Why do we tend to avoid certain people?
Because we humans are living things.And we have instincts, eventhough Maslow’s said that we have the ability to override them.We tend to avoid people who are different from us, whether it’s about race, social class, lifestyle, cultures or politics. Some said that we should not choose which group that we want to be with, but that’s life. We can’t live alone.I’ve been living my school and college life avoiding certain people. I avoid those who live their lives with drama, and who talk shit exaggerately because I feel irritated.I’m a practical person. Everyday has the achievement I have to fulfill. By have fun and do anything happily from the heart. To reach my goals so I have to avoid some people who are likely to fail me. This ‘avoid’ means I should not let them get into my life deeper. Still I should not choose whom I want to socialize with.I tend to avoid certain people to live my life in the right way.Once you can’t avoid them (toxic ones), your life will be a mess.
How can you avoid unnecessary people in life?
I try to skew thier perception of me. I become the proverbial “bad guy”. Why? Because I know I’m not, my relevant associates know different and by drawing the line they disassociate from you rather than you from them. This method makes the irrelevant party more aware of thier own ethical compass, as where my disassociation from them would cause them to question thier self worth. Questioning ones self worth is not conducive to applying yourself in a positive direction.
Do my wife and daughter need to cover their hair to avoid altercation when traveling in Germany?
I think the question was mistyped and then misunderstood. You probably wrote "cover" while you wanted to say "uncover" as any committed muslim is required to follow Islamic instructions regarding clothing and every aspect of life. I will answer your question on that assumption. I have been in Germany, namely in a beautiful city called Heidelberg and I have seen there a lot of muslim ladys mostly from gulf countries wearing thier "niqab" and "abaya" freely without any problem and not drawing any attention. Now Heidelberg is a different city as they are used to such costumes because it is a city of mostly college students and it has a very high-standard medical service providers, so many Arabs from gulf come there for medical treatment and people got used to them. Now out of such cities the Islamic costumes such as niqab will draw some attention but people are quite polite and they will just catch a glance of you if they ever do. Certainly no harassment ever should be worried of. If your family don't wear niqab and they just use head scarf and long "jelbab", بالطو , then never worry at all. Germans are totaly used to that. Now this not to say that there isn't ill-minded people that may shout of craziness. But they are seldom encounterd.
Why do some people avoid everybody in their life? Is it possible?
Yes it is possible . People avoid everybody in their life because of many many reasons. It's not one reason but there are many different reasons for the people to avoid . Some of the reasons ateThey are introvertsThey get emotionally attached with people easilyThey know there is none who can make them happy except themselvesThey have gone through a lot in lifeThey have seen the true colours of life at an early ageThey are dedicated towards their goalsThey are workoholicThey are ill-treated,abused,discouraged,demotivatedThey know the importance of themselvesThey don't seek their happiness in othersThey have a purpose in lifeThey are not liked by manyThey have seen the worst of their life at an early ageThey are happy in their own worldThey know one day everyone will leave them without any reasonThey enjoy their solitude , 'me’ timeThey are in love with nature, stream flowing,flowers bloomingThey are in love with their loneliness,their own selfThey fear that their hidden painful secrets will be unhidden from the worldThey are not perfect but are uniqueThey have nothingThey are unstable financiallyThey are often looked down by peopleThey love coffee and books,pen paper more than the peopleThey overthink a lot also overdo for othersThey love to help othersTheir family has many problems which they won't allow others to know about themThey don't want people to call them attention seeker or sympathy gainerThey are like a mystery to othersThey show happiness hide their umpteen sorrows behind itThanks hope have done justice to the questionStay happy alwaysStay blessed always
Coworker's accusations that are lies?
just ignore her from your life completely ignore all her attempts to become your friend as this could result in a problem much worse than the one you just got yourself out of
What are the types of people that you should always avoid?
You’re new in school. So is Jade.You meet during new student orientation. She’s hilarious, spunky, and opinionated. She loves to joke around and that’s what you like about her. You two hit it off right away.Before you know it, she invites you to her birthday party, you’re sitting next to each other in every class, and hanging out together at the mall. There’s never a dull moment when she’s around. You pass funny notes in class and you’re both trying choke back laughter before the teacher notices.As the school year goes on, you start making other friends besides Jade - friends that she wouldn’t really like if she knew. Some are on the nerdy side. Some aren’t so conventionally attractive or stylish. None are among the “popular kids” but then again, you’re not a “popular kid” either.After you get to know her better, you start to notice that many of her little jokes aren’t so nice. She casually makes fun of kids at school behind their backs, including your other friends and some of her friends as well. She plays it off like it’s all in good fun and but you’re not so sure. Her unkind jokes bother you, but you try brush them off.After all, she’s your best friend, your confidante, your comrade-in arms. You always sit together in class, you work together on every class project, and you eat lunch with her everyday. What should you do?Start cutting her out of your life right now.It may seem like her jokes aren’t a big deal but they are.She’s a mean-spirited gossip, plain and simple.It takes two to play the gossip game and you’re becoming her favorite partner.She dishes out negativity and you take it all in. As she makes fun of other people, she expects you to agree with her opinions. Soon, she’ll expect you to dish it right back.Her gossip is like a poison spreading through you, making you just like her.She thinks her gossip makes her look cool and witty, but it only creates an ugly sense of superiority and sows distrust. After all, what’s to stop her from gossiping about you when you’re not around?Your best bet?Move on from Jade as fast as you can.Surround yourself with people who lift others up, not tear them down.
Is karate even good/realistic to learn for a real life/death situation ?
As could be said of others, if trained in a proper manner by a good instructor I can think of no better. Karate training kept me alive for years in dangerous jobs. Never did let me down.
In your opinion, is murder ever justified?
The very definition of "murder" is the unjustified taking of another person's life. A couple of the things you stated are not murder. If some gangland thug is pointing a weapon at my neighbor, and I'm absolutely convinced he is about to use it, I would not hesitate to shoot him dead. Let me give you another example. A local gangbanger went to settle the score over some issue. Not the brightest bulb in the package, he went to the wrong house. When the 44 year old man opened the door, the gangbanger shot him in the forehead, killing him instantly. Someone called the cops and a chase ensued. When he could drive no further, he jumped out of his car firing at the police. They shot him dead. Now honestly, what would you have the police do? They knew he'd already shot one man dead, he's using deadly force against them, what possible alternative do they have but to return fire? I could probably come up with dozens of real-life examples like that.