How do I convince partner to use dental dam?
Me and my partner plan to have oral sex but I want to use dental dams on me for safety. I brought it up to him but he felt it was not needed because it was excessive and assured me he was clean. How do I convince him to go down on me using a dental dam? Or what good excuses can I use that would have him agree to use it?
How do I convince my boyfriend to quit smoking? I don't want it to come down to me or the cigarette.
If you don’t want him to have to decide then you need to accept that he might always be a smoker. To make a relationship work, you can’t go into it with the attitude that the other person will change.I know two couples where a condition of getting married was for the man to stop smoking. Both men said they quit but didn’t and hide their smoking from their spouse until after the marriage. Both marriages broke up - not about the smoking but about the lying.Strangely enough, with both of these couples, they got divorced but when the men finally did stop smoking for good— on their own, not because of an ultimatum, the lying was over and they both got back together.The best thing you can do is to not support his smoking behavior — don’t let him smoke around you, don’t go outside with him when he smokes, don’t buy cigarettes for him, ask him to brush his teeth/wash his hands before he kisses you with smoke on his breath. Tell him that smoking is his choice but you will not let his behavior damage you by being around secondhand smoke.You don’t say how old you are but the question to ask is —- do I love this guy enough to stay with him even through —- sickness caused by smoking? That is in your vows —through sickness and through health. With smoking, most likely it will be through a smoking related disease.
My boyfriend won't go down on me!?
I have been dating this guy for a while and we started getting intimate but he refuses to go down on me because he hates the smell. I keep myself clean and have never had sex so the smell is not out of the ordinary. He says he has had the same problem with past girlfriends. Is there anything I can do to convince him to get over his Disgust. I have already said I won't go down on him until he is ready to return the favor, is there like maybe a lube that will eliminate the small or dietary tricks?
How do I convince my boyfriend that...?
I want to sleep with black guys? I still love him but I want my needs to be fullfilled. And only a black guy can do that. Me and my Boyfriend are both white. Don’t tell me to leave him and just go date a black guy because I don’t love black guys but I desire them. I love my boyfriend. All my GFs sleep with black guys. Some of them have boyfriends and are cool with it. I want to cuckold him. I mean me and my BF are really kinky. I let him pee on me because that’s his fetish. It’s only fair that he lets me experience my fetish too right? I just want some BBC on the side. Before my BF I’ve never dated a white guy and only been with black guys. My bf has this cute charm also he makes me laugh which made me fall for him. But there is a difference with love and lust. And I am lusting on some big black d i c K. I’m not a troll please give legit answers. Don’t reply if your not gonna help.
How do convince a straight guy to let me give him head?
What is wrong with all of these people above me....if yall aren't gonna give a good answer, then don't answer and move on to something else. Anyway... I understand where you're coming from and it's a frustration many share, not just you. What's good is that you already know he is curious and he knows what you want, so give it time, and see if he comes around. It's not your say, it's his. Lay down your offer, let him think about it, and if he wants to, he will. If he's not interested, then he won't do anything. Don't pressure him to do anything, it might elicit self-defense if he feels like he's getting cornered.
How can i convince my boyfriend to let me get a tongue piercing?
its always been my dream to have piercings and tattoos. my twin sister just got her tongue pierced and it makes me feel real left out because ive always wanted one SO BAD!! i want to convince him to let me get one. HELPPP. (i live with him he's my baby daddy.. maybe a little more than just my boyfriend)
How can I convince my boyfriend to let me meet his friends?
If you have to convince him to let you meet his friends, then you should ask him what the problem is. He is either embarrassed of you or not wanting people to know you are together because he’s seeing someone else, or doesn’t see a future with you, and sees no point in you meeting them. You should have a serious talk about where you stand in the relationship.
My boyfriend won't let me go down on him?
I really want to, but he doesn't let me. Last night, we were having sex, and without telling him, I just kind of went lower and lower, and he jumped up and got mad at me. he said he doesn't like the feeling of someone's head in between his legs, he's not self conscious, it just makes him feel uncomfortable. How do I convince him to let me?
How do I convince my boyfriend to let me work at Hooters?
Okay, So I am in major debt with my dad, like an insane amount, and my car is going down hill and the bills are piling. I work at a fast-food-esc restauraunt now, where we are NOT allowed to take tips and the pay is minimum wage. I went to hooters and talked to waitress the other day and she said she knew they would hire me, how do I make this at ease with my boyfriend? I've attempted to talk to him a billion times about it, and he just gets SO angry with me. I don't know what to tell him to convince him, he completely HATES the idea of it all. But I need the money, badly. So, How should I go about telling him? I'll admit there has been past issues where he thinks I want attention from other guys, so obviously, he thinks that is what this is all about, IT'S NOT. I would NEVER break up with him (we've been dating for 2.5 years), so there should be no problem, but please help me! literally, it's like I need to prepare a speech! Thanks a bunch!
How do I convince a straight guy to let me perform oral sex on him?
How do I convince a straight guy to let me perform oral sex on him?You don't.I've actually had this happen to me.A guy in the pub one time kept pestering me, he followed me into the toilets, then back out and carried on and on and on.The next time I went into the toilets, he followed me and reached to unzip my trousers.I had a moment, of which I am not proud, I bodily lifted him from the floor and slammed him against the wall. I left him in no doubt that he was not going to get his way, and that continuing to try would result in my inflicting physical violence upon his person.He left me alone, but not before trying to turn my friends against me. Telling them that I had attacked him without provocation.You cannot convince a straight person to be gay. Trying to do so might lead to physical harm.It's every bit as bad as”pray the gay away”. I'd be tempted to batter one of those arseholes as well.