How to talk to your crush for the first time?
ok so it's my senior year and I have never had a serious relationship. I am interested In this guy in my grade. We share the same interest such as hockey. He plays hockey and I also do. I like the fact that he is cute, mysterious and not a popular guy. The biggest problem is that we are both very shy and do not talk a lot. I was thinking of maybe sending him a facebook message saying "hey" but i'm scared lol. Should I just keep smiling at him in the halls or talk to him on facebook?
How to talk to your crush for the first time?
So there is this girl I run into all the time, and I really like her. We do not know each other, and she's not any of my classes. I would like to get to know her better, but I'm very shy guy and I have no idea how to start the conversation or what to say to her without being awkward or making myself look like a weirdo. Any ideas???
What should I talk about with my crush for the first time?
Okay, I’m going to break from the majority here. I don’t like asking questions to begin a conversation because to me it comes across as confrontational and overly aggressive. There’s an implication that you have the right to information about the other person, and at this stage that’s presumptuous — yes, even if you’re both attracted to each other.Instead, I’m a big fan of cheerful and pleasant small talk as a way of setting a tone and getting you two used to talking to each other. Impersonal remarks about the situation are a terrific opening. “Last week’s class was particularly interesting. I especially liked the bit about x” or “I hope the teacher covers x today, I can use a little more help with it.” The weather is always safe, although people underrate it as a topic.Anything about your shared experience will do. Something about the class, the school, the time of year, anything neutral that you can be reasonably positive about. Opening with a complaint sounds whiny and you don’t want that to be his first impression of you.The point is to have a nice little chat to start with. It’s only a starting point. You can build on it later. Save the interview/interrogation for when it’s mutual, when you both want to get to know each other better.
How do you talk to your crush for the first time?
Almost the exact same situation here! Except I'm a sophomore, him a senior. Okay. So I guess you're just going to have to step out and say something. It's a lot easier than you'd think. Do you guys have lots of classes together? Does he wear t-shirts with his favorite band on it? Check out the band and the next time he wears the shirt, make a comment about a song you genuinely liked. Once you've talked to him once, it's not as bad the second time. Ignore the butterflies, take a deep breath, and talk! Good luck!
Talking to my crush for the first time?
Is this a good conversation starter for the first time talking to my crush? Hey you're -name- right? (She'll say yes) "Well Hi -name- I'm _____ and we have P.e together, anyway we haven't talked much and I just wanted to know if you'd like to talk sometime? Maybe during lunch or on Instagram, kik, snapchat? So is this a good conversation starter for the first time talking? If not please help me by telling me what is a good starter? Please help me. Thank you.
How do I talk to my crush for the first time? (my crush is a guy)
Depending on the type of guy he is,precisely talking about cool guys who don't judge others. Its the easiest thing to do. The male mind is programmed with a soft spot for the females. You never know what the world has in stock for you. He might also like you. There is nothing to lose. If you talk to him and you guys hit it off,its a win. If he doesn't feel the same, he respects you and you remain friends and maybe little by little,he gets charmed and eventually begin to develop same feelings. So in any way, its kind of a win win for you. Guys are easy to get when they are been chased. If the guy is a mature mind kind of person. So again, it depends.
What should I talk about with my crush for the 1st time?
Frankly, be fluid and natural. If possible be intelligent.If there is anything common between you two, use that.To be really honest, if a girl is already kinda, sorta into a guy she won’t mind whatever you start with. If she hints that you’re making her uncomfortable or she acts all high and holier than thou, run! :) Dont pursue someone not worth it.But if you don’t know her at all, find common ground or common problems. (You really should have given details like where you see her and how much you know her)I like it when guys talk smart and like a gentleman. But please don’t pretend, she would find out sooner or later. I’m assuming you respect women and when you talk to her, let her know this.But the absolute best way would be if you keep her guessing whether or not you started to talk to her coz you like her or you were just being cordial!Ways in which people approached me and I did not like it:A comment which boasts - like “I already have a six pack, I’m just maintaining it!”A comment which expresses stalking - “So I noticed you and you always do this”Good luck!
What does it feel like to talk to your crush for the first time?
Huh! It's a mixed feeling.Feelings of anxiety,nervousness along with immense happiness. You feel butterflies in your stomach. At first there is a battle between what to say and what not to say. You are so cautious not to say anything stupid. You wish to express all your feelings about him. You think of all the romantic scenes from the movies and novels which you have read so far. You wish to make him aware of much important he is for you. But you end up beating the bush and asking questions like 'how are you' and all that. But yes when you start getting positive and fast responses, you feel like it's an achievement and you can have a future with him. You become optimistic and it becomes an encouragement for you to make further conversations with him.Really, it is one of the best feelings.