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How Can I Stop Being Percieved As An Airhead/ditz Am I Just An Idiot

How can I stop being perceived as ditzy/an airhead? Am I just an idiot?!?

I am afraid I am going to die alone, or a guy will have to "settle" for my personality because I won't be smart enough. I know most girls worry about their looks, but I am concerned about my intelligence. Everywhere I go I get labeled things such as ditzy, airhead, blonde(even though I'm brunette), or even just stupid or dumb. This really pisses me off and hurts because I really don't try to be! I am just being me! I am really sweet and kind to people and get along with everyone, but can be pretty passive and I tend to try to avoid conflict. I can be a big pushover at times. I am always smiling and cheerful. I tend to forget key details of simple things easily, constantly make careless mistakes, and am constantly daydreaming and zoning out. I tend to lack common sense but I never thought that made me deserve the "ditz" label. I am also socially awkward and tend to make a lot of social mistakes. I don't push my opinions or views on others, simply because I don't like arguing. I can also be slow when it comes to understanding things or jokes and am really bad at responding in conversations. Do I just have to accept that I am a ditzy idiot? I am sick of people treating me and calling me stupid, because despite all of these things, I am not stupid and want to have intelligent connections with people but they always immediately write me off. Idk what to do.. I want to be myself but not if this is how I am going to be treated my whole life. What do I do?!

How to deal with women that are airheads?

So a lot of women that I have come in contact with are airheads. Very ditzy.

They don't remember things well and they only care about shopping and girly stuff.

If you try to talk to them about someone, they don't remember anything. If you try to talk to them about sports, they don't remember anything. Its obvious they don't pay attention to anything unless it involves like I said, shopping or girly things. Most of them can't even remember directions.

What is the deal ?

How can I stop being percieved as an airhead/ditz? Am I just an idiot?

I am afraid I am going to die alone, or a guy will have to "settle" for my personality because I won't be smart enough. I know most girls worry about their looks, but I am concerned about my intelligence. Everywhere I go I get labeled things such as ditzy, airhead, blonde(even though I'm brunette), or even just stupid or dumb. This really pisses me off and hurts because I really don't try to be! I am just being me! I am really sweet and kind to people and get along with everyone, but can be pretty passive and I tend to try to avoid conflict. I can be a big pushover at times. I am always smiling and cheerful. I tend to forget key details of simple things easily, constantly make careless mistakes, and am constantly daydreaming and zoning out. I tend to lack common sense but I never thought that made me deserve the "ditz" label. I am also socially awkward and tend to make a lot of social mistakes. I don't push my opinions or views on others, simply because I don't like arguing. I can also be slow when it comes to understanding things or jokes and am really bad at responding in conversations. Do I just have to accept that I am a ditzy idiot? I am sick of people treating me and calling me stupid, because despite all of these things, I am not stupid and want to have intelligent connections with people but they always immediately write me off. Idk what to do.. I want to be myself but not if this is how I am going to be treated my whole life. What do I do?!

What does it mean if someone is considered "ditzy"?

It's not good, its not bad. It means they are somewhat air-headed. They don't think before they speak, that ask dumb questions, lack common sense. It can be sometimes annoying so maybe bad at times..

Will Melania Trump make a great First Lady?

Melania Trump has clearly indicated that she has ZERO interest in being an active FLOTUS, unlike most other first ladies before her.First she made a fool of herself when she plagiarized M. Obama’s speech after trump received the RNC nomination. Then she pretty much ‘stole’ another of M. Obama’s platforms with her silly ‘be best’ platform. She once again made a fool of herself and showed the world her hypocrisy with her ‘cyber-bullying’ campaign, all the while supporting the biggest cyber-bully of all time (trump).She chose to stay in her gilded New York apartment instead of occupying the WH after inauguration. She used the excuse that she wanted Barron to finish school before moving. I’ll bet if Michelle Obama had done such a thing, there would be an explosion of rants against her. MT’s choice of residency cost tax payers at least $100,000/day in security and about $675,000 in transport costs when she deigned to join the wannabe dictator and be his ‘arm candy’ for an event.Once at the WH, she pretty much is the First Lady in Hiding… showing up every now an then for a photo op and not much else.For me, she proved that she has NO interest in anything outside of her circle of fashion and luxury, when she wore that disgusting jacket saying “I don’t really care - do you|?” while making a perfunctory trip to a charity home that was looking after the children the wannabe dictator had ripped from their parents.Now and then she makes a tweet that appears to show she disagrees with the tyrant she occupies the WH with, but when all is said and done, it is a tweet and nothing else.IMO, she married trump for his money & a life of luxury and does the bare minimum that her ‘contract’ requires. In her own way, she is just as self-centered, uncaring, self-absorbed and classless as trump.Trump is considered to be the WORST POTUS EVER. Melania Trump will be remembered as the least involved, least interested, least visible FLOTUS in history.

Are Pisceans usually dumb?

Their not dumb.

You see as a Libran,I'd see right through you.

The good and the bad.And trust me Pieces Are Not Dumb.

Their so smart they Act Dumb.

Innocent look,pretending to forget,not mentioning things,trying to go around a question they don't like.Trying to use reverse psycology lol.it's cute.really.

Oh boy,I grew up with a pieces and he gave up trying to pull any smart tricks on me a long long time ago.Because i could always remain objective.And everytime he said something like,

"I never heard you say that.." with their classic pieces made up clueless look.

I'd just reply "Yes you did."and i don't know if it's just a libran thing but it only takes me once to set the record straight and he gives up.I've seen him play around with everyone else but not with me because i break it down for him.In DETAIL.It's almost as if i had so much conviction in one sentence he really just gives up.His never won any arguments against me because well, no other sign have either..So arguments are not an option for Pieces people Vs Libra.They like to retreat and I give them their space.Their overall gentle soulful people.

I never stress them unless i absolutely have to.As they feel threatened easyly and it shows in their eyes.SO i try my best to reassure them.I sense that they are inredibly sensitive but i NEVER RELY on them to fulfill anyone else's emotional needs like say a CANCER would do.

Pieces are good for you to practice nurturing but if YOU NEED nurturing YOU cannot get it from them.But i'm grateful being a libra helps me remain detached and flexible and get my nurturing from different people instead of just my friend.He does complain that i'm cold.But i'm not.Nothing is personal to me.Not even friendship.They all must be fair.

So that's my experience with Pieces.Their not dumb but may have played you like a fool haha.