HELP!! drunk parents?
ok so my mum and her partner are both alcoholics and they drink every night and get completely drunk and cant remember anything they said to me or my siblings the next day..they constantly cause fights with me and my siblings and i just cant be bothered anymore with it.. tonight i came home from work and brought some fresh bread and muffins etc and she said she didnt want them and chucked them out..she then told me that i annoy her even though i did and said nothing to her!! and she told me that she pretty much hated me :( Ive learnt to ignore them and spend most of my time in my room or away from home but whenever i am at home its always a fight!! i cant afford to move out as i am studying. I really dont know what to do..they are complety differrent people until they drink and yet they dont admit that they are alcoholics.ARGH HELP!! (sorry so much to read!)
Drunk guy starts a fight........ should I finish it?
I would put him in the ground. But it depends if you know martial arts then its different. When i got my black belt 2nd degree 4 guys tried to beat me up in the car park of where i was training. They were saying that i thought i was tough but they were just drunk and angry cuz england lost a football game to portugal. Anyway i walked off and they chased me and one of the guys punched me and i just lost my temper and beat them so much two had to go in intensive care. Sorry to blabber but what im saying is walk until the point in which the person gets a bit too rowdy and then strike if your going to because a person is most weak when they are angry.
High school parties are getting repetitive/boring ?
you better be careful and watch yourself because you are going to be getting in a lot of trouble your too young to get in this business just wait until college! its more fun trust me
My ex boyfriend drunk texted me - What do I do?!?
My ex boyfriend and I broke up last January (he broke it off with me after a little over a year of dating). The reason for our break up is a complicated story about how we were both too immature and it was a large, stupid fight over nothing. I regret it highly as I still love him a lot, even to this day. We stopped talking pretty much that day and haven't talked at ALL since. He had a new girlfriend back in September, but apparently they broke up earlier this month. He texted me two nights ago for the first time in almost a year. He just said 'Hey' and asked me how I was. I told him that I couldn't complain and he replied that (and I directly quote) "Well, that's good. Well, I'm drunk and now bored because my roommate can't hold his alcohol haha" I didn't reply because I was really afraid of being that girl that just gave into a drunk guy because she missed him. He apologized in the morning (just a simple 'sorry') which I think means something, but I'm not sure. We started talking after I just said 'that's fine - don't worry about it' (to which HE replied and started a conversation) and just stopped an hour or two ago (because he answered something that said 'sweet' and i didn't want to push it from there - i'm trying to take it easy. dont want to seem toooo eager) While talking, he kept baiting me. He would say things like 'well, so and so thought you wanted him' and i would avoid the questions beacuse i didn't want to really talk about our relationship so soon. and he got indignant 'but you don't deny it' to which i said 'you know i only ever wanted you' and he said 'i know. he wishes he could have you' I am SO confused after not talking for a year. What is this?! I still love him and want him to be thinking about me but I'm afraid I was just a drunk text (which, if that's true, that's fine - I just want to KNOW, you know?) Part of me feels like he texted me when he was drunk because he needed some 'help' to get his feelings out, and another part of me just feels like I could have been a booty call? What do you think?
My boyfriend talks to me in a mean manner when he's drunk. How do I make him realise he's hurting me?
I am a mentor and I see this up close so I'm going to give you big warning straight to your face!Stop this now!What this is - is verbal and emotional abuse.The fact that you say he mistreats you when he gets drunk and then you say he is a “good guy” puts you into a dangerous category of “victim”.You need to stop this now!He mistreats you when he gets drunk then you defend him by saying he is a ‘good guy’. Do you see a problem with this ?Many men have a drinking problem; they get drunk and abuse other people. The girlfriend sometimes tries to cover it up; lessen what has happened by saying he is a “good guy”. This makes herself a victim of what comes next.We allready understand both verbal abuse and emotional abuse here. The next thing that comes after is physical abuse - you end up in the ER (emergency room) at the hospital from being beaten.The fact that you allow this behavior gives him liscense to do it more; not less. Next thing up is physical abuse.Do not tolerate this!Drunk people can not be reasoned with. Go to your parents house or your brothers house or sisters house when he gets drunk. Stay away! Let him sleep it off. Tell your family what is happening.Get help!Come back in the morning.Write him a note:Dear,You hurt me last night when you were drunk. I need you to stop. I have respect for myself and won't let you or anyone mistreat me this way…Sign and date.This is his first and last warning. Do not continue with this kind of relationship. Do not have children in this type of relationship - nor are you to get married. He may start abusing the kids when he gets drunk and you aswell.Will you still say he is a “good guy” if he pounds his fist in your face next ? Drunk people can not control their anger. Physical abuse is a serious problem. Don't let this happen next.Get out of this relationship !
What does being drunk feel like?
I think you should be looking at what does a drunk look like instead these are the negatives" how do they act - stumbling - slurring words don't make any sense do they remember the embarrassing things they did /said do they remember throwing up at the party/home in front of mom and dad starting a fight - fighting driving drunk/ getting into a car with another drunk driver ( cant tell when you are drunk) or being taken advantage of as a female ( there are people who will take advantage of drunk people and purposely get them drunk and date rape them) or making a complete *** out of your self in front of all your friends/family drinking responsible is the key - don't drink and drive or get in a car with someone who has been drinking drunks - lie about how much they drank when they are trying to drive home- they will tell you they are fine now and that they only had a couple of drinks.. some people die from alcohol poisoning - drank too much alcohol and poisoned their body - dead teens die every day from drunk drivers/some were their best friends or parents who drove Drunk Drivers kill innocent people every day, young and old.People who are minding their own business and WHAM now they are DEAD
I feel the urge to fight with my boyfriend, what should I do?
I see many relationship questions like this on Quora every week:“My boyfriend doesn’t call or text me much anymore. What should I do?”“All my partner and I seem to do is argue with each other all the time. What should I do?”“My boyfriend(girlfriend) seems so distant recently. What should I do?”I always guess that a bad (toxic) relationship is the root cause, but lately I have developed a theory on the basic cause.Many decades ago when people dated, many of them actually made it to their honeymoon. For those that started early, they usually were is a serious relationship or engaged before they started sharing one another.A couple of decades ago when our sons were starting dating, especially in college, young people often were in bed together by the third date. I’m not saying that is bad. The problem is that God (or mother nature) designed human sex as a very powerful bonding experience that works great for holding marriage together. But when a young couple starts out having sex too early it becomes so “bonding” that they overlook many issues that really make them not a long range compatible couple. They exist in a toxic relationship based (loosely) on good (or OK) sex. When they are not in bed, the relationship is not good. Thus we end up with Quora relationship questions looking for help.I say all this for those couples where this might apply. Do you really have anything “solid” in your relationship other that the sex part? If the honest answer is “no.” Please consider calling it off and move on. Life is too short for toxic relationships.