Why are women so CHEAP acting these days?
SOME but not all of the reason is society today. Sex sells. So many young women think well that's all I gotta do to be liked. It's a sad but true fact of life. It's how women are viewed by many, many men in this day and age. The easier, the better...for the moment. Then they toss em out. Men act the same way, but no one ever says anything about them. A girl can sleep around and get called every name in the book...but a guy goes out and does the same thing and he's a stud.....doesn't make sense to me. I feel sorry for women who act like this...I just wanna grab them and shake them till they understand that were NOT put on this earth to please men, but rather to be respected and treated with dignity. There is so much pressure for sex in todays world.....
My husband acts like a woman....?
I grew up with brothers...so I have a pretty good idea of how dudes are. What am I suppost to do when my husband acts like the woman....example: sulking, not talking when he's upset, etc. I want a man!
Why do women whine and complain like children instead of acting like adults if they don't get their way?
Every woman I know get so emotional and just go off if they don't get what they want. It reminds me of kids crying if their parents won't buy them a brand new toy they want. I have never seen a man behave that way. If a man doesn't get what he want he just work harder until he get it. But women whine and complain if they can't get what they want right away. I guess that's why during Titanic sinking they let women get on boats with children because they are about on the same level emotionally. I'm not trying to be mean I just wish to find out why women behave this way. Is it their upbringing or hormonal or something like that?
Why can't men read the signals women give off when they're interested?
I will give you the best example why. I had a office colleague who in office would always maintain eye contact and smile(whenever we would cross paths), even wave at me if we were far (in the office corridor) just to say hi. She would also be helpful in work and all. The other day I kept a beard and she came up to me to say the beard looks nice. She also constantly tried to strike up a conversation – like if we bumped into each other – she would be like we are seeing each other too often today, or if I would say sorry (on bumping into her) she would be like no – no I am sorry. However, she quit her job after 9 months of being in my office. On the last day she came up to me and said – Hey! I quit!.. You know about it? Me: Yeah, got to know about it! – Good Luck! I smile, shake her hand and get on with my work. Three months later I add her on facebook.. She has every colleague of mine in her friend list. And she hasn’t even messaged me once since the last 6 months (from the time when I added her on fb). Though I have messaged her twice – Hey! How are you? How is it like in India? And Hey! I heard its raining quite heavily (there was news her place was flooded) at your place? Are the things so bad? Her replies have been to the point and nothing more. She hasn’t initiated a message from her side at all. So I took the cue that she really wasn’t interested – I didn’t message her any further too.Now, that’s why guys do not read the signals women give, cause women themselves are not clear what they would want!. I mean – when she(the girl) was in office, she gave me so many signals that she was interested (atleast to have a chat or to be friends and all). (I mean there are so many other girls who work at my office – none of them would be acting the way she did.) But still when I add her up on fb – she goes all cold. So its all very confusing. I am happy on my part not to have acted like a despo in front of her and to have been professional all along – cause after all it was a workplace. As for fb – I have deactivated my account for now & only God(&her) will know what she really thought about me or wanted from me.
What is the best strategy for dealing with bitchy girls?
Ignore them. Don't take anything personally-people need to stop being codependent on the mood of others to justify their presence. When they get bitchy, don't give them any attention or the means to ruin your day. Sometimes girls are in a bad mood and would prefer to be left alone. It happens. Sometimes guys get b*tchy after a bad day too. IF that's the case, just be nice and cool and let her shake it off. If the girl is being b*tchy as an act, again- don't pay any attention to her. These girls are like two year olds who have tantrums, they only do what gets people to pay attention to them. It might be tough at first. But it helps to keep your chin up and centered through the act. IT might even help to turn your backside to them and not make eyecontact at all, act like they don't exist until they turn off the act. You don't have to fight back or escalate the situation. Don't have to talk behind their backs, etc. Then start a conversation about something you DO like or what makes you happy- if it doesn't infringe on these girls. Ie. talk about what your fav basketball player did during the game that day, a new song you like, going to a concert, club, etc. Like getting off of that b*tchy act and negativity, but by leading by example. IT also makes you look good. "bitchy girls" compete, even with guys. They don't like to be shown up.
Why do most women only show interest in you when you act uninterested in them?
Being a woman I know.. That women love the attention they get.. It's like our system works that way … We crave to be desirable sometimes even under the cover of being independent , having a damn care attitude . we know what men really want.. For that matter.. Men too ( some men:p) know what we really want .. It's like a human need to be wanted and desired.Well off course some women might say we're doing this for ourselves..and this makes us happy but nothing makes us happier than being appreciated , people looking up to us and wanting to be us and wanting us.However, I also feel it's Ego which is taller than their Christian Louboutins …doing most of the thinking all the time. The need to look good be it how one dresses itself in clothing or in the achievements one has ..which kindles the desire of the other sex.Coming to the question , well women do love being chased.. It's like fodder for women ego.. I mean , my ego would be satisfied if I'd know there were a bunch of men out there wanting me ( not objectifying) and not having me ( I know it's a very very arrogant statement but yes it's the bitter truth ) .And when we're not being chasedAnd nothing satisfies it more than a little praise, knowing there are men who desire the sort woman I am ( and they'd kill to have me :p)It can all be coined to this :having a man who is good for a women's ego nor the feeling of having a women good for a man's ego. Because let me tell you my friend nothing feeds the ego better than this .
What is the deal with this domestic discipline 'way of life'?
Why on earth would two people agree that the husband should spank his wife whenever she does anything he doesn't like unless they needed some kind of justification for acting on some sexual fetish? I mean, really...why can't the wife punish the husband if he does something "wrong" as well? Why is this some one way street? And spanking her? Why not taking her credit card away for a day or something? I'm sorry, this is not something I can accept as a respectable way of life...this notion that the guy has any right to infantilize his grown wife and can do whatever he pleases is sickening. Not to mention these people freaking post videos of themselves "disciplining" their partners online. This has got to just be some sort of way of acting out the couple's fantasies.
How does a Virgo man act if he's interested in someone?
In actuality, it all depends on their Venus sign, so it is going to vary on how Virgo men pursue women and love. It all depends because there are about 5 different Venus signs a Virgo can have......... the ones with their Venus in Cancer, Venus in Leo, Venus in Libra, Venus in Scorpio and the ones with their Venus in Virgo. I can speak for the Venus in Virgos, due to the fact that I'm one(although I'm female )and my best guy friend is a double Virgo (Virgo sun & Virgo Venus) in his early 30's. Yes, as you said, many Virgo men can be stand-offish AND aloof. Many DO know how to make that eye contact with someone when they are interested in someone. That is how they first show an initial interest in you....then, the next step can take forever. I know that these people are analytical and picky with who they are interested in and when they are interested in someone, they work their way towards you....slowly. They are not aggressive in their pursuits, and they also must sense interest from the other person as well before they would ever make a move on you. Many of them wait for the other person to make the move first. They love it when you show the interest in them AND make the first move. They are afraid of rejection, however, depending on their moon sign, the degree of being afraid of rejection can vary. If they have a moon in an earth sign, the fear of rejection is greater. Edited to add: Those with their Venus in Virgo can be single for a loooong time. They are okay with being single. EDIT: He was born 08/26. What year was he born in?
Why are guys so insensitive sometimes?
Its called, Pride in my case which all men our different i deal with it because i cannot change what happen 5 min ago, Yes i can make it up, but that's all