How do I become this girls boyfriend?
She really likes me and I really like her we went out a few times and her friends tell me she says good things about me however how do I become her boyfriend ... Should I just ask or how should be it? Thank you.
She has a boyfriend, but I like her too much. How can I become her boyfriend?
Identify the qualities the attract you to her. Identify other, available people who share those qualities.She has chosen to be in her current relationship. Every single day, she chooses to stay in that relationship. She’s not accidentally staying in that relationship, and she’s not being forced to stay in it. It’s a deliberate choice. She’s made that choice because it makes her happy. If you like her, respect her. Respect her choice and be happy for her happiness.If, against all wisdom, you decide to interfere with her relationship, here are the most likely outcomes:The most likely possibility by far is that she will resent your attempt to become her boyfriend. Things will get dramatic between you two, and quite possibly violent between you and her current boyfriend. People who know the situation will recognize that you’re in the wrong. It will negatively affect your social life beyond only the two of them.You might (highly unlikely) actually succeed in breaking up her relationship and becoming her new boyfriend. Congratulations, and welcome to a new nightmare! Now, every small mistake you make, every minor flaw in your character, will result in her making cutting comparisons of you against her ex. She’ll eventually see him move on and date someone else, and she’ll hate you for the new girl’s happiness. Eventually, she’ll either leave you out of contempt, or she’ll make you suffer so much you want the relationship to end.As before, you might succeed and become her new boyfriend. But it’s still a nightmare. Because now, you’ll always remember this: she’s with you because you broke her out of a relationship she was already in. A relationship she was happy in. You’ll live in daily fear of losing her the same way you got her. Because you’ll remember that she was happy before, and that wasn’t enough to keep her in her relationship. You’ll know the same thing can and may happen to you, despite everything you do to keep her happy.Identify other, available people who have qualities that attract you. This person is taken.
How can I become your boyfriend?
Ah! These questions take me back to the last time I was single and what I'd liked about guys who were potential dating material. Yes, I just objectified some men. We all do that, c'mon!Anyway, I remember mentioning this in another question as well- I LOVE shy guys. I want to clarify that shy doesn't mean lacking confident. For me, it's more about being an introverted person and not really trying hard to pursue someone while still fancying them.When an introverted guy gives me his attention, I feel doubly flattered. These people aren't as outgoing as others but if they decide to interact with someone, it's safe to say that they've thought this through. Once that's sorted, make me laugh and I'll develop an instant liking towards you. It's not really difficult to make me laugh. My sense of humor accommodates pretty much all kinds of jokes. If I giggle, I like your sense of humor. If I laugh out loud, I consider you an equal in the humor domain. If I snort while laughing, you're on your way to becoming one of my favorites! Long story short, make me laugh and it'll make it easier for me to like you. If you have both the qualities mentioned above AND you get a dimple when you smile- I'll date you. No questions asked.
How do i become ok with my boyfriend turning 21?
you just have to suck it up and let it happen. do not make him feel guilty pleeeeasee. when i turned 21 instead of going out and getting trashed with friends, i spent the night with my bf who was not yet 21. and i still look back on that day and feel like i missed out on a part of my life. you only turn 21 once, and if you don't live it up you will regret it. so don't make him regret it. you can be jealous and upset, but don't ruin it for him. you wouldn't want someone to ruin it for you. now if he thinks he is going to be going out to bars all the time without you and turning into a different person- then you can interfere!! but for that one night, just let him do what he deserves to do- get trashed on his 21st.
How do I become boyfriend of my girl bestie?
You mean to ask - how do you propose the girl who is your best friend.Well, I’ll start with the warning - we sometimes feel close to certain girls. But it’s not necessary that we take that relationship to romantic extent. Sometimes, it’s wise to keep your best friend as your best friend, as once you cross that line, there’s no coming back. If all go well and you do end up in relationship, and then break up after a year or 5, you won’t be having a best friend either!Now, on How-To-Do part, well simply confess it to her that you may be starting to fall for her. Initially, you can start it with a bit of humor, by complimenting on her good looks, and how lucky the guy were who’d turn up with her, and how you’d take care of her if you’d be her boyfriend. See her response from those small moments and try to find out if she is open to the idea. Chances are, she may shut you down. If she does, it would be better not to pursue this further.
How can I become 'boyfriend material'?
Boyfriend material is honest, caring, and loyal. Doesn't eye other girls or cheat. Doesn't flirt. Listens to her stories and asks how her day was. Shows an interest in what she likes or talks about. Shows her he thinks about her. Is there for her when she needs him. Surprises her once in a while. Isn't afraid to commit. Treats her right and doesn't abuse her, not even verbally or mentally. Making time for her.It's all really common sense, respect, and making her feel special.
How do you become boyfriend/girlfriend?
I'm from Asia, and I've been dating with this American guy for a couple weeks. I'm wondering how you become boyfriend/girlfriend here in the States. In Asia, he/she tells someone his/her feeling and make the relationship official clearly first. Then they go on a date. They don't kiss or have more stuffs until they become boyfriend/girlfriend. But, here in the States, you have "dating". During dating, you do act like boyfriend/girlfriend, but not actually boyfriend/girlfriend. You kiss and have a sex sometimes. I'm wondering what's the difference between dating and becoming boyfriend/girlfriend, and how to become boyfriend/girlfriend. Do you ever ask him/her to be your girlfriend/boyfriend? I'm kind of confused now. We see each other every weekend. I don't have a car so he comes pick me up. He's always paid when we went out, like dinner and movies. We've made out. He wants to see my friends and he also took me to his best friend's parties. He acted like my boyfriend in front of my friends and his friends. We are having a good time together, and I wanna be his girlfriend. How do you change the relationship status from just dating to boyfriend/girlfriend? Please give me any advice!
How can I get along with a cute girl and become her boyfriend?
That is a simple question with a very long and complex answer. Not to mention the possibility of incompatibility.Basically, you'll first need to connect with her on something that you both care about or are interested in. You must become familiar enough with each other thato you will actually talk to each other without being prompted by the classwork. There are too many variables for a straightforward answer or plan without detailed information about this girl as well as the setting in which you are together. Basically the simple but non-explanatory/nonspecific answer is get to know her and use your boyish charms to win her over. Make sure you know her friends and the circles she interacts with in order to be aware of potential opportunities for bonding as well as possible roadblocks such as her best friend hating you or her already having a boyfriend. Other than that there's not much I can do without more information.