Why do people constantly pick on skinny people?
It seems like it's okay to pick on people for being skinny. No one seems to be offended when that happens but if someone is made fun of for being "fat" even if they aren't, everyone jumps to their defense. It has nothing to do with anorexia like some people here suggested. What I've found is that many women seem to think that being thin is ideal. Many also have issues with their weight, I've known quite a few girls who think they're fat or who fear gaining even a little weight because they see themselves as being big even when they're not. So it's the insecure ones who are also jealous, spiteful people that do this. This is what I've noticed. People here don't seem to notice or care about this unless it's a fat person being made fun of. I can identify being a fellow skinny. I'm not underweight, I'm not on a diet, I try my best to gain or even keep my weight but I lose it too easily. I need to eat constantly - that might sound great but it's really annoying. I'm not being arrogant either... people do make fun of others because of their insecurity. Every single girl who's called me a "skinny b*****" simply because of my weight always had an issue with their weight and issues with being hateful or spiteful. Just ignore it.
Why am I always the one to get picked on in a group of people?
The answer resides in your question. When you ask yourself "why am i always...picked on", it shows your insecurity and lack of self confidence - you've immediately moved into the "poor me" syndrome. This subconscious thought then becomes the pattern you weave, what you transpire into your reality. To walk into a group of people has you uncertain & anxious. This then feeds into the body language & facial expressions you portray. Simply said, the body reads: i am a victim - "pick on me" it becomes stamped across your face. The vibration you radiate is like an antenna signal that you broadcast to the group of people - stand in the mirror or replay a video of yourself, so that you can see. This exercise alone will assist you to move into your own power of being. Instead of worrying about what everyone is thinking of you, which is your ego moving in, start deflecting the mirror back on others, take the time to study their self, by shifting your focus, you change your thoughts & those inhibitive patterns fall away.
Why do people pick on me for no reason?
I have found myself constantly in the same situation. It seems that people nowadays are almost groomed from birth to be self-serving rather than nonjudgemental. However many times that it does happen, and it will continue, never lose faith that there are good people. Next time it happens, immediately....yet humbly, ask the person what they meant by the particular look or comment. When you do, look them square in the eyes, (try to blink as little as possible, hee, hee) and wait for their response. If they play dumb then simply make a remark along the lines of you perhaps being a wierdo, self-conscious, etc.. Cutely laugh off the awkwardness that is now present to (on them:)! 95% of the time this person will fakely laugh it off, then perhaps even (again, fakely) compliment you....then change the topic. I know it is hard at first, but give it a whirl, and soon your consistent eye contact will start to weed out these horrible souls/people. Enjoy life my dear, as beautiful things such as sunsets, flowers and kind people are worth it!! :) K
Why do people pick on me for no reason?
Everything has a reason. You are seeking that reason, based on your question. That’s good. Without more information I can’t answer why you’re picked on unfairly or even if you are picked on more than other people. But what I can say is that you do not have to take it.Don’t be a victim. If someone’s picking on you they’re looking for one of a few things: either to get a reaction out of you, in which case not getting upset is you winning. Or they want to look cool in front of their friends - in which case them looking like a jerk, or a wimp, is you winning. I wish I could be more help but my best advice is to keep a cool head and enjoy your life and situation as best you can so you don’t have to be affected by some jerk.
Why Do People Pick On Me For No Good Reason?
I've always been picked on my whole life, ever since pre-school. Sure I have some friends, some of whom actually don't understand why people are so rude to me, but I really don't understand why people pick on me. Certain people I can understand, it's quite obvious. I don't mean to sound egotistic but I don't think I'm unnattractive, and I try so hard to be kind to everyone. However, it's always been people in my age group that I have a hard time w/. It seems that people who are older, sometimes even just by a couple years, I never have problems w/, and same thing goes for younger. I'm 15 and I'd rather hang out w/ someone who's in college than high school, for example. Here are some photos of me and how I would dress on a daily basis : http://a370.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/59/l_e2ea40085cd26f10ce779f9129e99e59.jpg http://a285.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00220/48/24/220614284_l.jpg
Why do i never finish anything i start??
You said it yourself. You feel like you have to force yourself. That's life. Almost everything loses it's luster, then your left with you and it. It's not about how you feel, or what you "want to do". It's about finishing what you start, being reliable. Yes, you will have many times in life where you either force yourself or you quit. You already know what quitting feels like. Try forcing yourself and seeing it al the way through. Either way, you will have a resuilt that either you like or not. Forcing yourself to do somethin gis part of being mature. Everyone does things almost everyday that they absolutely do not want to do. However, there are joys inside those things that make it worth it, and you learn to be happy no matter what you do. Finishing is key to success. How hard will you push yourself to achieve?
Why do my co-workers pick on me?
I am a college student and I recently began work study. I have been assigned to work at the post office a few hrs. a wk and everything is going really good but my female co-workers are b*tches. I don't know why they are acting this way. I don't back bite or act snoody but it's like they always try to gang up on me for no reason. :( For some reason people always have the tendency to single me out. The thing is that these girls are always talking negatively about the boss as well as the other girls who work there. I know for a fact that if they talk about them and they supposedly friends, then they are prob. saying all kinds of crap abt me. Therefore when they try to invite me in on a conversation that involves speaking negatively abt some-1 else. I won't do it. They are so petty that they talk abt other peoples clothes, hair etc. It's really ridiculous. How can I cope with these people? I am not trying to be their friends either bc all they do is back bite and talk about each other when certain people aren't around. I thought I'd mention that they are all college aged girls (20-22) and I am 20 yrs. old. For some reason women single me out, why is this? Even when I am with my friends, they will pick at me etc.
Do people know when you're high on meth?
Your friends from before can tell.Your mom can tell but she doesn’t want to, so she doesn’t look.Your friends from after can’t tell unless you stop sometimes.If you’re adhd you just seem normal.If you’re normal you seem like your wired.If you stay up multiple nights they can tell on day 3. Day 2 they think you had a rough night.If you are always talking and humming, or whistling, or singing and can’t stop they know.If you jack your jaw side to side as a nervous tick they know.If you grunt repeatedly and make sounds in between breaths and draw uneven, noisy, laborious breaths they know.If you don’t take your shoes off after work they know.If they see your heart thumping it’s beat on one of your neck muscles they know.If your house/garage/car gets taken apart often and not put fully back together they know.If you suddenly have watery eyes and a shiny complexion they know.If they see you suddenly become focused and passionate about a lengthy project and seem to have a tireless, limitless energy supply to stay locked in on it, when you should be warn out they might suspect it.When you seem to have lost track of time available to rest, and won’t shut yourself down at night (like a normal person would) it starts to get obvious.When you find that trying to play along to a song on a guitar seems to be more important than coming to bed, they lay in bed going over this list in their minds.When you suddenly start waking up at 4:30 to meditate, and say, “it’s the best, and most quiet time of day to do my best thinking” they’ll wonder why you went to bed at 1 a.m..When you can say it and look them in the eye for an unusually long period of time to show them you’re not lying, the look on the rest of your face says, “Do you believe me?”When they know you just got paid and they know how much things cost and you’re going out of your way to explain where your money is going, offering up details before they’re needed, they’ll wonder why you’re trying so hard to fill in the blanks.If they’ve done it for years and years and know all kinds, no matter what you try to do, they’ll probably know. They won’t go out of their way to find it. It’s just apparent to them.