I feel so ugly that i want to kill myself?
im in tears just thinking about it...back in november i was the prettiest i had ever felt, i was skinny, had nice hair, nice skin, i got compliments everywhere i went. but then it all started in january when i took a picture of myself and noticed my side burns...they're huge and they connect under my chin and it looks like im starting to grow a beard or something, it hit me so hard because for the first time in my life i felt gorgeous and to have it all ripped away in one day...then a few weeks later i started noticing i have chest hair and hair everywhere. my doctor diagnosed me with hirsutism but never gave me medication. the thing that kills me the most is that im inlove with a boy i met over winter break when i was on vacation and were now in a long distance relationship. im seeing him in the summer and he thinks im drop dead gorgeous and he has no idea about my secret and that kills me... im scared for my life that if he finds out he'll dump me. but all our mutual friends tel me how inlove with me he is so maybe hell still love me but idk... hes so good looking and could get a new gf easy. im scared of heartbreak. i dont want a huge beard to grow, and i really dont want chest hair. if i ever wanted to be 'intimate' with someone id have to shave my back and my entire body =[ ive been depressed about this for 2 months now and i just want it to stop! i told my mom and she didnt help at all, she just made me feel worse and more hopeless. i know all of the solutions already, im just dreading how much time its gonna take for me every day to get ready. and im moving in with my dad in a different country soon and he doesnt know and its so embarassing, i dont want him to yell at me for hogging the bathroom all the time and i really dont want him to know incase he doesnt love me anymore. :( i don't know what to do anymore...i feel so down on myself that i dont even want to go out or do anything. also i gained 10 pounds from all this depression, and i noticed i have stretchmarks/cellulite(idk how to tell the difference) on my thighs :'( also i got my back waxed a while ago and it caused terrible bacne and its mostly gone now but i have a lot of scars... if anyone could help me find a way to be happy that would be great. also im open to solutions. btw im mixed and extremely light skinned with dark body hair...maybe if i tanned A LOT it would be less noticeable on my chest? :( im sorry for the novel, but thanks for reading...
I'm about to lose my virginity, what do i do with my PUBIC HAIR?
Do with it what YOU like looking at. He might see it once in a while but you have to see it everyday. I have tried waxing and got lots of ingrown hairs (if you do get it waxed, get it done professionally!), shaving can lead to the same result. Trimming is pretty much all you need to do (make it shorter with scissors- sharp scissors). Also, if he hasn't seen your pubic hair yet, I would recommend trying out other things that aren't sex FIRST. There is no rush to have sex. Enjoy all the other things. Once sex comes into play they can get pushed into the closet even though that is the best part a lot of the time. One last thought- USE PROTECTION. Please. Thank you!
Is the mirror an accurate depiction of what you look like?
I also wonder over the fact what is more accurate depiction of our real face……photo or mirror!First of all we will talk about characteristics of a photo:Image is not invertedImage is in 2d formLens distorts your featuresPeople just aren't habitual of looking their real version and love too see their inverted self which they are habitual ofLens make you gain 10 poundsAll of us aren't photogenicLight plays role while taking your perfect snapshotAngle!!!It is just a frozen moment while everything in reality is moving and isn't stationary but dynamicYour feature might not get really reflected through your pic or selfieSome skin color do alter in presence of light and gives different image then expectedFlash!!!!Mm and MP of the camera plus sensor!Distance from the cameraAnd seriously everyone hates their photographs for above and psychological reason…..we might look different from what we really thinkNow for mirror :image is invertedYou might look different in mirrors due to the error while makingThey show us in motion and 3d view of our self…But inverted selfRest is just an argument but to notify you those who think photo is more accurate then click a photo and flip it…..it still is little different then what mirror shows to us…..so it doesn't make sense(maybe due to lens distortion we look different in the snapshots)The mirror image is more accurate but inverted and that inversion makes a lot more difference then what we look like!And our eye is just the best lens to see the world we just see things with our eyes having power of accommodation that is we generally see a 3d with much more dynamics than in photo so it is pointless by seeing your photo and making conclusion that you look ugly……just keep in mind no one is ugly just some people are more attractive then you physically doesn't decrease your productive value…..but I guess inspire of inversion both mirror and photos are different in portraying our image and we look different in real life then any of them but for me inspire of inversion mirror is better then lens* sorry if I have an answer that you don't require but comparison between to is necessary to show the paralleled between the two!(Distortion by Lens)(Look the mirror images aren't much different just inverted that's how different you might look to others compared to mirror while lens distorts your features completely)
Where do you want to see yourself in 10 years?
With you.…Just kidding. But after getting this A2A from the Sultan of Sockistan himself, I just couldn’t resist.In all seriousness, the last person to ask me this question before Habib Fanny was the hiring manager at my summer internship. It’s my last internship as an undergraduate student - I’ll be graduating this coming May, and if I end up accepting a full-time offer with my current firm, I’ll be working in economic consulting for anywhere from two to ten years. That prospect is terrifying and thrilling and coming up fast.This is a question I’ve been thinking about a lot recently, and the more I think about it, the more often the answer changes.In ten years, I can see myself in an upscale coffeeshop in Manhattan, working on exciting new research that keeps me busy sixty hours a week. I’ll be wearing charcoal grey blazers and fancy high heels, the kind that currently make me fall over. I’ll be living in a studio apartment with my two dogs and my boyfriend-du-jour, and I’ll be having the time of my life.I can also see myself in the backyard of a two-story house in the suburbs of Seattle, goofing around and playing my ukulele. I’ll be wearing sweatpants and sneakers, and I’ll have cut my hair short, the way my mom cut her hair when I was born. I’ll be living with my husband and our first child, and I’ll be having the time of my life.There are a dozen other answers that are just as appealing to me, if not more so - but, for whatever reason, those two possibilities are the ones that have been dancing around in the back of my head.Regardless of where I end up, I see myself in love with the world around me and having the time of my life. For now, that’s all I need.
Give me some tips on improving my image :D (pictures)?
What can I do to make myself look better? I'm 17 and VERY self conscious, especially of my teeth :( I am not taking my lip ring out though, at least not until I get a job (which I'm applying for now). I love it. http://s233.photobucket.com/albums/ee77/reggie_bear/?action=view¤t=1.jpg&newest=1 http://s233.photobucket.com/albums/ee77/reggie_bear/?action=view¤t=1.jpg&newest=1 (a piece of sand is stuck in the lens of the camera, right on my forehead, in this picture) http://s233.photobucket.com/albums/ee77/reggie_bear/?action=view¤t=1.jpg&newest=1
Do you find yourself attractive? Do you think others find you attractive?
Atractive…Do I consider myself attractive? I’d say I’m fairly ok in the eyes of others, I get an incredible amount of positive comments on my naturally dark eyebrows, and I’m constantly told I have an incredible smile that “transforms” my face, and comments on my small nose and mostly clear skin are frequent.But I am actually very insecure about those very things. My eyebrows if not groomed correctly can make me look like some hairy monster, and if I were to let them grow my unibrow I’ve had since birth would resurface, I worry my nose is to small to my face in comparison with my sorta biggish eyes and as for my skin, I worry one day it’ll go away an I’ll be left hopeless. But my biggest insecurity is actually my cheeks, and my chin.I had an open bite really early as a kid, and it was a really bad case as well. I was on retainers as early as 4–5 years old, and all my surgeries went on to sorta screw up my jaw and chin area.As for my cheeks, I’ve always been chubby even as a baby and it’s always been the epitomy of my insecurities, I constantly hide them behind curtains of hair and rarely ever have my hair up in fear of looking more like a chubby new born. I get anxious without having cloth around my arms and as I have long dark hair on my arms as well. The worst part is, I do get compliments and I do get some fair attention, but most of the time I can’t see it. And it destroys meThis is me, actually looking fairly decent in my eyes and with my teeth fixed(I finished my 10 year treatment last year and exceeded any expectations my dentists had), this a rare appearance of me without any form of jacket/ sweater/ or any kind of covering over my arms. And my hair is held back from my face in a clip, something I do almost never but I had a dinner and decided to clean up a little even if I felt uncomfortable. You can’t really see my chin from this angle. But as much as my opinion of myself destroys me, I’m trying everyday constantly to work on myself and how I see myself.One day I hope I can get to the point I can look at myself in the mirror and not have a queasy feeling in my gut that makes me want to cry and turn away, or be able to look at myself and not point out every single flaw but to look at myself and be able to point out the things that make me, me. The things that make me a better person and the things tht others appreciate and learn to love them and appreciate them back, that’s all I wish for anyone and everyone.
Is it normal to always feel like other girls are prettier than me?
I do this too and i think its normal. everyone notices their own flaws, or things they wish they could change about themselves. Your a reallly pretty girl and im not saying that to make you feel better, im being honest. Just looking at your picture i thought " I wish i had long hair like her" So yes, its normal.