What could I do to build my confidence back up?
You avoided saying if your shy because that goes hand and hand with lack of confidence?
How do I build my confidence back up and not lose it around attractive guys?
I went through a breakup about 3 months ago (3.5 year long relationship) and I am not ready to date again just yet. But anyways,during that time, I didn't have this problem because I was off-the-market. But now that I'm single again, I've noticed that anytime I am around a hot guy in public, I instantly lose all of my confidence. I feel ugly and that no one attractive would like me and I feel noticeably awkward. When I'm not near an attractive guy, I feel confident and pretty. How do I fix this? (Please don't just say, "Build your confidence backup" because I know that, I need to know how to do that)
How can I get the confidence to do a backflip?
I want to be able to do a blackflip and I know that it is pretty easy but all you need is confidence or it could go wrong. I've tried it on my trampoline and I can do it. And I can do a backflip into water. I just need a way to gain the confidence so it don't go terribly wrong...
How can I get back my confidence after a downfall?
Hi there Tonna,You know what? You don't really lose confidence in yourself. It's just that you have chosen to focus so much on what you believe is "wrong" in your life and what is "wrong" with you, that you cannot focus on anything else...There is something someone told me once that I have never forgotten. The mind can be a wonderful place to visit, but it can also be like a bad neighbourhood... if you go in and stay too long, you might never get out.How to get back your confidence? When you get time, I'd love for you to read this article. 4 Powerful Questions That Will Instantly Change The Way You Think It contains 4 thought provoking questions with the intention to challenge the current way you look at yourself. Please do this exercise, and write down your answers as openly and as honestly as possible. I do not want to overwhelm you. Start there, and do let me know how this exercise works out for you.
How do I build my blue heelers confidence?
I have a timid blue heeler when it comes to livestock (except cattle). My old heeler that I had was a natural pro, avid worker and loved to please and very aggressive. This new heeler (old heeler is no longer with me so its not her dominance) is timid so to say and well, dumb. I can point in the direction he needs to go and he just runs all over the place or cowers. I got him a goat to learn on and play with, but he wasn't interested in it at all, while my old heeler loved playing with her goat (yes my dogs get their own pets that I don't worry about the stressing and chewing on). If I tell him to get the goat he cowers by my feet or just goes and stands by the goat. If I tell him to get a cow he's a barking menacing machine but with no control except when I say enough and he comes back and sits at my feet very pleased with himself and I praise him for trying and being aggressive. I cannot really start tellin him what to do because he shuts down and hides under the truck. The only time he is aggressive is when I'm aggressive with something like playing rough with his goat or training horses, then he becomes very involved, obident, and sharp. but if i'm relaxed he is relaxed and i'm relaxed alot. How do I get him to become confident without me? How do I get him involved without me having to do it as well? I mean obviously I cannot just go smack a bull on the butt to try and make my heeler see this is where I want him to go. I've raised him from a pup, he's a year and half old now, and treats do not get him excited at all. My old heeler was not this hard to train nor was the one before that. He does know sit, lay down, load (to get in the truck), get down, stay (for when I need him to wait relaxed) wait (when I need him to wait, ready to spring to the next command) come, fetch, bring it here (any object I point at) drop it, leave it, up( for when I'd like him to set something in my lap or take his attention up, say to something on a shelf or in a tree) or even regular words, like boots, shirt, sling (I'm often hurt hahaha) hat, blanket, socks, jeans, bottle, toy, stick, bone, rubber (his fave toy is a half eaten rubber boot) and he knows when I need him to get different animals, when I say goat, he stands by the goat, donkey, cow, calf, horse, and sheep. He's sooo smart but he's scared and I can't get him to learn left or right or help bring in livestock.
How do you build confidence in your writing?
The best way to build confidence is by writing. Write, write, write. A LOT. Also, critique is as important to your writing and your confidence as just writing. It may seem odd, but the first time you get back real critique on a story that you've created and worried over, it will hurt and do a beat-down on your confidence. But you have to realize that good criticism is not meant to hurt, but to help. Do a rewrite based on valid critique and ask for another critique. Rinse and repeat. By the time the critique comes back filled with positives, your confidence will soar. You'll feel like you really accomplished something, and every story you write after that will (hopefully) decrease the amount of negative critique you get as you get better at writing and get better at recognizing problems before you send your story out to people for critique. A note about critique: Make sure that you choose who will critique your work based on people that you know will give you constructive and honest answers and also have a good sense of what good writing is. If you just give it to people that say "This was great" that will not help you. Likewise if you give it to people who say "You're speling arrers are atroshus" or "Your vampires should be sparkly, they suck."