I'm never gonna see my best friend again! = (?
i totally understand how you are feeling my best freind is also moving. i live in a mining town of roughly 35,000 people. The Average length people stay here is 5 years, I've lived here my whole life. I'm 16 and my eighth (not my eight best freind in line but i have had eight different #1 best freinds and each has moved now she is my eight Best friend to move) is moving this saturday coming. But to top it off they have to move earlier then expected and originally decided but il be away for her going away party, as it had to moved from the original date. I get back a day before she leaves. I'm absolutely devastated. and im not very good at making girl best freinds i dont no why, i find it easier to hang with my boyfreind but he also has freinds of his own (tho they not losers he's a popular person and i dont like the people he hangs out with, specially the girls, they seem bitchy), but i really do miss having girl freinds becasue you can do heaps with them that i cant do with my boyfreind (and visa versa). i wish you best of luck finding best freind and i myslef will try do the same thing as hard as it might seem. xox
How do I get my best friend's mom to let me hang out with her again (we’re both girls)?
You don’t. Either one of you did something wrong, orthe mother is a tyrant. In both cases there isn’t too much to do about it.
How do I get my best friend to hang out with me more?
Well if he/she is your best friend, shouldn't he/she be hanging out with you often?Now answering "How do I get my friend to hang out with me more?":Show interests in her/his hobbies and her/his interests. If that person is extrovert, then try to go out more often or plan more outings often. If that person is introvert, then plan indoor activities like movie, gossip sessions, etc. I'd suggest let it happen naturally than forcing yourself out of your comfort zone.
My best friend never wants to see me again... help please?
hmm well are you being flirty with him? because if you are that might be why :/ but i would just give him some space and talk to him like maybe once a week but thats kind of stupid for him to say you hung out too much? in 8th edit* hmm if you werent being flirty then idk wahts up with im just be a good friend and be there for him, but dont try to hang out or be the first to ask i would wait
Should i still hang out with my best friend if she hangs out with my enemies?
Ok so I have this friend. We've been best friends for like 3 years. Anyways then there was this girl at my school who was teasing me for no reason and her and friends said and did awful things to me. I tried to stand up for myself but that just made things worse. They have this website at my school where people write gossip about other people. She wrote a whole three paragraph blog going on about how ugly I was and how no one like me and I should kill myself. Also a few of her other friends sent me a video on facebook also calling me ugly and they were eating food and they said 'hey heather this is food you should try it sometime you don't know what your missing.' i'm skinny but im that way naturally and i cant help the way i look, it really hurt me that they said things about me like that when i didn't do anything to them. anyways a little bit later my best friend becomes really close friends with these people which made me really upset. I told her to stop hanging out with them and she said no i told her what they did to me and she said she didn't care, she said they were super nice to her so she had no reason to stop hanging out with them. So I don't know what to do. For awhile I completely ignored her cause it pissed me off how she could be so close friends to people who were so mean to me. But the thing is I am so shy so its hard for me to make friends and I don't really like being on my own. So I started hanging out with her again recently and I do enjoy spending time with her, but then she was talking about the things she's been up to with these people who hate me and who I hate and I saw pictures of her on facebook with them and I felt hurt again. I don't know what to do should i stop hanging out with her or what??, the thing is we're in a group of friends and we all hang out together, so if i stopped hanging out with her i would lose my whole group of friends.
My friend's parents won't let me hang out with her ever again?
I don't know what happened really. We were best friends. She was the only one who understood me. And then, four days ago, her parents told her she could "never hang out with me again". I was so angry, as in PISSED off. I've been trying for two years to be my nicest around them, but I always felt as if they didn't like me. Now I know that I was right- they've hated me since the first moment I saw them. Now I'm just sad. My best friend is drifting away, her computer, phone, and home phone are all taken away from her. Usually her stuff is just closely monitored- her parents read her texts, facebook messages, sometimes listen to her calls & she isn't allowed to delete anything- sometimes her mom will sit on a diff computer and watch her chat. Now she can't use her laptop, phone, or anything unless she's hanging out with some other people- the shallow, popular sort... since I'm a weird nerd -_- I think that's how her parents want it to be. Her parents are verbally and physically strict- they're the sort who will yell and wash your mouth with soap if you "backtalk" them. I'm afraid of them, mainly her mom (her mom is very very intimidating). I wouldn't dare confront her parents. I must also mention I'm not a bad influence- I don't smoke, or do drugs. I have pretty good grades. What can I do? Is our friendship lost? Should I let her drift away?
Why do I always hang out again with my worst friend? She always comes back to me out of nowhere.
You might have developed a strong emotional connection to your bad influence of a best friend, and have not been able to or won't try and develop a similar connection to some one else. To which I say, try. It will be hard, but it will be worth it, you'll feel happier.As to why your “best friend” keeps coming back, it could be any one of dozens of reasons. For example, they might not have any one else to influence with their bad decisions other than you, they might feel comfortable practicing their bad habits around you for a sense of security you provide or maybe it's just they're used to you.In all cases, you need to move on from that person. It might feel good or fine to stay with them, but it's only because you've stayed with them for so long, it feels like it's the normal now. That, is not, normal.
My best friends mom wont let me hang out with her anymore because she thinks im a bad influence?
My guess is that your best friend got caught doing something and she deflected the blame onto you. You will probably have to find a new bff.
How to convince my parents to let me see my best friend again?
Well there are various reasons your parents might not allow you to go to your friend's place: 1. They don't trust you 2. They don't trust or like the environment in your friend's house 3. They are just upset and over time will get over it If it is the first you need to have a chat with them and let them know how and why you ended up doing what you did. Why you lied to your father and why it would not happen again. Why you drank and how you will avoid such a situation again. Just saying I am sorry and I would not do it again would not help. You have to think about some strategies that you would use next time you are in a similar situation to not fall prey to such behavior. If it is about the friend's house, you need to explain what are the facts, understand what worries them and talk about strategies for still keeping the relationship with your friend while avoiding whatever your parents don't approve of in her house. If it is third then you just need to give them time. Act in a trustworthy manner and talk about all the above things when they cool down. Good luck!