How Can I Stop Being Severely Insecure

How do you learn to stop being insecure and accept myself?

Usually insecurities have to do with your self esteem. You're always second guessing yourself, you don't think your good enough, you feel as if everyone is judging your every move. It's hard to accept yourself, I know from experience, it's hard.But for a moment think about this; is there someone in your life that encourages you? That gives you compliments just to see you smile? That doesn't even spare your faults a single glance? This person could be anyone. For example, your mom, your dad, a sibling, a cousin, a significant other, a friend, etc. Anyone.And if there is, what you have to do is look at yourself through their eyes. You have to think of yourself as they describe you. Then you'll realise that there is more to you than you think.And, like me, if there isn't anyone in your life who does these things, there is another way to get over your insecurities and accept yourself. Everday, look at yourself in the mirror and list everything you like about yourself, be it out loud or in your head. Look yourself in the eye and list all of your accomplishments. Everything you have done that your are proud of doing.And before you think that there is nothing, think again. There is always something you are proud of, be it scoring an A on a test or helping someone cross the road. There is always something that you like about yourself if you are yourself, be it your eyes, the color of your hair, your freckles, etc.All you have to do is think.

How do severely insecure people begin to allow love to enter their lives in any meaningful way? How can they change their thinking?

First insecurity comes with in yourself. So in order to trust another you must first trust yourself. Here is an example of why. When you meet someone new you could be insecure that they will hurt you. So you think you will try every way to keep them from doing that including not acting like yourself. You think that they have regected you. Really they are defecting that crazy controlling person we just said wasn't like you. But an insecure person would feel Personaly rejected anyway. Not a verry good start, and now you just told yourself see I'm right people just hurt you. (realy?) that's the problem? A self secure person likes themself. Is ok with who they are. A self secure person would say well this person could be cool I'll give it a try. This secure person isn't going to be worked that this person will hurt them, or change them, or reject them. What magic is this? No magic! A person who is secure is secure with, or with out them. Friendship is known to be conditional on both sides if you each like eachother. A person who is confident is ok with that because they will be chusing also. Your self, own belifes, selfasteem,morsls, self interests are not at wrisk. Because a friendship requires these things to remain intact, because you value yourself, and require it. You Exspect to be treated with respect, because you would call off any friendship that is not respecfull to you. So why act strange? What would you be afrade of? Find security with in yourself that you are able to trust yourself before you will offer anything of subsatace for some one to like. Of you want to be likeable have a cherictor. If you want trust be trust worthy If you want to be strong than have boundries. If you want a friend be one. Would you be friends with yourself? Would you like to be treated how you treat others? Be fore you just thing I'm a great friend than answer who is that crazy controlling person them? Who is the needy nerotic one? Be who you are proud to be, then make a friend who will respect that. Uphold your boundries. Congrats on acting like yourself. No see if people like the you that is in fact ……..you.

How can I stop feeling insecure about my body?

Hello...! Hope the one reading is this is doing good..!The points here I mention may sound a bit of cliche, but they are true to the best of my knowledge.Beauty is something that the mankind  has developed. There is no such prescribed law or guideline for beautiful girls. It's how the way we look at ourselves. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder ...! And beholder alone..Nothing else.Don't feel bad for possessing average looks. Beauty is something that corresponds only to your youth hood. So far, I know so many hot chicks have lost all their physical charm and comeliness after they give birth to kids. So, physical beauty is so very ephemeral. Brooding over average looks is not that worth , my buddy.!Don't regret or envy about girls who are hot looking. We think that they are always on cloud nine.. But that's not factually true.! Every living being has their own share of sorrow bundles.. No point in envying. Coming to the most awaited part of talking about middling looks is that the CONCEPT OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP. Don't be sombre about not getting stunning hot guys as your love. Never mind. Let the right guy sweep you off your feet.Better look for a guy who  respect girls, accept you as you are, no more dramas..! Let him fall for your unkemptitude and messiness, the look that you have as soon as you get up from your bed. Let the love be true enough. Let him see you as his little sweet princess than a hottie girlfriend used only for physical relationships. Summarising, beauty is just a temporal power that god bestows a few. Your chubby cheeks, rosy lips,vibrant eyes, curvaceous eyebrows, slender figure, unblemished skintone, sex appealing physique, dangling fringes, manicured and pedicured nails gonna get vanish in a jiffy.. So don't worry about these so very transient features.!Live life.. Enjoy your breaths when it's still with you.! Have a heart of gold.! Get a guy who loves you as such and lose your physical charm in  the course of time along with your loverboy and age gracefully..!  ;) I guess that's where real beauty lies..!Hope  this answer would have boosted your confidence and served your purpose.! Fracture your inferiority complex and all other negative adjectives out of your mind...Out..! Out at once I said.Smile your heart out.. Live vicariously.. Don't be influenced by others in your own life issues.. Don't let anyone pen down your destiny.. Let you be the author.. Never mind Even if you are not a master at it. Cheers and Peace..! :P

What’s the best way to stop feeling insecure?

To me the best way is working out!Those tremendous exercises, all that stimulus, all that struggle and all that blood flowing through your muscles is something that makes you feel invincible.Just dedicating time to yourself and yourself only will give you that boost to your self-confidence. Seeing changes on your body, feeling greater than ever, eating more and moving more are all factors that will change your persona.As a consequence, you start going out more because a part of you wants to show the results of your training and your routine. By going out more you meet new people. Some of them are scumbags… BUT… some of them are beautiful souls ready to accept you in their life.By having more friends, you have more support and by having more support you will forget the meaning of being insicure .

How does one stop being an insecure person and become a fully confident person once and for all?

Hello buddy,Looks like you would like to stop being insecure and become fully confident person.It can be easily accomplished now - it will take time though.Basic concept to grasp - Insecurity comes from thoughts and thoughts are created by beliefs we have about self-worth, self-importance, life, people and who we are as people.I tried changing thoughts for 8 years - it was a stressful and hard process - that’s not something I wish you would try - but that’s what all people will tell you.That’s one truth, you can do it the hard way. There is luckily a new way, with new studies.You can eliminate limiting beliefs that will help you get in shape your own self-worth and this will raise your self-esteem.beliefs that usually hold our insecurity and hold confidence down:There's something wrong with me. I'm not attractive. I'm not good enough. I'm ugly. I'm not capable. I'm not talented. I don't matter. I'm weak. What I want doesn't matter. I'm inadequate. What I feel doesn't matter.I'm not competent. What I do doesn't matter. I'm a fake, a fraud, a phony. I'm not worthy. I'm a disappointment. I'm worthless. I'm invisible. I'm not okay. I'm not acceptable. I'm not important. I'm doomed. I'm not deserving. I have nothing to offer. I'm not lovable. My needs are not important. I'm powerless. I'm not trustworthy. I'm stupid. I'm a loser. I'm bad. I'm defective. I'm nothing. I don't have what it takes.Remember, a belief can be true but we don’t believe it’s true about us because it seems we have evidence it’s not true.a way to know you have some of them, is to say that out loud and see if that makes you feel bad, ichy or some kind of feeling inside expect indifference and if that does, you probably have this belief.Having this belief and now eliminating it, will hold you in life from fully experiencing total confidence, joy and freedom.