Why am I feeling like I am deeply missing something important in my life? What do I feel I am missing?
You mean why do you feel that you are not cared?Nope, am not here to dish out some encouragement words and some selfhelf tips.Am here to list out why and when those kind of feelings overtakes your mind and trouble your thoughts.When you are alone.When you are out of Job/purpose.When you are unable to perform upto your parents/peers expectations.When you can't digest the fact that people only uses you when they are in need.When you really are wasting the time.You may have some set goals but unable to concentrate on them.When you lack concentration and suffer with low self-esteem.When you think people usually doesn't care much about you.When there are no fruitful results even when you are working hard.When everything that you try to do end up being disaster and you start feeling someone's support would be of some help.And finally, when you are at age where you need a genuine person to share your thoughts and needs but all you get is fake people in your life.So, How to overcome this?By realizing the harsh truth of life. That is people/things comes to you only when you are successful not when you are down.And also realizing that you are not important to anybody expect your parents when you are unsuccessful.Instead of wanting for somebody to recognize you and make you feel important, just remember, you are already important to your family which comes along the way until your death.So, Now you need a direction which keeps you busy and a realization that no one gives a shit until you become something or someone.
What made you stop feeling regret and sorry about what you did in the past?
What made you stop feeling regret and sorry about what you did in the past?The realization that I cannot change the past, no matter how much I wished to do so. To take those words back; to disguise that look better; to change that frown into a smile; we all have those moments, moments we wish we could change; moments where we realize we betrayed our self.This realization doesn’t really make you stop feeling regret or being sorry about mistakes in the past, but it does help you learn from these mistakes and, hopefully, allow yourself to understand that you are human.Do you forgive yourself? Probably not, but you can turn this into a learning experience, realizing you can never make up for it, or take it back, what’s done is done and it is what it is. Acceptance is not forgiveness, but you need to own it before you can accept it.The trick is, accepting it and stop beating yourself up for it. All that does is leave bruises that are self inflicted, not worthy, and counter-productive to any hope of becoming a better person.
I have read about circumcision and now i feel regret?
Take a deep breath. First of all, your gf is not experiencing any lack of pleasure from your circumcision. Most girls prefer it. Before you read all those lies did you feel like sex was no good? Ask the circumcised men around you if sex is no good. The anti circumcision bandwagon has made up a lot of false claims. I suppose this is to counteract the fact they feel that those who are pro circumcision have made up false claims. Probably some of both is going on. But I promise you that you aren't missing out on some great thing. Read some YA about guys who have to get circumcised as adults. They can tell you that being circumcised is not some curse. Your best bet is to think how good you felt before you read all that. You will not lose your sexual feeling at any moment. Total BS, total lies. If you want to be angry, be angry at the radicals and liars on both sides of the circumcision debate. The TRUTH is that study after study has shown there is not a radical difference in sensation. There is no such thing as calloused penis from circumcision. Circumcised men do tend to last longer in the sack because they are not hyper sensitive. Circumcised men have fewer penis infections and problems. Both ways are fine. You are psyching yourself out over a non issue because you have listened to what others have said. How would a non circumcised male be able to tell you, a circumcised male, that you don't have sensation as good as theirs. What is good about a penis so sensitive that washing is too painful and you have to go around with stinking cheese under your foreskin? Think rationally and don't get caught up on either side of this silly debate.
Dreaming of missing my graduation?
i keep having dreams that i keep missing my graduation well like i keep running late and almost missing it.... this has been the fourth one.... the first one was like i was running late for baccalaureate which i was on time for.... and the other three i keep running late for graduation.... i don't get this... someone please help me... idk if it has anything to do with me graduating early from high school back in december.... but i walked in May and i was on time.... for graduation no close call or anything....
How do I deal with the regret of missed opportunity?
It's always very difficult to deal with. But it's also important to realize that life is big and crazy and full of surprises. You may have missed an opportunity, and it will hurt, but there are so many more doors and even more opportunities in the future. While nothing may be able tok take away the hurt of missing something big, with time you may realize what you thought you wanted may mot have been, and that you have made it as far as you have even though you missed out. Maybe something even better has come along the way. Keep your heart and mind open as you move forward and you may find way more opportunities and open doors than you can imagine! It is hard, but try not to get stuck on what could have been. This will cement you in the past and will fog your mind to things that are coming. Move forward, not backwards. Regret will pull you back. There is absolutely nothing you can do about something in the past. If you keep your thoughts there, you will lock yourself down and prevent you from exploring and opening yourself to the opportunities that may be waiting for you. Life moves forward, move with it. There is so much more beauty and opportunity out there, go find it!
One night stand regret..Why do I feel like this?
I'm spitballing here, but I'm pretty confident that, by definition, members of one-night stands do not stay in contact afterwards and tell each other that they miss each other.
How can I cope with missing my childhood?
hey, i initally looked in this question because it was tagged pokemon!! lol, but anyway after i read what you wrote, I know what your'e going through, although i'm actually 17, about a year or 2 ago I used to get the same feeling as you did (and sometimes still do) - getting deppressed at the past- how good it was, and how things change and all that stuff, like I remember being carefree, but i didn't miss the innocence (i have a dirty mind lol) but yeah with family, I also had 3 cousins who always lived far away for some reason- and when they came over we always used to play Super Smash Bros on Nintendo 64!!!! it was awesome!!! and i still play it!!!! and then i remember they got Super smash bros melee for gamecube, and we always used to play it at their house when i came over and we still do!!! but we dont go over as often anymore, and like with friends i remember being best friends with one of my friends justin, and even though we are still friends, everything pretty much changed when we had and now have no classes together, and we can only talk to each other at recess or lunchtime (if i dont have art work to do), but at least we go to wrestling events together so thats pretty cool and then with the awesome shows!!! I used to always watch pokemon, yugioh, one piece, beyblades, and so much other cartoons in the morning since i was in primary school (probably about 1999), they were awesome!!!!! but then i was forced to start taking the bus to school, and then i just wasn't able to watch them anymore, although i'm officially back into pokemon!!!! but anyway, youve still got 3 years, so enjoy it while you can, but do Birthday parties, TV, movies, videogames, and christmas seriously not interest you?? well the best advice is to do something you want to do, or something you enjoyed doing in the past - I mostly miss it all as well, but I'd say other than doing something you want to do, or something you enjoyed doing in the past, there isnt many ways to cope with it, but i cope with it by doing what i say - watching movies/tv, playing videogames, and in the past, i"m getting back into pokemon!!!