How do i ask a girl to slow dance with me?
all you have to do is go up to her be all confident and stuff and ask "would you like to dance?" when a slow song starts playing and she will probably say yes but how would i know. a slow song i would suggest would be Wait For You by Elliott Yamin if you can.
Is it wrong to ask a guy to slow dance?
I sort of lost a bet. I'm not trying to be cruel or mean. I really like this guy and I have to ask him to slow dance. Some my friends say it's stupid and un-lady like. I do not see the problem though. How exactly do you approach him; alone? At the beginning or the end of the school dance? Final question: What do you do when you're done dancing? I don't think you just say, "See you."
She wants to take it slow.?
We met through one of my other female friends. When we met she was with her boyfriend at the time. fast forward about a month or so and we hung out again with two of my female friends and her and one of my guy friends. she got my number and we began to text. a day later we hung out again and we ended up heavily making out on my bed. now keep in mind i'm only the apparent second male she has kissed. first guy being her ex boyfriend who broke up with her yet is trying to get back with her. she told him she met somebody, blah blah blah. Now we've had a talk she admits to liking me alot and finding me very attractive, she even told her friends that she likes me. and my she ended up drunk dialing my friend and telling him she apparently wants me to ask her out they ended up speaking about me for about 5-20 minutes. Now here comes the part i still do not understand. While we're laying down we had a talk and she says we should slow down, and how she needs time ( doesn't say for what just claims she needs time). she also says something about liking me alot. She also says if something happens between us as in if we stop being intimate. if i would still be her friend. any thoughts on this? Also so you can get a better understanding, The female friends that i met her through i've also made out with them long before meeting her and they told her i'm a bit playerish but she claims she doesn't listen to that. Now as you can see the conundrum she left me in, She claims she wants me to ask her out yet she's also saying she wants to slow down and she needs time. I don't know how to go about this. Right now i'm playing the friendly roll, we've been cuddling and holding each other for the past few days. I don't know where to go from here. What does she want? i understand that she wants to take it slow because she just got out of a long relationship practically the same day before we met for the second time. but the fact that we made out and pretty much crossed the bridge the first few days she's kind of taking a step backwards. Help is appreciated. Sorry for the spelling mistakes i sort of rushed through this. Thank you
How do you take a relationship slow?
I think it's great that you don't want to rush into things and that you like this girl enough to take your time. That in itself is the first step. Unfortunately, there's no trick or formula to setting the pace for a relationship. relationships tend to evolve at their own pace and the best thing you can do to make sure that pace doesn't involved rushing into things is to hold back on anything you're not sure of. You can ask her out and still decide to take things slowly after that, especially if you want to make the best of things before she goes away to college. I know what this is like, my boyfriend is two hours away, but by building a solid relationship now you can ensure the distance is not so difficult to handle once you're apart, should you decide to continue. The important thing though is not necessarily to go slow, but to go at a pace that's comfortable for both of you. The best way to do this is to be open and honest about your feelings, let each other know how you feel and respect each other's boundaries. It sounds like you like this girl and have a lot of respect for her. With that, you can't go wrong. Good luck!
Scorpio man taking things slow? Should I be the one asking him out? Help!!!!!?
Well,if you ask him out, you will certainly find out where you stand. He will either accept or reject your invitation, and that will tell you. The ODDS are that if he's taking it slow, it's one of these reasons: 1. He's married or in a relationship, and just indulging in a bit of fantasy. 2. He's prefers pretending to real life. Honey, words are cheap. He says he's interested but he's not doing anything? Then he's not really that interested. Usually, when a guy is seriously hunting, he arranges a date to meet up within a day or two of starting to text. And ... you don't "meet" on line. You use online connections to arrange a face-to-face, and THAT is when you meet someone. Online communication is fantasy, not reality. 97% of what is communicated is NON-verbal .. meaning you have to be together in person to actually be meeting and/or communicating. Don't make the mistake of thinking that fantasy is reality .. such a mistake rarely turns out well.
How to get a shy guy to slow dance with me?
I'm about the same age as you and I'm going with a shy guy to the end of the year dance too. Honestly, if you want to dance with him, just ask him yourself. But if you want him to ask you there are some things you can do: -Stand next to him (he should take the hint). Really, if you just stick with him most of the time and don't constantly run off with your friends he'll probably get comfortable around you and should get up the courage to ask you. -When a slow dance comes on that you like, tell him you like the song. Hopefully, he'll realize that you probably want to dance to it. Good luck!
Do guys take it slow with girls they like? And how?
I was recently discussing this with a girl in my life and basically this is how I explained it:Younger guys are more desperate to KAPLOW (pronounced like kapow but plow instead of pow). They have no idea how long to wait, they just know they REALLY want to KAPLOW. This generally makes them overly eager and aggressive. The first time they see a girl they like, they already want to KAPLOW her.This causes the guy to be less successful as a young man until he learns better timing and self-control. Most young men are in no way trying to take it slow.The exception is the “nice” guy who believes he'll get laid if he “deserves” the girl by being “nice” enough, which is even less effective than being too aggressive (and can get you cheated on which is a whole other topic). “Nice” is in quotes because he's after the exact same thing and uses a less honest and shittier strategy. Girls know this at a gut level that's why it doesn't work well IMO.As we age, we (well, some of us) get better and better at getting laid when we want to. We are no longer obsessed with sex and know it's there for us when we want it. This makes us come off more relaxed and less like we are trying to get laid, which paradoxically gets us laid a lot more.“Slow is smooth and smooth is fast” is a phrase that holds truth equally for aiming a rifle as for the mating process up until it's time to KAPLOW someone. Slow for guys who have game is spending a matter of hours with a girl (sometimes over the course of 2 or 3 meetups but not always). Slow for less successful guys might be days or even weeks.So, no, guys don't go slow with girls just cause they like them. They MAY do it if they believe it will eventually get them laid and/or a relationship with the girl they like but most don't have this amount of self-control, especially younger guys.How to:Don't intentionally take it any slower than you have to just to impress her with what a great guy you are. She'll think you're a pussy.Take small steps and keep leading/advancing. Never act like a friend and don't put up with her treating you like one.Only take it slow if YOU want to (to protect yourself from getting too attached or something). Don't do it for her, that's dumb. You're the leader.Basically, don't take it slow (unless you mean hours vs minutes). We are all wired to crave sex, even the ladies. KAPLOW!!!!!Note: if this was a girl asking the question about a guy she's interested in, he's either inept or uninterested, move on.
Why would a guy want to take things slow?
Guys use this tactic all the time. It is a complete misdirection. 99.9% of guys would not turn you down if you showed up naked at their house. They are guys, that is just the way they are wired. Most guys use this as their way of offering you what they think you want. Some are scared of you or intimidated by you. Some don’t know what to do next and figure taking it slow will give them time to figure it out. What guys don’t realize is that “going slow” is actually the fastest way to get what you want.I will provide an analogy. I am a car guy. I have over 3,000 certified track miles on about a dozen of the best race tracks in the US. My top speed runs are Charlotte Motor Speedway in my 2002 Porsche 911 Twin Turbo was 186.7 mph. My top speed run at Road Atlanta from turn 8 to turn 10a in my 2000 Acura NSX was 186.2 mph. In auto racing, there is a saying that “fast is slow and slow is fast”. It has to do with how you thread the car through the turns, in order to get the best lap time. It is all about being “smooth”.The same can be said with women. If you “take it slow” with them, it is often the fastest way to move things along. If you “go too fast” then it is easy to get shut down early and crash and burn. So, be confident in your ability to go slow and always keep in mind your final objective. If your objective is to get her naked, you could rush over and rip her clothes off, but you will likely get arrested and spend time in jail. Or, you can “go slow” and before you know it, she will willingly remove them herself and offer up no objection.So ladies, the next time your guy wants to “go slow”, you might consider that you are getting played. Guys, sorry. Someone had to give the right answer.
Why does he say he wants to take things slow?
He says he wants to take things slow because he wants some time to think about his time with you, learn more about you, to evaluate whether or not it is worth continuing, and because he’s overwhelmed at the pace from the series of events that already happened. When he’s certain you are the person he wants, he will be quick to make that decision and claim you as his.If you think about it, going on a date, having sex, etc. within weeks is actually really fast. Give him time, ask him how he’s feeling. Men will make their decisions regarding their relationship with their partner when they are certain. In fact, anybody would be willing to make decisions when they are certain and ready.On the other hand, taking things slow means that he’s interested, but he wants to know if this interest will continue to last—and that’s a good thing if you also see your relationship with him in that perspective. Most men who just want a fling wouldn’t talk to their partner that they want to take things slow. They would just do their thing and then disappear or find another person.He’s serious about you. But he wants to know if this experience will continue to last even when all the “butterfly in your stomach” feelings are gone. From taking it slow and getting to know each other, that’s when people learn whether the relationship will be long term or not.