How do I get rid of ESCAPISM from Imagination or Daydream?
Wow. You have allllll the makings of a great writer. sometimes we writers become great imaginers through the hard past, and hope of the future, but regardless of how you have gotten to this point you should take advantage of it, and you could create some awesome places and people and things! I am the same way, my head is full of stories. But for me its the stories of people I see or meet. I am behind a woman in the line and starbucks and suddenly I have her whole life's story planned out in my mind. this kind of creativity is rare, and the best way to tap into it is to pour it out on paper. You will find this comes very easily to people with imaginations like ours and i imagine you would make a WONDERFUL writer of teen/young adult shortstories and novels. Try this: see if any of your friends would like you to write a story with them in it, with them as the main character. I do this for a lot of my friends and it really exercises my imagination and its a ton of fun for them too! My guyfriend and I used to talk about what he would be like once he graduated, and so I wrote a story in which he takes a road trip by himself up to a mountain cottage and falls in love with a girl who had done the exact same. People will love it and it will give you something to channel all that imagination into! Good luck, and I would love to read over anything you have written! Feel free to email me about it and we can share what we've imagined! :) (wittywaffle@yahoo.com) dont try and get rid of it. its a gift, a gift that many hopeful writers would kill to have!
Had a dream about an imaginary girl I love. Help!?
Anyway, I had a dream where I was dating this girl in my dream that I fell madly in love with. When I woke up, I realized that this girl does not exist and I felt disappointed. I keep trying to get her out of my head, but I can't. I don't remember her name, and I can vaguely remember her face. Does this have any significance? How can I get her out of my head? I've never had a girlfriend before, in case you are wondering.
Making out(making love)with imaginary friend-Day dreaming and it feels SO REAL i can't wait to go back to bed?
Most of the time I daydream and I can actually see and feel and speak to people (who are imaginary in real life) but I feel their presence strongly in my mind and I can strongly communicate with them and vice versa. Today I went to bed and there was this boy (Imaginary). He's called Tristan and he's smoking HOT. We talked for maybe 10 minutes and he said things that made me horny. I asked if I can kiss him and i went on top of him and he was amazing and I kissed him (Kissed my hands in real life) but it felt so real like his lips and he was communicating with me and telling me what an amazing kisser I am. and I swear to god we kissed and made out (wet kissing my hands in real) and it felt so real and it laster for about 20 minutes. Now I am writing this to you and I JUST CAN"T wait to get back to bed to make out with him again. and we keep talking and kissing (wet kissing) and it felt real I swear to god I almost got an ejaculation. Maybe Ill get one when I go back to bed with him now. Do you think its normal to be daydreaming this big to the point where I actually crave it like its real?? FEELS VERY REAL INDEED? PS: I daydream most of the time during the day WITH actual VISIBLE physical acts (shoving, pulling, shouting at, laughing with, etc. But there are no people, theyre just in my head, but it feels so real! On a side note, I CANNOT control it. I've tried many times, but I can't!
I need help with my 3 year old's wild imagination and "story telling" problem.?
I think the only issues your high IQ kids might have is a mommy that worries over too much stuff. :) It really is not a big deal. I have a high IQ - I also had an imaginary friend until I was well into school age (he never came to school, he waited for me at home - lol) & no one ran him off & guess what - I KNEW he was imaginary the WHOLE time (all kids do deep down). If someone claimed they saw him, I knew they were lying. I do remember that *I* could actually see him (good imagination) but I knew they couldn't because I knew he was in MY head. No need for therapy - he went away when I no longer needed him. Lots of three years olds have wild stories. Mine did too. He used to tell me all sorts of fascinating takes - some exciting & wonderful, others very upsetting to him. He is 5 now & guess what? I miss those days. Move on - find something better to worry over, for real. It is NOT a big deal. Three year old can't even really lie at this age since they often DON'T understand the difference between the reality of the world & the reality in their heads. It comes in time & probably very soon, but right now fantasy & reality are pretty blurry lines for her. If she is doing things that are scary to her little sister, like holding pillows over her face - THAT is an issue. Telling you that some alien stole her toe nail polish & she really needs it because she is on her way to Big Foot's house & she had promised BF she'd give him a pedicure...well - just go with it. She is 3. For more info on why imaginary friends are nothing to squash read this: http://www.seattlepi.com/lifestyle/artic... And this has a section on telling tall tales & it is aimed at 4-5 yr olds - and basically says - it is NOT lying. http://www.aboutourkids.org/articles/pre... Relax about it all - your kids sound normal. :)