How to forget guys in general?
I have this really embarrassing problem. I'm 23, never been on a date But, have had loads and loads of crushes. And all of them have never ended in a relationship. The thing is that i fall for a guy, then realize that he's either not worth the effort(or has a girlfriend or blah blah) It's a crush initially but what happens i start day dreaming about that guy. Though it really doesn't affect my productivity at large, I feel that it is hindering my growth to an extent(as whenever i have free time , i daydream about a guy.. And then a few days later about some other guy) This is in frustrating Please give advice as to how to tackle this problem! Thanks!
How can I forget the guy, whom I love the most?
I know its really hard when our feelings are not reciprocated by the person we hope from. Emotional pain is almost like physical pain. But if you really love that person, you will let him go for his happiness! Actually the most difficult thing is to get over the memories which seem to haunt after letting him go. So make new memories! Remember he may be important in your life, but he is NOT YOUR LIFE. Make yourself busy in study or work. Hangout with your friends. Talk with people who really love you. Ask them to help you.Focus on other things in life,like career, family, and most importantly yourself!Develop a hobby, busy your mind! Keep his thoughts out of your head. You have to be really strong and determined for this. You will be tempted to contact him or see him. DO NOT DO THAT. But I know you are strong.Try to make yourself happy. Once you see that your happiness is not dependent on him, you feel great and you will start getting over him! Its just a matter of time! Best of luck!!:)
How do I forget a guy who used to love me?
Accept the fact he left. Cry for sometimes, alone or with some good friends. Move on. I know it would be hard. Everyone says the same. I am also in moving on stage only. But once you realize that the person you loved and felt love from doesnt exist anymore it will be easy for you. A good and bad thing about memories is this. You can always relive those memories in your mind. You can laugh thinking how crazy you or he was Or you can cry. Which one you are going to choose. I didnt expect my gf to break up me. I thought i will be breaking up with if it does at all happens. But she just threw away like trash and moved on! No offense, i dont blame her. Our situtaion is complicated. To move on you must find your own way. I can just help you. Pain is real, suffering is optional. Use your pain to achieve. Try to live through pain if you cant forget or if you feel you cant get away from that pain. All the best for your life.
How do I forget a guy whom I love very much but who doesnt love me?
first of all why would you want to love someone who don't love you.Love is a two way street. It takes time to truely love somebody. the things they do for you. the way they make you feel over the years.It sound like you are capitive by his man a fascination,infasuation but remember none a these words are the synonym for love.YOUR MAN IS ON THE WAY, be patient. good things come to those who wait. infasuation
The more I try to forget about a guy, the more I get remembered of him. Why does this happen to me?
Been there, went through that. I am at a much better place now compared to some 6 months ago. I tried what you are doing, and it played havoc with my mind. I'd suggest you read a book 'Tuesdays with Morrie' by Mitch Albom. A chapter in the book talks about how one can get cleansed of such pain and heartache. The trick is to allow the pain to go through you completely. The more you try to submerge it in your heart, the more disturbed you will be. You wanna cry? Do so. As much as you want. I used to cry in the washroom of my office, while commuting to office and back home and whenever I'd see other couples. Sometimes, I'd close myself in a room and cry. Or in the bathroom. I had to do that. How else would I get rid of the pain? One-sided love sucks. If its your childhood close friend, hurts even more. And if the person happens to fall for someone else, the pain is too much to take in. On top of that, if he avoids you, misbehaves and is rude to you, you can just imagine how deep it cuts! I have been struggling with all of that. No more. I let go, slowly. I don't think of him as much as I used to. I don't ping, text or call him. Stopped checking his Facebook profile too. Because I don't want the pain to come all over again. I am happier, though not completely over it yet. You see, that's how it works. You will be fine soon.
What does it mean when I can't forget a guy?
Please don't take my word as gospel but I am definitely a big fan of recognizing patterns and human behavior. With that in mind, what I have recognised to be most prevalent is heartbreak. When someone causes you any elevated emotion that is outside the norm, for you, they are very rarely forgettable. This is not to say that they are not the one or even, to say that they are absolutely the one... Life is definitely what you make of it, but lasting impressions that are very deep come from, usually, a form of sadness or disappointment. Even if everything with regards to your interaction with him went amazingly well, it still is really only going to be the most memorable if you, in some way, are let down. Now, it could be that you let yourself down in someway, not that it is his fault. However, this other person is just somehow tied to your hurtful memory, and THAT is the thing that makes him so Unforgettable. So I guess what you should be delving deeper into, is what about his memory caused enough pain to be distracting and Unforgettable? Perhaps it is as simple as a sense of loss for them no longer being an active part of your life due to something like relocation or different involvement with others or anything else of a similar trivial nature. What makes him part of your sense of loss?
How do guys just forget about a girl so easily?
Depends on the guy. I never forget. Its been 3 years since I broke up with my old gf and I've never forgot.
How should I forget a guy who never loved me back but I still love even after 8 years?
8 years!! It’s a long time dear.Be selfish!! Think, how you have wasted the precious 2920 days or 417 weeks or 96 months or 70080 hours of your life on someone who didn’t even care for you.Love is a mutual admiration process.Someone who didn’t respect your feelings(leave aside reciprocate) doesn’t deserve an iota of thought from you. Don’t waste your energy on him.But did my advice sound similar to others??No..my point is, you have absolutely every right to love any one you like, any one you admire.You have waited sufficiently long, done whatever you could.But that’s it.Don’t stoop any further.There is something more at stake than what you think.It’s your individuality,importance,and respect.Ask yourself, can you endure this process any further?Do you want to keep on hold your aspirations,dreams and love for someone undeserving?Or, you can right now,right here make a solemn pledge to yourself to Look beyond and embrace life as it is. Even your love deserves a second chance..let it come to you.As they say “if you love something set it free.If it comes back, it’s yours.If not,it was never meant to be”…..But do not wait for it!!For once,give up!! You will be amazed.