How can I make my mom change her mind?
airsoft gun huh...well you should listen to your mom, but an airsoft gun isnt any danger unless you use it the wrong way, when i ask my parents for one, all they said was "wait till saturday or sunday" and i got my famas went to airsoft with friends and had a match fun as hell..but yeah..tell your mom that theres nothing wrong with an airsoft gun and it isnt any danger unless you have metal BBs, tell her that i will only use it outside of the house and not anywhere else..o and bribe her with chores and good grades and other stuff
My mom thinks I'm on drugs!? How do I get her to change her mind?
Ok, so when I am on my cell phone I go outside and walk around or sit in the car. Now my mom thinks that I am hiding something from her, hence how the drug card comes into play. I am definitely NOT on drugs, thats just stupid, but she still thinks that I would (how nice). When I'm on the phone I go outside or something because its just awkward carrying out a conversation while sitting next to someone that's watching tv, or whatever. Also, it's simply impolite, but I have told her this a million times but she still doesn't understand that I'm telling the truth. I get that she's just trying to keep me out of trouble but it's really annoying, I mean I'm 13 this is ridiculous. I don't want to be on the phone inside, its to strange and uncomfortable. Seriously why would they want to listen to a conversation between me and my best friend about the Jonas Brothers or about my boyfriend, or the guy my friend likes and random gossip? Any advice is welcome, plz don't just tell me to just stay inside, you think I haven't thought of that?? ♥Court. again, Thanks for your time! :)
How can I change my mom's mind about accepting that I'm gay?
One question I pose to homophobic people is this,“When did you make your sexual orientation choice?”The primary argument is that sexual orientation is a choice, a person must therefor have chosen to be gay.Perhaps, those people actually did struggle with what they thought was choice.The most homophobic people I knew were also the most confused by their own sexuality.Don't be mean. Don't be aggressive. Just pose the question.Say, It is obvious you struggled with the choice, but not everybody does.I am heterosexual, never wanted another man. It wasn't a struggle for me, It wasn't a choice.My nephew is gay. You might never know he is gay, I know. Since he was 11 years old I knew he was gay. He realized it when he was in college. It wasn't his choice, or his mates choice to be gay, it is just who they are. I will also add, they are great guys.Phobias are real. There are many kinds. Education helps with many.I was a homophobe. It took years of learning to realize I had nothing to fear.
How do you get your parents to change their mind about something?
Well. If I really wanna do something that my parent against it, I will list some reason to prove why I should do this. The key is your excuses are not harmful them. I will take my story as sample.Recently, I am unsatisfied with my current job, so I decide to go off to another city to earn money. But my parent object to me and give me 2 main reason that why they would oppose me.One: you lack of some tough and useful skills, so even if you live in big city, you perhaps can do nothing just like you are….as the same as the small town you lived.Two: we are older… we need your accompany and your assistance, we won’t hope how rich we are and what the money we have, what we all want is you.what do I do?The below is what I said to my parent:I am younger, so I can learn something quickly. besides, the big city has some position that the small city don’t own.And I can learn how to live alone, which makes me more mature.That is why I want to make more money is that I wanna make your life better! I had seen your bucket list, I know you have a lot of thing that could be done when you were younger. So, come true your dream is my ultimate aim..
How to change my parents mind of things?
Ok so basically my mom will flip **** at me if i talk to a guy who isn't brown. She was arranged married to my dad, and i've told her mutiple times that i don't wanna end up like her. I remeber when i was younger, my dad almost killed her and beat her up so bad, just because he didn't like her sister/family. My mom totally aganist me marrying someone that isn't brown, and she says that it only happened to her because it was just a bad choice. I don't want to be arranged married! I wan't to date and have normal lives like evryone else. How can i change there minds?My mom said f i ever bring a white guy home there is no way she would ever talk to me again. I have to change this, im not marrying someone FORCED.
My parents always change their mind?
my parents have been changing their mind and it puts me in awkward spots. For example, one time my friends and i were at the mall having a blast. We all called our parents and asked if we could go to our house for a sleepover, and they said yes. We wanted to go to mine. When my mom and dad showed up they changed their mind and were going to drive everyone home. Some girls called their Moms, but it was too late and everyone's mom said no. Also, one time me and my friend were staying after at school to work on a project. When we finished, my friend was craving frozen yogurt. We both called our moms to see if either could take us, and they both said yes. My house is closer though, so we just figured my mom should take us. Well, she showed up, said she had changed her mind, and drove my friend home. Needless to say, we should have just letmy friend's mom take us. And my dad is the same way. I was crying because I felt so insecure about my ugly glassees that i've had for years and i was saying i wanted contacts. He said yes, anything to make me see how beautiful i was and a bunch of nice stuff. Well, i was thrilled. That was a week and a half ago, and now he's denying the whole conversation even occured. He says he thinks im too irresponsible. What?!?!? I try talking to them but they get defensive and deny everything and get mad and yell. Its embarassing and frusterating. I'm a straight A student, student council president, and im a good kid. What's going on????
Birth Mom changed her mind - Should I give the baby back?
You should probably get clarification on one issue. If you tell the social worker that you will not take Micheal, where will he go? The mother has already signed her rights away. Just because you do not take Michael, it doesn't necessarily follow that she will get him. The social worker or agency could very well call up another client/couple and they will take him home or call foster care to come and get him. As of now, the child has no legal parent. Even if the mother wants him, she has no legal right to him right now so this will all take time to get resolved in the courts and she may not get the child back. So, find out what happens to Michael. If it is a situation where Michael will go to another family or foster care, then I think you should take him and try to have as open an adoption as possible. You might want to call an attorney early in the morning to find out the legalities of all of this and talk to the social worker to confirm all of this because this can't be the first time this has ever happen so if Utah allows for no avenue for the mother to revoke, the only choice you might have is to take the child or lose him to another couple.
My parents hate gays. How do I make them change their mind?
It really depends with each parent because they may have different views on the topic. They may hate them due to them not being okay with the decision of loving someone of the same gender. Let alone having sex with the same gender. Whichever the case is, if you have a friend or you yourself are gay, then hopefully they can open their mind for the love they have for you. My parents would have the same idea as your parents. They would never display the hatred but as soon as I came out to them they tried to convince me that it’s “disgustig”. They may have never hated LGBT+ people but when it came to me it was a must to change. I didn’t. There came a day where my mom called me to talk and she told me how “it’s not rational to like someone with the same body parts as you”. She went on to say it’s not fine for someone to feel that way it’s just not correct. Despite her words I told her that when it comes to gay people there is more to them than just sex. Gay couples, lesbian couples and heterosexual couples go through the same process of dating. Now I had a girlfriend at the time so they knew that it was “too late” to change who I was. They stopped talking to me eventually and then after 3 or so months my parents talked to me. It was stoic and plain talk but then my mom grew open about who I really was. She would ask questions such as what do I feel when I kiss a girl or how I realized I liked girls. My dad never really asks me about the topic but he asked about my girlfriend and if she’s ok (Ex-girlfriend). All I can say is that I hope they realize one day that gays are just like everyone else and there is nothing bad about loving the same gender.
My mom keeps changing her mind! she never keeps her promises! please help this is URGENT?
im home schooled because my mom heard about all the drug busts and knife fights and bomb threats in my crappy school, so ive been homeschooling for about a year now and my mom told me "if we move into this new town you absolutely do not have to go back to public school." so i moved away from all my friends. then she filed for disability for bipolar, (which may be the problem...) depression, and a severe neck injury and severe nerve damage from a car crash. so i get a monthly check of $250.then she started threatening to send me back when i was late on chores or even asked to watch something on tv when she wanted to watch something else. so she told me if i hand her $200 a month of my money she absolutely will not send me back to public school. now she says im a "snotty teenager" and talk back to her all the time (which i dont. since she got in the accident ive been the only one in the house cooking meals and cleaning the house by my self because my "dad works" and my "brother goes to public school" so they dont have to do anything. i dont know what to do. last year when i went they had 9 drug busts, 2 knife fights, 15 fist fights, and two bomb threats just in the 4 months i went there. i am so afraid they'll bring a gun to school and i'll be shot but my mom seems to be soo afraid of sending me one day then the next day shes willing to send me at the drop of a hat! please help i don't know how to handle this, when i try to talk to her about my plans of getting a job early (which i could only do if im home schooled because our school doesn't allow you to leave for any reason unless youre sick or have a doctor's appointment) she doesnt even hear me she blocks me out and cuts me off by yelling and screaming about i dont do enough around here. i feel like cinderella sometimes.
Why does my mom always change her mind(the question is in the description it wouldn't fit here)?
What I do is say I am going to put it on the calendar so we remember. I write it in the date or month she said it was possible. If no exact date or month I write it in on the date she said it. For some reason my mom remembers it was written down and when she argues she never said it, I will say its on the calendar. Its easy to find that way too. If she doesn't have a calendar buy one for your room. 2 or 3 dollars if you go to walgreens or walmart, don't spend 12. There probably is a way to print one off the computer also. Good luck it works for me.