My gf's best friend is a BAD influence on her!!!!! what should I do?
Ok well my girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 weeks and im really worried about her. Her best and like only friend is a really bad influence on her. Her friend takes her to parties they get drunk sometimes and drink. She also tryed to get my gf do do drugs with her and they both did try to get some but failed. Once they also git drunk and scissored each other! She has sexted a random guy before too. And im positive its her friend. My gf is soo nice and sweet and loving but she tells me that she has never done any of that besides drinking. I do not want to break up with her. How should I handle this without putting the relationship at risk.
My Best friend is becoming a bad influence?
stay cool and dont do drugs
My friend is hanging out with a bad influence?
So this year, my friend's mom made her switch high schools to the one her brother's previously went to. But... She made friends with a girl who I believe is a really bad influence. She's 14 (a year younger than us), and she's already drinking. She steals the alcohol (Like vodka and stuff) from her parents (I've heard from my friend) because she knows where they put it, and then she puts it in her drinks (fruit punch, tea, etc.) so her parents just think she's drinking normal stuff. She steals things (And now my friend steals things from stores. For ex: clothes, nail polish, etc.). Also, she's started cussing a lot. In like EVERY text message, too. It's very annoying. And last but not least, she likes to sends nudes, and pushes up her boobs in every single picture. So I'm honestly scared that she's going to have a negative affect on MY BEST FRIEND. She's all like "She's really nice, though. I honestly don't care. I think it's funny, because one time we went out and she got "drunk". Well, she got all dizzy and it was funny. Also, I don't care how she sends nudes to boys hahaHAHHAheeehee." Btw, I totally exaggerated that haha. Anyway, what do I do! She wants us all to hang out together, but I don't care how nice she is. I don't want to hang out with someone like that.
How can I stop hanging out with friends that are bad influenec in high school?
I have a partial answer…..One of my friends from before kind of just left me in high school, he started smoking weed and getting in fights a lot. This guy now gets in a fight once a day, and gets beaten the sh*t out of once every day. He thinks since he hangs out with the Kool Kidz, he now thinks he is one of them and is strong too. He picks on everyone else and gets beaten up by many people. Anyways, I would just find a group of people that share common interests (e.g. favorite sport). Also, I wouldn't completely disown them as friends, but I would slowly fade out of their path and kind of leave them alone. Remember it's all about self control.
Are my friends a bad influence on me?
My mom says she doesn't want me hanging out with my friends as much, because they are bad influences and they act like wild "heathens". My guy friend, Theo, ratted out to them saying that "They were the ones throwing parties with alcohol and bongs. They were the ones mud wrestling and talking about sex." My mom got mad and told me they weren't good friends. They're the kind of people who's idea of a study and homework time is looking off of each other's answers. They're one of the popular people uses gay people as a pun and pushes people into a ditch in the fifth grade. They're nice people, but do you think I should get new friends or tell my mom to get off my back?
My Parents Think My Friends Are Bad Influences!?
Welcome to my world. My mom found out that i was having sex and flipped, and there is NO getting over it quick. U mite as well accept that.
How do I deal with my boyfriend's best friend who is a bad influence on him? He started drinking more, gambling and I feel like he is hiding something from me.
bad! Bad!! BAD!!! influence. Your boyfriend's friend has the power of influence over your boyfriend that's true.However no one can force your boyfriend to do anything he doesn't want to do.To cut through the chase if I may? I'm changing your question. How do I get my boyfriend to stop socializing with a degenerate??? Red pill answer, get ready your not going to like it, you don't! Truth be told this is what many women do; they get a man and try to change them. They see the good in a man the men themselves can't see, ooorr! it just doesn't exist. Either way your boyfriend has alot more in common with his friend than your willing to accept. Frankly I'm (much more concerned)! about how this is negatively affecting you! Drinking-gambling- mistrust- REALLY!! You sound like a monogamist romantic. This may help you, two topics. 1.) Men, REAL MEN!! are scarce today. The traits of a real man, provider, protector, control over emotions, leader, strong, loyal, guardians of truth. Topic 2.) Everyone has, or should have deal breakers. Deal breakers are actually protective boundaries that help us maintain our self respect, so here's five I try to live by 1.) Disrespect 2.) Public humiliation 3.) Lies 3.) Betrayal 4.) Backstabbing, or smearing & 5.) Non- recipocation. For everyone this list of standards differs, but this is a way to (respect-love-&-protect) yourself. If you don't use any of these five.. create at least three deal breakers of your own. I know that this probably isn't the answers you were looking for, but it's the answers you needed. Stay smart stay strong, and trust your (incredible instincts) Dr. Love out
I once hanged out with friends and we were drinking some alcohol, now my dad thinks all my friends are bad, how do I prove him wrong?
You don’t. Fathers will always think their kids friends are bad influence. This one incident is “proof” for you father. He will hold on to this “proof” as long as possible.Just accept that your father does not like your friends. That doesn’t mean you should stop hanging out with then, just make sure you don’t give him anymore fuel.
My friends have a really bad influence on me. I have no other friends apart from them. Should I stop "chilling" with them?
Yes, stop chilling with them. There are two types of people in this world: those that can move you ahead, and those that can hold you back. Interestingly enough, the two types of people don't associate with each other. If these "friends" are a bad influence on you, then they are holding you back. Because you associate with them, the people that could be a good influence on you refuse to associate with you because they view you as one of "them." If you break away from the people that have a bad influence on you and show that you want to do good, you will soon have friends that are a good influence on you.I will give you a perfect example. I like to think of myself as a good influence. I encourage my friends to better themselves, give them good advice, and am always there when they need assistance. Unsurprisingly, none of my friends are involved in anything illegal and truly want to better better themselves. I do not want to be connected with someone that is doing something wrong or is hanging around with people that are doing wrong stuff. Why should I since that is not the type of person that I am?If you decide to break with your current "friends" (I keep putting friends in quotations since I cannot see how a true friend would want to hurt you by being a bad influence), then do know that it will be lonely until you finally win the trust of those that want to help you and be a good influence in your life. You will need to prove that you have changed before those that are a good influence will accept you. We aren't stupid, which is why we aren't doing the stupid things that would make us be a bad influence in your life. Once you prove that you want to move ahead, I swear that we will be better friends to you than your current "friends" could ever be.
My daughters friend is a bad influence?
By not acting the same way Nevaeh does. I'm sure you're no innocent angel. For you to say you never liked your daughter, even if it was true, is not a very nice thing, and your daughter knows you didn't like her much. So no more drinking and partying for you. No smoking or swearing for you, either. It's also time for you to get off your hind end, be a real woman, and GET A JOB to support your kid. No more relying on welfare. Child support, yes, but that shouldn't be your only source of income, especially since it will end in a few years. Then what are you going to do?