. Then I walked in on her moaning, and fingering her own selve!! I was so disgusted I ran all the way home. I don't understand why she does this. Shes very rich, and her family is very religious. So, is she doing this cause she feels like this her relief or something, or does she really needs help! She left me 3 messages already, saying that we need to talk, but I think its better if we just stay away from each other from awhile, or should I really return her phone calls please help me. We've been friends since the first grade!!!
How do you throw a house party with your parents home?
Ok so im having a birthday party/new years eve party my parents are cool with it and everything but since my parents are there i cant have drugs or alcohol. So what do i do the party is gonna be 5 hours long and i have no idea how to make this party fun and enjoyable for all my freinds and they dont say wow this is a lame party man