How to get out of the friend zone in high school?
So I'm a 9th grade guy and I like this 8th grade girl. I've known her for about 3 years and we've been really close friends ever since. We're really open and most of the time say almost anything to each other, however there are some things we don't tell each other such as who we like. It took me a year or so to realize I have a crush on her, and another to understand I'm in the friend zone. She's a nice person but at times chooses to ignore how I feel about something. There've been times where she's had me do favors for her such as carrying her bag, which I don't mind, but it's been getting worse and it makes me feel like her pet. Don't get me wrong, we still have long conversations and sit together everyday, but she hasn't been treating me the way she used to. I see her with other people worrying about every burden they carry, but that's the way she USED to treat me. I know I'm still worth a lot to her because if I hang out a lot with another girl she basically flips on her, but then at the same time she tells me repeatedly that I need to get a girlfriend. I'm a nice person which is probably why she walks over me. I was also the only varsity soccer playing freshman though and I'm in all the advanced classes so it doesn't make sense how she doesn't see me for all I am. There are times when she's still really nice to me; nicer than anybody else. There are times when she's overly attached to me, then there are times where I feel like she doesn't even see me as a friend. It's been the past 6 months or so that it's been like this and I want that balance we used to have in our relationship. I feel that once she treats me nicer I could confidently ask her out for the first time. not as a friend but as a boyfriend. So I'd like some help on escaping the friend zone and also how to ask her out. Any form of advice would help thanks.
HOW TO GET OUT OF FRIEND ZONE??!!?
HEY, im in 8th grade too!! ND IM a girl. And i have put guys in the friends zone alott of times. Lol. And what they ussualy do is they STRAIGHT up tell me that they kinda like me. Well first they talk to me about my love life, while in the friends zone. Saying things like so who do you like, and so so. then FINNALY. just say sometihng that you like her. And make it really obviouse. you will get over it. and it will work. GOOD LUCK!!!
How can one get out of the friend zone during high school?
There are two ways of approaching this problem, I recommend the first one but the second also works.The first option is not doing things for the sole purpose of escaping with a certain girl, instead change your mentality to improve yourself because you want to become better, not for the sole purpose of having a certain girl like you. This way, even if you don’t break out of the friend zone with that certain girl it won’t matter to you as you are now improved, still improving and also don’t see her in an enhanced light which happens when you obsess over a girl. The truth is there are millions of girls better then the one that has friend zoned you, feeling like she is the one you need is what you will have wear off.Nevertheless, the second option can be done in order to escape the friend zone with a certain girl. It is a process of having her dissociate your attention and affection with negative acts while simultaneously having her associate positive actions with your attention and affection. The reason you were friend zoned in the first place was likely because she was able to maintain these two resources you can offer while disrespecting you, or not even interacting with you if you were the one starting conversations.This yt video explains both ways well
Well how to get out the friend zone [middle school] plzzz help?
Stop being close friends. Be slight friends. LOL.
In high school, how do I get out of the friendzone with my best friend who knows how I feel?
The friendzone doesn’t exist. If a girl doesn’t like you, it doesn’t mean she has punished you and placed you in some friendzone.It just means she doesn’t freaking like you. She doesn’t owe you a relationship just because you are her friend. She isn’t punishing you. She isn’t putting you anywhere as if you were trapped in a prison.You chose to be friends, and if you don’t want to be friends because you would prefer to have a relationship with her, but she doesn’t want that, then what you do is to stop being her friend, to stop talking to her and move on.What you are really asking is how to get a girl who doesn’t like you to like you… The answer to that is you can’t.Imagine another girl you definetely don’t like happened to like you, what would she have to do to get you to like her? Nothing, she would do would work because you don’t like her. There is no magic tricks, there is no secret recipe, or method, nothing!Focus on other girls. This girl just doesn’t like you. Accept it and move on or continue to waste your time and get hammered.
How do I get out of a Friend Zone with a girl?
If the guy is a cool dude, especially if he's your mate, tell him the situation and ask if you can ask her out with his permission. That way, everyone gets off the hook and you can tell her. Even if that doesn't work out - make time to tell her. I waited something stupid like 8 months to tell my first love my feelings for her, because she had a soft spot for me and we would of had together time for longer. We were together for about 6 months, we had compatibility issues that were unforeseeable, but I always wished I stopped mucking around and just asked earlier. What is the worst that can happen? She says no, right. AT LEAST YOU KNOW and can move on. But what if she says yes? ; )
How to avoid the friend zone?
There are two ways to avoid the friend zone. Make your romantic interest known to her or get away from her when those feelings aren't reciprocated. When you see a chick you dig that way, have that goal in mind when you flirt her up. Ask her out when you think she is digging your vibe. If she doesn't dig you back, then get away from her and find someone else. Don't be a sap and hang around chicks you are attracted to that way who only sees you as a friend. You would only be hurting yourself in the end.