What should i do if i have a crush on my roommate?
First of all, you can never be 100% sure about anything in life....if you are waiting for 100% knowledge about anything..... you are bound to be an unhappy man. If you are emailing each other throughout the day, there is connection. If you guys are "tagging along", through shopping, workouts, parties, meals.......there is connection. For groundwork, you should know whether finding a new place to live is something feasible, or not. Because in the worst scenario , you might prefer to move, or simply live as one of the many millions, who tries for something that doesn't work out. There does not need to be "drama" about it....unless one of you wishes it to be so, and makes it so. You have to speak to this guy about your feelings, man. If he is worth thinking this much about, then he is also a man who will simply state if he has no interest. If you are doing so much together, and talking about life, through email, then maybe you are not crossing such an impossible barrier. Your problem is not different than any guy who wonders if he should ask someone to go out with him. Go ahead and ask, speak to him about forming a closer relationship...... the worst answer you can receive is no. This guy likes you, in any case.....and you have a friend there, regardless. If you question that, then think honestly, if you were the friend of someone, and liked them for who they are.... would you remove them from your life because they asked if there was a chance for more?.........nah...you wouldn't...neither would he......... do as you wish to do, guy.....the only real loss, comes from not doing anything at all............ be well...
Why do I hate my roommate?
It's not easy to live with other people. Sometimes it's even harder with friends because you have a history together and expectations. Sometimes kind, caring people can be clingy or make you feel guilty without meaning to. It can be easier to be roommates with a stranger because you can keep more distance, etc. Living with a friend is different than being married. I'm not entirely sure why, but it is. My husband hated all of his roommates in college but he seems not to mind living with me most of the time.
How do I get my roommate to spank me?
My roommate is like the head of our room and she punishes me if I do bad things. She has tried grounding me and stuff but she says that doesn't work on me so she tried spanking me and she said that worked like a charm and she will keep doing it when I'm bad and need to be punished and that she will spank me harder if I something very bad. I loved when she spanked me though and I want her to do it again right away and I want her to punish me harshly. How do I get her to spank me again very hard maybe even with the hairbrush or our rooms paddle without asking her to do it? All the rooms in the dorms here have paddles for the good roommate to use when their roommate is bad. -Jenny
My roommate thinks I'm lazy?
My roommate and I are in college and she has a job but I do not. The way that our schedules work out is that I'm usually here when she leaves for class/work and I'm here when she gets home from class/work. I was talking about how nice it is to occasionally be home in the middle of the day compared to being in high school where we were in school 8 to 3, 5 days a week and she says, "get a job." I don't think she meant it in a mean way but I took offense to it. Because I'm here when she leaves and here when she comes home, I'm sure she's judging me as lazy. I don't really want a job right now; I have enough money to get by at the moment so it isn't absolutely necessary that I get one. I consider my roommate to be my friend so I do care what she thinks of me so I don't want her thinking I'm lazy. I don't think I'm that lazy; I have plenty of homework and I'm training for my first half-marathon, which is going to be taking up more and more of my time as the months go on. It's really stressing me out that she thinks of me this way so I don't know what to do. Should I confront her? What should I do?
My roommate snores a lot. What can I do?
I didn't want to loose a good friend just because he snores, at the same time, i don't want my sleep or his sleep to get disturbed, because bad sleep leads to a bad next day.Every problem has a solution, The problem that Nagesh Tikare was facing which he overcomes by using his earphones and songs. Now, I have the same problem, meaning, the same roomie who was Nagesh Tikare 's is now my roomie, this is how i solved my problem without earphones. I used to observe and experiment one or the other thing on him daily (without disturbing his sleep), He starts snoring immediately when he falls asleep, here are my trails.Trial 1: Play music a loud. (Failed)Trail 2: Make some sounds with the objects around. (Failed)Trail 3: Call his name aloud. (Failed)Trail 4: Turn on lights. (Failed)After all these failures, i felt some how Trail 5, was working, but its partial,Trail 5: Touch him, either with hands or some stick. (Partial success, his snoring intensity use to reduce, and accelerate again) So, this was not the way, because i still have to sacrifice my sleep by touching him whenever he starts snoring, Or i have to create a robot that will hit him whenever he starts snoring, which is not practical. The trail that worked for me is quite simple, Trail 6: Increase the Fan speed to the highest (Succeeded)See that he just sleep right under the fan, I allowed him to sleep and start him snoring, increase the fan speed, what i observed is, he intensity and frequency was reduced completely, because in this trail, fan is that robot that splashes him continuously through air/breeze.So, Trail 6 is the modified version of Trail 5. Kudos to me :-)Sleep well, Stay healthy, Stay Fit.
I already want to kill my roommate?
ask her to obey the rules, or kick her the f*ck out if she is going to continue being a b*tch!
My roommate had sex with a girl I like. What should I do?
There's this girl in one of my classes that I've been talking to. We're in the same study group so we see each other outside of class and we talk from time to time. I kinda have a crush on this girl and have thought about asking her out, and I can tell she likes me to based on her body language around me. However, last night I come home from the library and when I get to my apartment I notice that she is there just waiting. I thought that she was waiting for me at first, but then I realize that she is actually waiting for my roommate who she met only a couple hours earlier at a club. I was confused and a little angry at this point so I just rushed into my room. About an hour later I hear them having sex and I hear all her moans and screams. I was practically in tears at this point and try to force myself to fall asleep so I didn't have to hear that, but it didn't work. I don't know what to do, I was going to ask this girl out and now it turns out my roommate had sex with her. What should I do?
My roommate farts a lot. How do I tackle this situation?
Assess the offender's problem. are they doing it on purpose : do they think it is funny, are they unaware of the situation or do they have a medical condition that causes their excessive gaseous ways (at times this could be a symptom of a serious disease and at other times it's something common like a small lactose intolerance ). People pass more gas when they eat meat and dairy products. So maybe look at their diet. Sometimes people aren't aware of their own smells . It's scienctifically proven that given time people become accustomed to their own aromas (like sweat, or letting one rip)Next confront the flatulent one . And tell them to cease their venting (old word for gas by the way). Give them suggestions and also bare in mind that people pass gas 14 or more times a day. So it's a normal bodily function. Anyway good luck with your perhaps-too-comfortable breezy roommate :-DEdit : if the wind-breaker is just doing this for a practicle joke then the threat of telling a future loved one of their old habit will probably stop this.
If I moved out of my old apartment that my roommate and I used to occupy together but she stayed am I liable for the rent that is past due?
If you are on the lease agreement yes, it will probably go on your creditIf you do owe money as of yet, tell the landlord your leaving so (s)he can take you off the lease, if you already owe the money you can tell your roommate to go to the landlord if both of you can work out an agreement to pay the amount owed, if you do. Make the payments either ck or money order, so you personally have record of payment, you fo not give part of the payment to your roommate do it yourself, make sure the money order ot check has your name and in memo write down what is for, even though you make payment means your are free of the whole amount, but if you want to go to court or the landlord takes you and your roommate you have evidence you done your payments.Judge may go easier on you for trying to pay your roommate to so much.There are lawyers that give free advice or advocates that can assist, look them up.