Do animals sexually molest their young like pedophilic humans do?
Sometimes, yes, though it cannot really be called molestation as in humans - they are not exactly 'abusing' their young. Bonobos are a good example. In these apes, each individual regularly mates with all members of its group, regardless of age or sex. This is a form of social bonding for them, helping them maintain alliances and resolve conflicts without the need for violence. It is obviously not done for reproduction, since they mate with individuals of the same sex and those too young to breed. In stoats, adult males will enter nests of young whilst the mother is absent and mate with all the females in the litter. Their eggs are fertilised, but do not implant and complete development until the females have grown up and left the nest. This is a way of getting a head start on breeding for a small, vulnerable animal that often does not live very long. Many species have social systems that have evolved to prevent or at least minimize incest, as this is usually detrimental. For example, male lions leave the pride they were born into when they reach sexual maturity, and attempt to take over another, unrelated pride - this prevents them mating with their female relatives. Females remain in the pride they were born into all their lives, but the tenure of males is usually only two to three years, so by the time they reach sexual maturity their father will have been overthrown by new males, thus preventing them breeding with him. That said, incest certainly does occur in the animal kingdom. Many animals will mate with their relatives if no other mate is available - indeed, humans commonly mate related animals for the purpose of selective breeding, where they wish to 'fix' a particular characteristic in the animals. In some species, incest is actually the normal method of reproduction - in certain species of wasp, for example, males mate with their sisters as soon as they have hatched.
I myself was abused as a child. 1st I was molested by my step-brother, I was around 4–7 years old (not certain on the age range), I was also mentally abused by my stepmother. Then when living with my the other side of my parents, my stepdad physically abused me. I was sent back and forth between them for years. I also had the joy of having my sister physically abused me when we both were living our mom's. I've was a very abused child that just seemed to go from one type to the next and then back again. The only one that wasn't moved back into was the sexual abuse. What kills me even to this day is that nothing was ever done about my step-brother when it was out in the open what he'd been doing. Thankfully I don't remember much of what happened so many years ago. More than anything it has all had such a negative impact on my mental state of health. I still haven't learned how to be positive when it involves anything about myself. I couldn't possibly see myself doing any of the abusive things to anyone else that I had to endure as a child. I know how it all feels and I couldn't live with myself if I even had such a thought go through my mind of treating someone the way I was treated….I can only pray that I will one day be able to truly believe that I am better than what I feel I am. Why would I be is something I ask myself. My answer is quite simple. I'm not. I'm just a person that tries and tries, and as no shock, I'm still not good enough to get anything right. I'll never be able to be worth anything to anyone else. I'm even worth mentioning. I've been a failure at everything I've tried…I am having a more and more difficult time of finding reason to keep trying at anything…but I can never abuse another person. I will help anyone, if I'm able to, to get away from any abuser. I do apologise for having veered off course. The cycle of abuse I've received stops with me.
I hated myself - I thought I brought it upon myself to be abused.At age 3 or 4, I walked around in my fancy underwear in our house and yard, the kind of underwear with frills at the back. It was my favorite. I heard the nosy neighbor said, “it happened because she walks around in just that underwear”. The assh*le was 19, I was 3–4. I felt so dirty, I hid the underwear far far back in the closet. Also, I started wetting the bed.. Whenever people say I am a beautiful child, I cringe and cry. I hated older people who wanted me to kiss them, or want to put me in their laps, or hold me. I hated when my aunt wanted me to look pretty or dress me up, or make me smell good.I begged my dad to teach me how to kick, do karate. I don’t think he knew what had happened to me.And then again when I was in 2nd grade by a close relative, whom I thought was a hero. And again, twice, when I was in High School. Again when I was 16. Again when I was 22. Again when I was 23. It was ALL my fault for being in the stupid place at the stupid time - or by being nice to people.So by the time I was already 26 - I was already violent, so sick of it. I found out that when I get violated sexually, that I could hit people square in the back/head/neck whenever I am pissed. Bottles fly and my mouth has its own vocabulary of profanity. I would black out and turn into a monster… All I wanted was to beat the mothafuckrs into a pulp.I loved to watch violent movies - more on women beating up their abusers, the more violent it was the more I get interested and excited. But I could never watch the rape scenes, abusive scenes. I’d grit my teeth and imagine beating up my abusers…stabbing them… and do all that could hurt them.But I am also very empathetic towards others - I can say that I am also very nice (sometimes too nice). My violent tendencies do come out (i hate it..), but I am happy that I am trying to get some balance in this life.
I dont think Veterans deserve anymore respect than anyone else?
As a veteran, I hate to hear your encounters with fellow veterans have been negative. Most vets are good people and you'll rarely know they are a vet unless you get into a conversation and the topic comes up. I don't wear my military service on my sleave, as its not something I feel I need to do. I think many of the vets you have encountered may be bitter over a lack of fulfillment of promises made to them and other vets. Years of dealing with this can cause much bitterness and resentment to the government they served. Did you know that if you make over $30,000 a year, you can't qualify for Vet Health Coverage? If I made $31,000 and had just returned from Iraq and couldn't get a job with benefits, I'd be a pretty bitter person too. The holiday also represents vets of old who are no longer with us. In the past, many wars were fought over better terms then the ones of current. My grandfather is a WWII vet and he and his friends that are still around deserve our respect. They didn't do 6 month, or 12 month tours and come home. They went and stayed until the war was over, until they were dead, or until they were too severly injured and were sent home to heal. Those actions deserve my respect. I'd suggest you take this Veteran's Day and try and meet other veterans. Ask older men or women that you respect if they are veterans. You'll probably find quite a few that are, and that have already earned your respect.
How can a womanizer and pedophile such as muhommed be an inspiration to muslim women? i am shocked. comments?
Neither was he (peace be upon him) a womanizer nor a pedophile. He was the final messenger Allah (God) sent to humanity as a whole. Allah, glory to Him, addressed the prophet who was sent as mercy for all mankind, in the Holy Koran (Qur'an) saying "And Verily, you are on an exalted (standard of) character." (Surat Al-Qalam, verse 4) "The reasons behind the Prophet's several marriages are various, but even in the privateness of some of those reasons, they all had to do with his role as the leader of the new Muslim ummah (nation), guiding his people towards the norms and values of Islam." (Quoted from a website) And no, it is not brainwashing, because at the very early age of Islam, the first people with whom Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) interacted, were the masters of polemic and speech. They were well-versed in all branches of Arabic language, so they could not be fooled or just brainwashed. Were it simply an act of brainwashing, this religion would not have stood the test of time for ages. If you believe it is just falsehood and we take it for granted, then you stereotype us all as being blockheads and brainless, and we are not, and we love our Prophet and whenever the need arises, we will defend him. If you really want to find an answer for your question, assuming it is just a question or a passing thought, not an accusation or a conviction, then seek these websites that deal with Islam and its various issues and branches of knowledge. I am not going to suggest any certain website so that you won't say I am curbing your faculties or trying to drive you to a certain direction. I should just trust your faculties and leave it open for your free will if you want to know better.
Can a custody evaluator recommend to the court that a Protective order be issued for the custodial parerent?
The CE develops a family plan based on their evaluation. NOw you need to tell them everything you said here. Its possible for the CE to request in your families best interest that a PO be drawn up with very limited supervised visits on him. Leave out the gun to the CE as this will definitely raise some red flags on you that you dont need, so just leave the gun til later. Any evidence, witnesses or any other proof you have to back your claim about him to the CE would greatly help your case so it doesnt end up being your word against his and nothing gets accomplished, but stress immensely that you feel threatened for your life by him, but dont make him out to be a cold killer. The PO covers you and yours everywhere you guys are, but remember to the CE, hes going to make himself look like a choir boy that cant do no wrong. Just try not to look like a revengeful wife too much. The CE is trained to spot special red flags so try not to raise to many of them, just be yourselves and portray the "Leave It to Beaver-Cleaver" family and youll be alright. Good luck
Why do people love tupac,when all he did with his life,was lie,cause trouble and beef everyone ?
The actual problem is that you and several others have a misinterpretation of him and his use of words mostly because of media and people in power trying to protect themselves. First, have a look at his life story through the documentary Tupac Resurrection. Secondly, he actually apologized for what he had said about MJ and a few others he had wrongfully accused. Third, he is still human and has made many mistakes but I'm pretty sure that if you would put yourself in his shoes and see how well you would have done coming from a poor black community suppressed by most white folks including politicians etc. It'll eventually eat you up inside if your entire music shows how to solve a lot of problems yet nothing is done about it... Not only that, they actually turn it to a negative like "Gangsta rap" or "he has so much foul language!" yet the majority of people speak the same way as he does in most of the communities because it's an actual slang language that people don't get. Many people have no idea about Tupak Shakur as being a genius... We should never judge a book by its cover! How he was raised and where he was grew up made it hard for him to be heard. He used his amazing poetry to tell the story of his communities' lifestyle to display what's actually happening even today in many communities. Certainly many black communities in the U.S. They are lacking so much support it’s sickening. A lot of people don't understand Rap because of the extreme slang (which is actually it's own language really http://www.urbandictionary.com/), the violence, foul language, and negative image. But if you pay attention to the lyrics, view it with no judgement and listen to the human telling a story, you’ll see the truth and understand. The message is actually very impressive and positive, even when they tell the horrible negative stories as well. Great human being: http://www.blackcelebritygiving.com/2013/11/10-philanthropic-facts-may-know-tupac-shakur/
So the classical signals of low confidence and self esteem , These traits are shown by a person who gets distracted easily and avoids things that needs his/her attention so that in turn leads to guilt which on turn leads to anxiety .So boys and girls don't put off your tasks and become nervous and anxious .Practice meditation for increasing concentration and less bombardment of useless thoughts.Go hit the gym to get yourself in shape ,Having a good physique gives positive re-affirmation of self worth .Don’t go seeking validation from others (friends , family,g.f) ,Pursue lots of hobbies ( reading , watching t.v ,listening to music does not qualify as hobbies)If anything needs your attention and it takes less than 2 minutes of your attention don’t put it off .And don’t put people on pedestal , Saying NO will not make you a sinner or bad person .Don;t multitask , write down things to do .Don’t give a rat’s ass over other peoples opinion , Yes they might be successful due to their hard work but doesn’t mean they can over ride your interests and beliefs which again doesn’t mean you will ignore , weigh the merits and de-mertis and choose a balanced opinion