How do I get rid of a clingy friend?
Tactfully. Unlike another responder, there is no reason to hurt someone just because you may not like them. If they are always around, make yourself less available. Make plans without them. Don't answer their calls or texts right away. If you like them, simply be less available to them. If you don't like them, over time, make yourself unavailable. If none of that works and they are always placing themselves in your life, tactfully tell them you need time alone or private time to be with someone else. If that does not work, tell them there constant attention is weighing on your friendship in an unhealthy and negative way. That you need a life apart from their constant behavior. That you like being with them some of the time but not all of the time. If none of that works, tell them that you need a break away from them. If that does not work, be blunt but not cruel or hurtful and tell them they need to move on.
How to get rid of a clingy girl?
Ugg bad situation lol. There is really no way to do this "nicely". Either you have to tell her that you think its time she makes some new friends as well as you, or just put up with it. If she is as socially inept as she seems to be then you need to be a friend and tell her that you think you know why she has a problem with getting friends. Explain to her as kindly as you can that she needs to take care of herself more, make sure she is clean and hair is washed. Its ok that she is over weight but she still needs to be clean. Tell her she can not cling to people, that if she just relaxes a bit she will be more approachable. Like I said there is no real way of doing it super nice, and she may be hurt by it, but you would be helping her in the long run. Dont just turn your back on her tho, that would super wrong. Just explain things to her.
Do you have a clingy friend? How did you get rid of them?
Yes, i had a clingy friend but i did not ignore him,we had a conversation about the problem now we are in a good terms.. so i just followed some steps to manage the issue they are:First and foremost be polite to them.Understand thier problem,if any for thier such type of behavior.Talk about the issue be direct and firm.Don’t ignore,avoid or cut contact directly,in this way you will hurt thier feelings,so give them true reasons,which makes you uncomfortable about thier behavior.If your friend is being too clingy,clearly explain them your boundries.Encourage them to make new friends ,go for a solo trip,or get engaged in some work which they may love to do.If above mentioned points does not work and your friend tends to do the same and ignores your space… End the relationship.Although ending a relationship may be painful and difficult and you may feel guilt of being a bad friend,but if he/she is annoying you to the core and not respecting your privacy,you may have to take these steps.Thankyou, have a good day :DImage source: google
How do I gently get rid of a clingy ex?
Be blunt and to the point. Tell him or her that it’s over and no amount of effort from their side nor their words is going to win you over again. Don’t let yourself feel guilt over his words or actions, that is a way into manipulation.Lose any form of communication that you have with them - and that includes losing contact with friends who were initially your ex’s.Stay calm and stand your point of never wanting to get back together - even the dumbest people understand that at some point of time.Good riddance :)
How do I quickly get rid of clingy strangers?
They really do not have any emotional attachment to you so you don't have to 'let them off gently' , They probably won't even get upset if you were to told them to get lost. so that is what you should do, especially if that character is ugly, lol. eg. Maplestory. They're probably tryna reap some benefits from you, such as asking for money or as you said, sex.
How to get rid of a boring, clingy friend?
there's this girl I've been friends with for years, but it was all so fake and b/c we were both too shy to find other ppl. but now, I've realised I want to end our relationship and have fun.. but she's kinda holding me back. everyone I meet, she wants to talk to too, as if she's desperate. she's always been mean, cold, and selfish to me before, but now that I'm making new friends, it seems that she wants in. we really should've found other people a long time ago, I realise, but Idk what to do, because she follows me and looks for me so we can sit togther at lunch, walk together, etc, and our lockers are next to eachother. also, a friend is friends with her, which makes it more difficult. and sometimes when I try to talk to other people she keeps trying to talk to them too, and follow them around.
How do I get rid of a clingy girlfriend?
How do you get rid of a clingy GF?What did she find attractive in you in the first place?Withdraw it.If she found you strong, capable, as someone who has his shit together, start behaving like a beta wimp, whining like Fox News, become generally shrill and a pain in the ass like a feminist.If she loves you for the Provider role you provide. Become like the VA.If she found you reasonable, sensible and cool, watch Trump, and become more like him.If you've been truthful and honest, become like Obama. Or look for a more local example to follow in your local political scene. I'm sure your Mayor will be glad to provide adequate guidance in this regardIf she found you entertaining, well, become like Gordon Brown.
How can you get rid of someone so clingy?
You might just have to hurt them. It will be better for them on the long run. Face it nobody wants a dryer sheet hanging from the waist band of their pants try to be kind explain to them the difference between needed and really being needed and wanted.Say you are waiting for a very important call but dialers are hogging your line. Tell her you want her to be the important call(if you do ) not the dialer which is driving you crazy because of its need for you to be there and answer it
How do I get gently get rid of a dull friend of mine?
She is probably one of those people who can't make their own friends and you and your friend are nice so she is probably so wound up in having you guys as friends she is oblivious to the fact that you actually don't want her around. Try explaining to them why they annoy you (IN THE NICEST WAY POSSIBLE) and explaining what exactly they are doing wrong. Say that you and you friend like her, but she needs to understand that you need your own breathing space and care for your friends that she is mean to. Explain that you and your friend are just pretending to be mean to each other and what she is doing actuall hurts their feelings because they do not know that you are joking. Be nice and calm and expect there to be heartbreaks. After all of this time, it is probably the only way to tell her to leave you in peace.