My boyfriend is mad at me for not answering my phone.?
My boyfriend called me around 8 o'clock and I was at my friend house so that's why I didn't Answer mind you he called me once !i think he's so delirious right now btw I apologized. And he is still mad what should I say or do !? And now he doesn't want to talk to me. And when I said goodnight , I love you he normally says I love you too baby no matter what but this time he said I love you too and called me by my 1st name…
After a fight with my boyfriend, he won't answer my calls or texts, he told a mutual friend he's not in a state to speak to me. What should I do?
Depeding on how the fight started and went down, he may just need some space. He likely felt very strong about the matter at hand, or feels hurt somehow. He does not want to talk to you because, if he does, he is worried he would blow up in your face about the topic again. He is not being immature. In fact, he is being more mature than someone who would stick around and make underhanded comments until you cried. Give him some time. Check up with the mutual friend to ask how he's doing. Maybe ask the friend to talk to him, and offer his own two cents.I know a fight is hard to come through sometimes, but this too shall pass. If you love him, and he loves you, he will come back in time.Best of luck
I get upset if my girlfriend doesn't answer her phone and I end up calling 47 times and why would she allow me to call without returning any of my calls?
Dude, that’s like overly obsessive! (>.<)47 times, really? I’m sure you’ve surpassed that #. That’s RIDICULOUS!Why the hell do you think it’s OK to harass this woman? Just because she’s your girlfriend, doesn’t mean you can annoy the shit out of her. Get a grip! One or two calls is sufficient, leave a voicemail explaining the purpose of the call. Be patient and wait for her to call you back. What you’re doing is not healthy and is a surefire way for her to drop your arse like a bad habit.Tsk, tsk, tsk, shame on you!This type of behavior tells me a few things about a man:A. Possessive/Over-protectiveB. Controlling/JealousC. Insecurity/ClingyAll bad signs, that I hope your girlfriend has picked up on.As for your girlfriend, I don’t blame her one bit for ignoring your calls. If a dude called me excessively like he’s got ants in his pants; I’d be pissed!I would buy your girlfriend one of these…Anyway, I’d totally ignore his calls and put his arse on a NO-CONTACT timeout for 1-week. If he continues to act a fool then “Houston, we've got a problem.” I’m not going to tolerate childish/creepy behavior from a grown ass man.You asked…Why would she allow me to call without returning any of my calls?DUH!‘Cause you’ve got fire ants in your pants and she can’t be bothered. Why isn't she accepting/returning your telephone calls? Simple! She’s not going to waste her precious time on an impatient pesky man. Besides, time is a terrible thing to waste! You’ve displayed your obsessive/stalkerish tendencies. She’s probably upset that she missed those red flags before getting with you. She’s looking at her phone shaking her head in utter disgust, asking herself “What the hell is wrong with this guy?”You are acting too clingy. Just chill and give the woman time to call you back will ya? I mean what’s up with guys nowadays, not giving their ladies alone time or room to fucking breathe? Ugh!Are you horny? Is your dick on fire? Is your life in danger? Did your pet fish die? Come on, dude! If it’s not that serious just knock it off already. Occupy your time doing something productive, go bake a cake or something.Do you know what I wish is happening? I really hope your girlfriend is spending time and getting attention, maybe laid from a HOT guy. Does that make your blood boil thinking about it? LOL, yeah obviously she’s not that into you.Guys, if don’t want your arse to get kicked to the curb, don’t do this.It’s a major fucking turnoff!*toodles*
Why do my friends keep calling me emo, when i'm not? Even the girl i like also thinks so. Jeez?
You need to have a serious talk with your friends and girlfriend. Your girlfriend shouldn't even be calling you names anyways. Instead of making the problem worse for you, she should be helping you stand up to your friends. If they still tend to keep calling you emo then it's time to let go of them and move on. Make newer friends with a different crowd of people. Try talking to people in some of your classes and hanging out with them. For all the people that claim that "emo" means emotional, sad all the time, always wanting to cut yourself, being shy, quiet. You guys are so off. Emo does not even mean those things. If you are emotional, you are simply an emotional person. If you are sad all the time, it is called depression disorder. The ones that cut themselves are known as self mutilators. Being shy and quiet is just being shy and quiet. Emo is just another made up term that idiotic people use against other people when they have nothing better to do with their lives.
Friend angry because i didn't return his call?
one day i was extremely busy and couldn't return his call so i called him the next day and he was mean like "you have better things to do than answer the phone, propably because my calls are always such a waste of time" and i was like wtf!! am i that irrational?? for a reason i couldn't answer but i did call him once i could so as to find out what he wanted, is it my fault?? because i don't think he should be mad..!
How do you stop overthinking an awkward moment?
So I met up with a friend of mine (let’s call her friend A) today, we got some food and were having a conversation about one of our mutual friends that just got engaged (friend B). Friend A doesn’t have instagram so she hadn’t seen any of the engagement pictures of friend B . I pulled out my phone and showed her the pictures. One of the pictures was friend B kissing her fiancé and as I was showing the picture to friend A I realized I somehow had the picture in my “SAVED PHOTOS” folder on Instagram, which of course makes me look like a creep. So friend A saw that and I could tell by her face she was creeped out a bit (Duh! Why would you save a picture of your friend making out with her fiancé!). It was silent for a bit and then I kind of mumbled “No idea why I saved that” but it didn’t sound convincing at all. Long story short, things got awkward and I wanted to leave as soon as possible. I’m home now but I seriously can’t stop thinking about it! What the hell is she going to think of me?
How do I stop worrying/panicking if a friend doesn't text me back for a few days or more?
The first step is awareness that your thoughts are creating the anxiety. They are only real because you agree to give the thoughts energy when they arise. Once you truly understand that the. You clearly see that you need to make a different agreement on how to handle those thoughts when they arise. This is what I call a “manual override”.When a negative or destructive thought come up (and they always will), simply catch it and rationally talk yourself through it. You will find the anxiety is driven by fear. Fear of abandonment and/or fear of humiliation are typical drivers in a situation like this. “Are they mad at me?” Or “Are they laughing at me?”.The best example I often give is fear of a roller coaster. What is there to truly be “scared” of? Yes it goes fast and gives us a sinking feeling in our belly but in the end we know that thousands of people ride them every day and rarely does anyone get hurt. That’s the manual override.This also brings us to being in the moment. Awareness has an amazing side affect. It brings your attention to reality. It brings you to the moment. When we dwell on things such as whybour friend hasn’t texted us back, we are dwelling in a fantasy created in our head that exists either in the past or in the future. It is typically NOT what is really happening. It’s a story we make up because it fires certain chemical patterns in the brain that we become addicted to. One of my favorite quotes is, “What messes us up most in life is the picture in our heads of the way we think things should be.” Awareness brings us to the moment. We are aware that we are having irrational thoughts that aren’t even real. That is the moment where life really is.So the next time you catch yourself lying to yourself with anxious nonsense, just stop. Talk yourself down. Aloud if you have to. Tell yourself not to take it personally. Assure yourself there is a good reason and that you can be patient and wait. It works and it will get easier.
My best friend NEVER picks up my calls? why?
we are best friend, but this THING gets on my nerves, and when i ask her, why didn't u pick up the phone she always finds a reason!!! but when i call her from the pay phone or anyother phone she picks it up....she is not mad at me. ...she still hangs up and talks with me...so what could that possible mean?????????????????????//
My friend(s) keep calling me ugly?
my friends know how insecure I am and they call me ugly all the time like every chance they get they make me feel bad idk I thought it was jealousy at first but now it s getting to my head I can t I hate myself I was already insecure and they also make me feel dumb but I only have them as friends maybe it s their way of showing friendhsip?