How do I redeem myself?
First figure out what you’re redeeming yourself for and what you did to put yourself in a position to need to. Answer this question: what is it about you that caused you to make the decisions that got you there. Once you’ve figured out your part in it, make a list of everyone and every institution you may have harmed, and you become willing to make amends. Do you owe money? An apology? A demonstration of contrition?Then you make those amends, whatever it may take, if you really want to be redeemed. Your success will depend on that desire. Take every wrong you’ve ever committed, and make good on the debt. That is how you redeem yourself.
How do I redeem myself before God?
First, be sorry for your sins and do your very best to put them behind you. Put your faith in Jesus Christ, who died to pay the penalty for your sins and who rose again to give you eternal life. Invite Him to come and live in your heart, and to be your Lord and Savior. You're no worse and no better than any other sinner. God loves you very, very dearly! He always has and He always will. God will forgive you for anything you've done if you believe and trust in His Son, Jesus Christ.
I Was Too Clingy - Can I Redeem Myself?
Well. I've been there. I had to learn distance makes the heart grow fonder. Also, check out a book called All Men Love Bitches. It's awesome and written by a woman. She tells you how to turn the tables. She mentions a few things....don't be too available, don't tell all your business be somewhat mysterious, let him wonder what you are up to and if you are thinking of him, don't cater to him, dropping your plans for his. Be interested, but a little distant until you are at a certain point in your relationship and even then it may need some fine tuning. She mentions that the women men think are so fine and all that, are the women that are not playing super hard to get and that are also not easy to succumb to most advances. When he calls if you have time to talk do so, if not call him back, it's when we go out of our way that shows them that they have the relationship in the palm of their hand. Also treat him like a friend. Men want a woman who is like their best friend.
How to redeem myself with my girlfriend?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. We're forced to do long distance for the next 4 months and it is absolutely miserable. We spent all summer together, literally by each others sides, and now that we aren't together, I feel as if I freak out over every little thing. I know that distance messes with your head and that I should just relax.. but for a week or so there I felt as if my girlfriend was pulling away. So I mentioned it to her and just wouldn't let it go. Last night I brought it up again, said that if she wanted space for a few days I completely understood, and she got upset. She said that she doesn't want space from me, that the distance is hard but that me not being there wouldn't make it better, and that I'm making her feel as if she doesn't care about our relationship, etc. I'm going to see her in three weeks, and then moving back with her in a few months, but I need to know what to do and how to act to get her to let it go and not pull away. How do I respond to her texts, phone calls? Do I play it cool and always happy? I'll know if there's anything seriously wrong when I go see her, but until then, what is it that I can do to prove that I am the love her life. She said last night that she wanted to marry me.. and I'm not that guy to get scared by that. When you love a woman, you love them. I just don't know what to do. Any help would be appreciated.
Have can I redeem myself academically?
So the last year has been NOT so good academically, I have several withdrawls on my transcript, and 2 F's. I consider myself a very studious person, but was losing sight of what I was trying to accomplish. After I went through panic because I realized how bad I was screwing up, I'm back on the ball (my GPA 3.6 up until last year), and I'd really like to transfer to a State University, do you think my chances are still good? Do you think they're is a way for me to make up those withdrawls and F's?
What are some ways a man can redeem himself, to earn a forgiveness from women?
I don't think forgiveness is dependant on gender. First the person actually needs to be remorseful. Meaning that whatever the act, it went against the offenders own personal values and that has created a discord within the offender's soul.Next that remorse needs to be expressed honestly. Provide the feelings and emotions at the time, and explain how it led to the offending action. In other words own it. Do not press on with your reasoning, the apology may go unheard depending on the state of mind of the offended. If this is the case, futher explaination will only aggrevate the situation, and depending on the serverity, the offended may never forgive you, that depends on how much love they have for you (left). Next make ammends. If you broke something fix it, pay for it. If you stole something return it. If you lied about somebody, tell the truth. The misdeed no matter how pointless now it must seem must be corrected if at all possible. This is the least you can do. If you did something that cannot be undone. Abstain from the repeat offenses. Do not commit to abstain from the action if you seriously think you can't. The second wound is often more fatal. Flowers, gifts and other material nonsense is a band-aid over internal bleeding. Better to withdraw, and change yourself, re-align with your values and see if time and fate may brings that important someone back into your life. Don't whine, threaten, tantrum out, accept that you can only control your own actions, nobody elses. Warning signs to the offended they do not feel remorseful. If you are the offended wait and observe, you can accept an apology but still defer whether this person is worth your time and energy. Ultimately people want to share our lifes who share the same values. best of luck
How do I redeem myself from being stupid while drunk?
Okay, on Saturday I went to a party of my friend's group of friends, who I don't know too well. They are pretty chilled out people, but I got wasted and was being loud and obnoxious (not my usual personality at all, and I normally have never more than two drinks-low tolerance). Also, the worst of all I was talking about staying at a resort at one point and my friend who took me and knows them better thought that it sounded like I was bragging-I would never brag about something like that in my normal mind, nor do I (or my friend) think I was intentionally doing so, but she thinks I may have come off that way. gah! anyways, I am seeing this same group of people on friday at a show my friend is playing at and I promised I would go. I'd rather hide my head in the sand. should I not go? and if I do go, what should I say or do to redeem myself for acting like such an annoying person... this has been bothering me all week.
How can I redeem myself to people who think I'm a weirdo?
“ I used to walk into a room and wonder if anyone will like me; now, I walk into a room and wonder if I'll like anyone.”Here's a question: Do you like yourself as you are? If the answer to that is Yes, then I don't see why what others think should matter so much. As long as you're not hurting anyone, you have a right to be who you are.Being true to who you are, and accepting yourself as you are, should not be a democratic decision. You do not need anyone's vote to decide if you want to be this way or that way. If you feel more comfortable being an introvert, then by all means be an introvert.The thing about trying to be something you're not is that people can sense it, and it wears thin pretty fast. It's just not sustainable. After a while, you will revert to your default settings of being you.It's impossible to please people all the time. One shouldn't even try because once people realize that you are willing to change who you are just to please them, they kinda tend to take advantage of that, and not in a good way.I'm sure there are people out there who get you, just the way you are. That's your tribe. Seek those people out; people who will accept the real and authentic you without requiring you to ‘redeem’ yourself by being something you're not.