I'm 15, I fell in love with a girl, now she hates me, and all my friends are avoiding me?
I'm gonna give you credit for writing all this, but sometimes life isn't all beautiful and glorious, you have to move on. If she doesn't have feelings for you now, do you think she truly will have emotions for you in the future? I'm a junior in high school and I know how it feels, I fell in love with a girl too, but of course I wasn't as "hot" as another guy taking interest in her, so she fell head over heals for him after talking to me for 3 months straight. Of course he was a douchebag and made out with her then left her. I started working out, and now I'm fit and stronger than most people in my school, she came back to me (I decided she wanted me for something other than myself). If this ever happens to you, don't ever go back for her. If anything is a lesson, you should know that a girl that truly likes you will ALWAYS text you and always talk to you, she will acknowledge your feelings if you acknowledge hers, she will love you for who you are. Moving on is one of the hardest things to do in life, but sometimes it's necessary and is most definitely for the better. Would you rather move on and find someone worthwhile or just continue to drool over 'Anna'? Ask yourself that.
Why are girls so mean? We were friends, now she ignores me?
when u grow older, u will start to take things lightly, one of them is dealing with friend's attitude. i used to be like you but i've outgrown it, im usually very friendly and when u are my friend, u are my top priority but if i notice that u are not into the friendship anymore, i let u go, or at least i will try to patch it up, and tend to let some stuff slide but, yeah, u know when to just let the friendship go and take its course. life is too short to sweat about something you cant do nothing about. I have a really young friend who i initially find so positive and happy all the time, and yet everytime we talk, he find a way to make me angry which i think was his way of letting me go and i dont mind it but i wish people are more open and honest to say what they feel, it might hurt the other friend and yet it will provide closure and there would be less questions about uncertainties about friendships, anyway, u take care and take it easy, there will be tons of friends that will come your way, treasure them but if they change their mind along the way, leave them be, easier that way.
Is it wrong to ask my boyfriend to stop talking to a female friend of his?
Yes, it is wrong.You find it wrong when she used to give massages to him in the office, or she used to hug him, Right? You may be right, they must not get that physical in front of you. But tell me does the guy love you? Really? How do you know? How can you judge him? Just because he said so? People these days don’t know the meaning of LOVE.Listen dear, this may sound rude and make you feel bad.. But just put 1 small, minute thing into your brain. When a guy says he loves you from the core of his heart, or he wants to spend the entire life with you or any of that mushy talk, you might feel that he loves you. But in reality a guy would show his love not by his words, but by his actions.If he would have loved you and cared for your feelings, he would never ever have let that girl behave like what she does in your presence or absence. If he pushes a girl away who makes such a move in your absence that is love.If you think they must not talk just because you are together now, so let me make it clear to you. You don’t own the person, nor would you ever. You can make a person yours just when he wants to be yours.If you find something inappropriate in a relation between your boyfriend and his female-friend, just make it clear to your boyfriend. If he actually loves you, he would take care of that girl, or any girl in that matter.You must not take matters into your hands by talking to that female-friend. You are simply destroying your relationship with her and breaking her heart by your cheap talks.**P.S.: I don’t want to be rude or arrogant, but I have been into the place of that female-friend and I know how it feels when we were not wrong but still some one teaches you how to behave with one of your best-friend, and how that silence of the guy breaks my heart till date. How my relation with of them is still in tatters. All three of us regret our words after about 3 years of that incident but there is no turning back now.**
People with opposite-sex best friends....?
I have a boy-friend that i've known for 9 years. We can talk about anything! It's different with girls. When I'm with my girlfriends, you talk about everything, too. With a guy you can talk about everything and more. I don't know how to explain it. When you're as close to each other as I am with my friend, you can talk about your girly things and he can talk about his guy things and everything is okay. I love a guy friend who doesn't necessarily have the same interests as me, but knows how to listen to me and I can get along with him. I have to know he won't betray me. That's something you can't get with girls. Girls are all evil. Some more than others. There is one problem... after a while you might get a little too fond of your 'friend'.
Why can't I get girls to talk to me?
I'm a 19 year old male and have never had a girlfriend or really any friend that is a girl for that matter. I'm in my second semester of my freshman year in college right now, and still haven't had any luck getting a girl to even be friends with me. I know that you are supposed to approach a girl and I've tried that multiple times but I'm not a great conversationalist (so any advice on things to say would be great) and I always get the "why the heck are you talking to me look" and this really has made me shy away from approaching girls. Now I just go through each day hoping that some girl will notice me and talk to me, but it never happens. All of my friends have had multiple girls that have approached them throughout the school year so the whole "guys have to approach the girls" thing can't be entirely accurate. I'm actually beginning to wonder if there is something wrong with me. I don't think I'm a bad looking guy, but I could be ugly in a girl's eyes. I always try to be myself even though multiple people, both male and female, have told me I have a weird personality. I also play on our colleges baseball team, so I was hoping that by being a college athlete a girl might think that is cool and want to talk to me, but that hasn't happened either. It's starting to get really tough on me and I'm getting really lonely and a little bit depressed. I'm sure that I will eventually meet a girl, but I was just hoping someone could give me more suggestions on how to make this process a little easier.
Why don't guys talk to girls they like?
I know that a lot of times guys don't always talk to their crushes..but I just don't get why. Like what are they afraid?? This guy at my school likes me but he won't talk to me! How long do I have to wait until he tries to strick up a convo? He liked me for like almost 3 months now lol But anyways what are guys so afraid of? They're actually doing the girl a favor when they come talk to them. THANXX && THANXX