My moms boyfriend moved in!?
Okay so, my parents separated in January but they aren't divorced yet and my mom let her boyfriend move in with us. She didn't ask me, Im 16, almost 17, or by 14 year old sister because she didn't know she "needed our permission." i never even met him before he moved in, and I'm really uncomfortable in my house now. She keeps saying he is going with us across the country on christmas vacation too. I really don't like that. my dad has a house about 5 minutes away that nobody lives in except when he comes home to visit me and my sister. (He lives 6 hours away) i told my mom i wasn't comfortable living with him and she told me to get over it. can i move out? Should i take my sister? I don't ever really talk to my mom and i would be fine on my own. Advice pleassssssssseeeeeee!
How do I convince my mother to let me move out with my boyfriend?
Well, how old are you? How old is he? If you are above the age of consent, then you no more need to convince your mother to be able to move out than you do to get a job, get a boyfriend in the first place or whatever else.If you are wanting your mother to agree with your decision, there are good answers already on here. How well does she know him? Can he support you, or can you support each other? Is the place he has for you safe? Does he have some sort of plan in life? A job? Responsibility? A good attitude and caring family? All these things matter to the mother of her little girl (and no matter how old you are, you will always be that to your mother).Have you and your boyfriend had a quiet and adult sit down talk about with with your mother? That might be a place to start. Hope it goes well.
How can I get rid of my moms boyfriend?
My mom and my REAL dad are divorced. To be honest I kinda liked it that way because I got all the attention I wanted. Well when I am with my mom she USED to give alot of attention. Then her stupid-a*s boyfriend had to come into the picture. Let me tell you a little bit about her ugly a*s boyfriend. He is a fat ugly man, his other wife died, he has a grown daughter that i never met and I hate his guts. Now the reason why i hate him is because he took my moms attention away from me. They see each other everyday talk on the phone every hour, and I only get like 2-3 hours with my mom, and in between she still talks on the phone with him. Now her stupid-@$$ boyfriend thinks he can tell me what to do. He tells me I cant eat at night and stuff but that ***** doesnt run me. So I still eat at night. I could care less if he fell down a well. If he thinks he's gonna run me he better think again. Don't tell me to talk to my mom, I try that all the time but all she does is defend her boyfriend and herself. I am really sick of him I wanted to move in with my real dad but my real dad wont let me, he says I need to grow up an quit acting like a brat. He tells me to just deal with it. I am a 12 year old girl turning 13 in December. My mom doesnt care if I move in with my dad. I think she doesnt even care about me, sh probably wouldnt care if I killed myself. But I would never kill myself because of how people treat me.
My Mom married my boyfriends Dad, is my boyfriend now my step-brother? i am creeped out!?
so basically i have a boyfriend and we have a 3 year old son together, we do not live together, i live with my parents and he lived with his. I knew my mom had a boyfriend and when she told me she was getting married i was happy for her, i only found out at the wedding last week that the guy she had just married was my boyfriends dad, i am so confused and i feel so creeped out and discusted! is my boyfriend my step-brother and my baby grandfather is married to his grandmother on the other side? I have no idea whats going on here but it makes me want to end my relationship for a start! is this weird?
I feel like I’m losing my little girl to her boyfriend. She’s 26 but my best friend. I don’t want her to marry or have sex anytime soon .?
No this is not a joke. She’s always been a daddy’s girl and we’ve always had a great relationship. I guess that’s why I’m not pushing her to move out as much as her mother is. ( her mother was abusive to her as a young child and they have a terrible relationship. I tell my daughter and her boyfriend marriage is hard, it’s not a fairytale but she thinks she knows everything. They’ve been together for four years but I still get saddened/ upset when I think about her getting married and leaving me. It’s always hard for a parent to truly let go of their child. I’m going to miss having a home cooked meal also because I’m used to her cooking everyday. My wife doesn’t know how to cook and after 12 hour shifts I’m way too tired to cook. I told her I could take her to her hair stylist appointment but she wanted her boyfriend to take her even though for some reason.
Should I let my 18-year-old daughter sleep over at her boyfriend's house?
First, she's reached the age of sexual majority in the US. It is her decision and not yours now.Second, is SHE Catholic? If not, then again, it's her decision and not yours.Third, in YOUR home, you can make any (legally permissible) rules you wish to make and enforce them. This includes disallowing sex between non-married people, period. She can remedy this by being elsewhere, which she soon will be anyway, at Uni.Fourth, you have no legal right to forbid her to do anything legal outside of the home, whether it's sex, playing the lottery or smoking tobacco.If you want her to abstain, clearly that ship sailed LONG ago and is presumed lost at sea. You cannot undo what has already transpired.You are at a crossroads: You may choose to hold onto your attachment to your practices and attempt all sorts of ways to manipulate her into adhering to them or you can let go of them, reducing your stress, and permit her to make her own decisions... and mistakes as needed. Be available to answer questions or soothe the hurts, but you had your 18 years chance. Time to let go and trust her to watch out for herself.Otherwise, you risk losing her altogether and creating a resentment that could take decades, if ever, to overcome.Look at the big picture, let go of your attachments and trust in all your prior years of effort. Every person has a different path through life and sometimes you just have to watch the bruises as they occur and stand ready with the arnica gel to soothe them.Good luck.