My mum said that I'm ugly and need makeup?
Did she really say that to you??????!!!!!!!! And she's your mother???????!!!!!!!! That's a horrible thing to say to you as her daughter!!!!!!!! That is true, make up is not the best thing to put on your face because it could clog up your pores. My mom always tells me to splash water on my face to get off the dirt that has been on my face while sleeping. Plus what could be beneficial for you is to use a body wash that takes care of acne (for example Neutrogena, Burt's Bee's, St. Ive's etc.) but be careful which one you choose because it might have harmful chemicals and you also you a face cleanser (for example proactive, Clean & Clear etc.) to maintain your pores from getting blemishes. Go to a dermatologist and ask what's the best thing to use for your skin. If you have dark circles under your eyes, that means your probably not getting enough sleep or it could be something natural. Also you should stand up to your mom and not let you talk to you like that. Feeling insecure is not a good thing. She shouldn't be saying anything especially if your get yourself a boyfriend. Looks aren't everything but having healthy skin is a good thing. You should tell her "instead of always telling me how ugly my skin looks, maybe you should start being a good mother and help me get healthy skin by taking me to a dermatologist." I hope this whole speech helps you. Good luck!
How do you make up with your mum without saying anything?
“Making up with” someone implies there is an apology to be given. Those words can be important in a relationship, I would say you need to use you're words. Seeing as there is very little in the way of specifics, I can't give you much more.
My mom wont let me wear makeup. is 14 too young?
I am also 14 and my Mum's happy for me to wear makeup. I have to say, although I wear quite a lot, I wish I didn't. I mean obviously I'm not bright orange or anything, I choose all the right colours but I am happy with how I look. But I started wearing makeup when I was an early 13yr old and my skin was flawless. Sometimes I wish I didn't need to wear make-up now but because I started early I started to get spots. Now I almost need make up in order to cover them. It's a vicious circle! If you already have break-outs and what not then you could go to the doctors and have them prescribe you medication to help with acne. Even if you don't have acne, that's what they call it :-P I have 2 pills twice a day to keep my skin under control and a medicated roll on to apply on the night. If you still feel insecure you could buy some sort of medicated concealer. This is considered to be makeup but a concealer stick is what some people use to conceal their blemishes and reduce the redness, but if you were to buy a medicated one that would be even better as this helps get rid of blemishes and prevents them! But only apply this to the worst areas as make-up is full of oil and oil is usually the cause of bacteria - which turns into spots! http://www.superdrug.com/2true-be-clear-concealer/invt/626652&bklist= But remember, even if your Mum really bugs you about it, make sure you aren't too harsh. Mothers always know best and she probably just doesn't want you to wear it because she doesn't think you need it yet! Also the chances are she doesn't want her little girl to grow up. Maybe in a few months or so you could have a chat and compromise with her, so that everybody's happy. Hope I helped chick! E xxx
I've just said terrible things to my mom. How do I make her feel better?
Listen, she is your mother. She still loves you. You still love her, no matter how angry or upset both of you are. I think you should take a break. Go outside, take a walk. Take your phone (and answer it if she calls, you don't want her even more upset). But get away from the situation, breathe, dont think. Clear your mind. You feel bad right now but if you walk back into the situation, you will explode again. Trust me here. She needs time, you need time. Go away, give her space, and more importantly give yourself space. You can apologize when you are ready, even if it takes a few days. In that time, think. Dont assume everything you said was wrong. Maybe it was, but what we say when we are angry is usually a reflection of our true raw feelings. Maybe you were surprised at how much you had bottled up inside you. Make a list of what yo said, and beside that write rational, or irrational. Then go back to the things you think were rational. Remember what your mother said in response to that. See if you see her side of it. If you feel you were right somewhere, stand up for yourself. Aditting you are wrong if you dont think you are isnt going to solve the problem, its going to creat emore in the future. On the other hand, you may feel terrible for the harsh things you said, but not for your ideas, or your side of the argument. You can apologize for losing control without apologizing for what you believe in. Remember, dont be rushed. Do it in an enviornment conductive to positive convrsation. Iff you have to be formal, do it. If you have to text her to mee you in a coffee shop, even if it seems ridiculus, do it. If you still want to rant and yell, spen the night at your friends house. Ask them their unbiased opinion on what you said. Give yourself time. Make sure you are in a positive and cooperative mood when you go talk to her. Hopw this helps:)
How can I make my mom dump her boyfriend?
Hey, i'm going through the same thing as u!! I understand u..!! seriously, i feel so depressed, i can't stand my mum's boyfriend!! Whenever they do ever split up he comes over for a ''quick glass of wine'' or something and they end up sleeping together.. i can't stand it!! i sometimes wish i could just kill him or kill my self..!! but u know what? don't worry, just live ur life for today, be happy cos u only live once so just have fun..!! before u know it u'll be grown up, starting your own family, so u'll move out!! just don't worry =)) x
What should I do when my mom doesn't let me wear make-up or the clothes I like (I'm almost 20 and she can get very mad to the point it scares the hell out of me)?
What should I do when my mom doesn't let me wear make-up or the clothes I like (I'm almost 20 and she can get very mad to the point it scares the hell out of me)?Get a job, get your own place, and move out.Then Mommy can’t be the boss of you anymore.As long as you choose to live under her roof, you live under her rules.