Should I send my crush a friend request through Facebook and also let him know I have a crush on him?
Long story short, so I took this summer class in college for 4 weeks. There was this REALLY CUTE guy in my class, I am so attracted to him. I never approached him and we never talked in class, although he did ask me once for the homework and we talked then for about 3 minutes, that's about it. (This was the last day before class was over) He seems like a very shy and private person when I talked to him. So I figured out his name by looking at one of his papers and found his Facebook profile.Its been 2 week since class ended and I still can't forget about him. I now regret that I didn't go up and talk to him earlier. Anyways, I was thinking of sending him a friend request (on my Facebook account) so he knows who I am and tell him I have a crush on him and want to be friends with him. I know this is a bold move, and there is a 99% chance that he would deny my request and think I'm a freak or stalker. But when I send him a friend request I want him to know that I had a crush on him (if he wonders why I want to add him) and let him know that its ok if we just start out as being friends. I don't want to sound desperate in my message but I'll clearly state in my message that if he doesn't accept my friend request then I respect that. What's the worse that can happen? He could deny my request but Life still goes on right? I'm a mature girl and I'll find another guy.... but if you were a guy and received a message explaining this would you accept the request?
Ex girlfriend sent a friend request on Facebook after 8 months no contact. What should I do?
My ex wanted me to ask her to be my girlfriend and I did. Two days later she says she doesn't think she is girlfriend material and says she just wants to be friends for now. I told her a can't be her friend because I have feelings for her. 2 weeks later I sent her a latter wishing her the best and once again telling her about my feelings and why I can't go back to being "just friends". Told her that was the last time I would be contacting her. Have had no contact for 8 months and yesterday I got a friend request from her. What should I do? I still have feelings for her but I think she still isn't mature enough for a relationship. I'm 22 and she's 20 if it makes a difference. Please help?
How would your life change if you stopped using Facebook?
From this year (2018), I decided I will not use social media for social purposes anymore. I was mostly active on Facebook with more than 3500+ friends. I stopped using Facebook on the very last day of 2017.So, how it changed my life in last 11 days?I feel less stress now.I am getting at least 2 hours of extra time daily.To communicate with my friends and family I make calls now which eventually making the relations stronger.I don't oblige to write anything or comment on anything on Facebook to prove I am social.I found that I can concentrate more on other works now.I feel better at morning as I don't rush to see what's going on and ended up using 20–30min on bed using my mobile.I would like to share why I stopped using Facebook.Facebook create stress in various ways. It has different psychological impacts. It creates a fake social status. To achieve that status we tend to share more of our opinion and crave for like, comments which eventually creates stress.Instead of Joy, my activities may hurt people. I saw on fathers or mothers day people shared a lot of things. Especially whose parents are alive. I saw one of my very close person who recently lost her parents crying on that day after seeing the affection of others. She also shared her sadness on Facebook. Somehow I felt that Facebook is somehow forcing her to become sadder.People expect responses from me and they don't realize or consider my situation. Sometime I can't respond in time and they feel bad or ignored. This is not healthy at all.There are much more reasons. However, after stopping Facebook I feel better and fresh at morning when I wake up.Updates: March 30th, 2018It has been almost 3 months I left Facebook. I discovered several things in this periods. I was able to manage some quality time. I feel more optimistic now. My wife sometimes share news with me which she able to know from Facebook and unfortunately most of them are negative news. I asked her why always negative. She replied, those pop out on my homepage mostly. I found why I felt so pessimistic when I was using facebook. People tend to share negative news more.Also, I was able to read more books, blogs and article in this period. To become more prodictive I able to set some short and long term goals for me and achieving those goal perfectly. I believe I am able to do this became I left Facebook.Stop using Facebook for one week and feel the difference.
Why did my ex unblock me from Facebook?
He told me he was still in love with his ex gf and that he couldn't love me. He started seeing her while we were still together. I was hurt that he chose her over me, but what hurt more was that he felt this way the whole time we were together, and just used me to try to get over her, but couldn't, and went back to her. And he didn't even end things with me first, he used me as a backup in case it didn't work out with her. He only told me everything after it was all said and done. It was so shocking to me. I cut him out of my life 6 weeks ago, but he beat me to blocking him on FB, so he did that first. A few days ago I noticed he unblocked me. I had mixed feelings about it. A small part of me hoped that he cared about me (not in love with me, but felt some remorse/cared for me as a person), but I know that a person who is selfish enough to be capable of doing what he did, is probably just doing it in the hopes that I will contact him and feed his ego. I am definitely not going to contact him, but I'm not sure if I should block him or not. If I block him he will know that I kept tabs on him enough to know that he unblocked me. But I also don't want him to see what I am doing on FB. I just want to move on with my life.
I'm afraid of adding people on Facebook?
I felt the same way :) I'm shy,awkward,and really quite,We kinda have the same in common except age..Just started adding best friends,then close friends.Once other friends see your friends with people they know.They'll probably add you (: You should start slow,because I had the same feelings as you but I went along and "add them".If I didn't do that how would I know if I'll get rejected? Yes,that's the point...As least try before you quick you might get somewhere..Or you could try msging them "Hey I'm ________,we had classes together in high school"..etc
I am in love with a girl I met on facebook and I want to marry her?
Your life story is very similar to fairy tales..:) Well, i would say, by whatever you have just mentioned here that you two have just exchanged msgs on facebook. I will suggest you to meet this girl once, as you are saying you are too rich, so you can surely afford visiting her country, tell her that you are on a business trip and just wanted to meet her. Spend some time with this girl, get to know her completely, because on facebook people live virtual lives, away from reality most of the times. Meanwhile talk with your parents regarding this issue, get their opinion. Marriage, as you said is a big issue for we Indians, so be careful while making any decision. Good Luck!!