How could this happen to me?
now, i keep thinking about him.. but there's someone still stay in my heart. no wonder i'm keep thinking which one should i take. but i'm still young.19. there's many more choice in diz world. so????
What would happen to me if I didn't exist?
Nothing. You don't exist remember? Sure the butterfly effect says that your non-existence might have huge consequences but no one would know that's because you're not there. The idea, the concept of you, only exists because you exist and with it your identity.Without you, the concept of you is as fictional and hypothetical as the multiverse theory and god. Even more, those two are still universal concepts which are greater than us and require answers. No one sits around wondering about a random fella named Duncan who doesn't exist.Edited update: Okay. You keep saying imagine it. Okay brutal truth. If you didn't exist. Nothing would be different. You wouldn't exist so there would be no you. No one would care or even spare two seconds of thought wondering. Your identity only exists because you exist. Without a body or a brain or anything how would 'you' even know about 'you'. If you didn't exist nothing would happen to you because you don't exist.You want imagination and an exact answer. That's not possible. Why don't you instead use your free time thinking about better things? Cure cancer or solve the theory of relativity. Seriously, you sound like a child. Trust me if you didn't exist there wouldn't be people answering this question (which is frankly, really ridiculous after your ‘update'). I'd say if you weren't born your parents would have saved all the money they spent on you and taken a vacay to Switzerland, maybe built a chalet. Those are literally the only things that could have happened if you had never been born. No, no one would have missed you BECAUSE YOU DON'T EXIST. I don't miss my imaginary childhood friends because they're not real.If you are a kid, go to school, study and stop thinking about ridiculous hypothetical scenarios. The world exists in reality, here.
Why do bad things happen to me?
My parents were upset with me today because i'm not really a family person and i don't really spend any time with my family. I understand that's not nice but I just feel uncomfortable around my whole family. My father always told me that if i do the right thing, good things will happen. I mind my own business all the time. I try to work as many hours as possible. When my phone bill is due, the money is on the counter that day, same with my car insurance, which is dirt cheap because i'm a good driver and i'm never reckless, so i don't have any problems with cops. I can buy clothes and buy food so i'm never mooching off of my parent's food. I'm an honors high school senior. I NEVER drink or do any sort of drug. so I consider myself pretty responsible for a 17 year old kid, and i feel like i do the right thing like my father told me to do. but for some reason, nothing but bad things happen to me. I used to have somebody to hang out with at all times, now there's no more than 3 people that want to spend time with me. I tried talking to this girl who i thought was interested in me, and i treated her with nothing but respect. i kept asking her to hang out and she always turned me down, and now she's not even talking to me and i don't want to seem creepy so i had to let that go. Now i'm sitting in front of a computer on a friday night with nothing to do and i've just been miserable lately. i know i could have it worse but i'm just trying to enjoy myself. so if anybody has any idea of what i'm doing wrong, please tell me because i'm clueless.
Why do all the bad things happen to me?
I used to ask this question almost every day.. and ended up with frustration.But then one day I met a kid, I was lost in my thoughts sitting at window seat in DTC bus.That kid came and said “ didi shoe polish karwa lo" ( Can I polish your shoes), I thought he was begging. I simply ignored.He got out of the bus from front door and I saw him carrying a small school bag and that polish rack.And we were waiting for green signal and was stuck in a traffic jam.He sat on foot path under tree shadow and opened his school bag and took books out of it and started writing.I was shocked, I watched this type of scene in Bhagbaan movie, I got out of the bus and tried to talk, he was studying GK(general knowledge).I asked in which class do you study. He said I study on my own. I said GOVT is providing free books and meals ypu can join GOVT school. He said if I will join school I will get food but my mother and younger sisters won't get.I am the only son and its my responsibility to make them happy as I will be the man of the house. I laughed as he was only 8yrs old. And he was talking like 20yrs old guy. But at the same time I overwhelmed.I offered him 100bucks, he denied.“ Didi, I dont beg, I do my Job and earn money".I asked him how much do u earn?He said 50–60. But oneday I earned 70. I bought chocolates for my younger sisters.I learnt a lesson. DONT SAY Y BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO ME?Either try to solve your problem, if you can't do anything to solve it, THEN STOP WORRYING.Everything happens for a reason.Good Luck :-)
How do you say "How could this happen" in Japanese?
There are various ways depending on how formal or casual (or exaggerated) you want to be. formal どうしてこんな事がおこれますか？ doushite konna koto ga okoremasu ka? casual: "i wonder how in the hell could this happen" sort of vibe 一体全体どうしてこんな事がおこったのだろう ittai zentai doushite konna koto ga okotta no darou (if you take off darou, then you are posing the question instead of saying "i wonder")
Which one is correct, “How it happens?” or “How it happen?”?
Neither is quite what you want.You probably mean, “How did it happen?” -- past tense.Or, “How does it happen?” -- present tense, requesting an explanation of something gping on right now.Or, “How did this happen?” -- about one specific thing.Or, “How could this happen?” -- but that has an almost accusing tone, or sometimes an amazed, shocked tone.
What's the worst thing that's ever happened to you?
Divorce. It drains you financially, emotionally and you find out real fast who your friends are… for me it was none. It leaves you isolated and vulnerable and lonely. You literally have to start life all over but instead of living under the rules of an unhappy marriage you now live under the rules of a divorce decree. It hurts your children too.
How do I remember something traumatic that happened to me as a child, that I forgot?
When I was about 4, maybe younger, one or multiple traumatic events happened in my life. The problem is, I don't remember what. I know something happened because I haven't been the same since. I'm 16 now, and ever since I was about 4, I've been extremely depressed and messed up. I have these terrible dreams, that seem as though they're trying to tell me something. Every once in a while I remember a glimpse of what happened, abuse...but the memory stops before the really traumatic event occurs. I know I must have blacked it out of my memory, as many kids do when something scary happens to them. Even my family noticed it. When I was a child I never talked, I acted strange, and even as a young girl [about 7] I had thoughts of suicide. I can't get myself to even hug someone, physical contact gives me a strange feeling, one that I knew I once felt and I relate with something traumatic. HOW DO I REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED? ITS THE ONLY WAY, my last hope to be normal again.