How Can I Stop Feeling This Way

I wanna stop feeling this way?

you need to love yourself more give yourself some praise, you dont write anything good about yourself its all neagative no wonder you feel bad. i was negative about myself alot when i was younger even though i had loads of fellas chasing me, i did not belive it about myself.
i had an abusive step dad who put me down all the time and i never learned to love myself.
you just lack confidance you gotta be your own best freind not listen to critics they are selfish they dont care about you how you feel.
look at your good points nice hair etc and eyes and stop being negative and comparing yourself to other, those pretty girls are probably insecure as well, i was and i was pretty, as you get older you get more confidant about your looks expassilly when you meet someone who loves you and thinks you are the bees knees. you have gto think it though about yourself. love and god bless.

How do i stop feeling numb?

Hey hun!! :))
Don't worry. These feelings are normal.
Did you know a lot of people experience these exact same feelings??? :))

I am also going through the same thing right now.
You have a lot of things going on in your mind...
and it seems like nobody understands you...


You might get mad easily, or frustrated that you feel this way...
You might say "I just want to be myself again."

Well here are some things you can do...
Its not going to be easy!!

1. Try not to focus on these feelings anymore, tell yourself "This is just anxiety, it will go away eventually. A lot of people are going through the same thing"

2. To help your anxiety, make sure you don't smoke any weed, or smoke cigarettes, because those two things will make you hate yourself. I used to smoke weed everyday for 4 years and after I quit for a month I felt a lot better. Oh and when you smoke cigarettes you may feel like you feel a little better, but a second later you will feel even worse! :(( And you don't want that.

3. Start exercising!! Do NOT sit on your hiney.. that is the worst thing that you can do. Just go out for a run!! Start lifting weights, just make sure you ALWAYS keep busy.

4. Play a lot of video games, if you don't like video games, then start a new hobby and just make sure you keep busy.

5. Get a part time job so your not constantly thinking all the time.

6. Don't drink caffeine, that includes SODA/POP!! Just only water or juices.

I hope this helps. I really want you to feel better.
If you really do these things for two months you will start feeling better about yourself right away.

If after two months you still feel this way, I would recommend you go to your family doctor so they can prescribe you a anti anxiety medicine. :)) Good luck!!

How to stop feeling sorry for myself?

NO! No one in this world doesn't matter! I feel that way all the time, but when I look around someone is there. Someone actually would care about me. I do not believe no one cares about you. Yes, you are only one person in the world, but so am I, and so is everyone else in the world. Does a famous celebrity's emotion count more than yours? No. Does my emotion count more than yours? No. This is you, your emotions, so stop thinking about the rest of us.

Also, you're talking as if everyone 'finishes first in life', and just not you. Not true! Don't think about how everyone does better than you. Who cares? The more you think 'oh, he's better than me, or she's faster than me' the worse it gets! Don't go 'No... I suck...' because that will only get you down worse. Who cares about other people? Do you really need to be the best in order to be happy?

If you really want to stop feeling sad, then start looking at the bright side of things! I know its harder than it sounds, but try. You are not a bad person. I may be a random stranger who has never met you, but rest assured that there is no such thing as a 'bad person'. Just people who are confused. Life is short, so don't live it unhappy.

Good luck!

How do I stop feeling so cheap?! ( Oral sex )?

Cheap?

He may have waited a year for her...

...but who's got him?

He's not with her--he's with you. Not only that, but in the oral sex department, you make him happy and he probably enjoys being with you more that way.

Also--for most guys--swallowing is a big thing. In a way, it's you saying that you want him enough to have something of his inside you. When she spit, it's like a rejection of him sexually.

Also--if you were a sex toy--you wouldn't have been having that conversation, Most guys do not invest the time and effort into talking to their sex toys. It's all about getting off. Not only is he talking to you, but he's comfortable enough talking to you to talk about his sex life before. He's not just trying to get you to blow him, he's treating you like a person who deserves an honest answer.

Basically, you are who he's with because you are probably someone that makes him happy, likes to make him happy, and is someone he wants to keep around. As far as the ex goes, if she was that worth it to him, he'd still be with her and not with you.

So, whatever the wait, whatever the price, you're the better one of the pair to him,