My gf is pregnant and her parents won't let me see her?
I'm 19 my gf is 17 and she's pregnant. She finally told her parents needless to say they weren't happy. I wanted her to move in with me as soon as we found out but her parents won't even let us see eachother anymore. They let me come over once a week but they watch us the whole time and I can't even hug her. I love her to death but if this keeps up I don't want us to drift apart. Right now we both need each other more than ever to deal with this. They let us be alone before and now she's already pregnant what are they trying to prevent? Anyway I'm also trying to think of the kid, my parents are divorced and it was really hard on me growing so I want my child to grow up with two parents still in love and living under the same roof. So we really need help any ways to deal with this? Also: the age of consent where we live is 16 so you don't need to say I could get in trouble.
My girlfriend's parents wont let us be together?
Me and my girlfriend are both in high school, we are both 16. Some how my girlfriends parents found out we had sex and the whole incident starts from there They came to my house to talk to my parents and told me not to talk to her They tried to get across the message by threatening me saying they will put me in jail or they will move out of the state. My girlfriend got grounded and her phone is taken away. Here is when it becomes worse. Me and her have been texting since today using her ipod but some how her mom found out and now i dont know what to do. I really love her with all my heart and we are planning to stay with each other forever. Her parents wont let me hang out with her anymore and doesnt even like me talking to her. I don't know what to do and i dont like seeing my girlfriend not being able to hang out with her friends. What should I do?
Her parents won't let us continue dating because I'm black, what do I do?
So you're black and I'm guessing the girl you're dating is either white, or her parents just don’t want her to date an African-American. Whatever the reasoning; as a fellow African-American, who was in a similar situation as you a few months ago, I’m telling you from experience that it's just not worth it.Sure; you may like her and she may like you, but you’ll be surprised the influence her parents will actually have on your relationship. Look man; her parents are racist and chances are it’s not just her parents but some of her family also.You see; she might not listen to what her parents have to say. So what do her parents do? They bring in some members of the family to talk to her and tell her how bad black people are. If the whole family has something bad to say about black people, then black people must be bad; Right? To ensure that you guys break up her parents might even threaten to kick her out the house; they're probably joking, but she doesn't know that.So lets say you guys decide to “breakup”,but secretly vow to stay together until college. It's not going to work; you want to know how I know this? Because I made that same vow, and it didn't work out. You two may very well be different; but I doubt it. Sorry if this isn't the answer you wanted to hear. But; it's the answer you needed to hear.
My girlfriends parents wont let us hangout, What should i do?
So we have been dating since oct 10' and we used to see each other about once a weekend. Then one day she went home with hickeys, which is understandable why she couldn't hangout. We were finally aloud to hangout after a while, but that was on V-Day, so a few months later. Then, the time after that was on her B-Day about 2 weeks ago, since then, nothing. Our relationship with each other is VERY strong, but its hard not seeing her. I can understand where her Mom and her boyfriend are coming from, but its weird because ive never actually been to there house, but shes been to mine. My gf has no phone and there computer is broken. So i usually only talk to her at school or when she can get a hold of a phone at home, which is almost never. Im 17 and she just turned 16, i don't see the age as a problem, but the parents might. I really want to have a good relationship with her parents to show im not some kid. And i can honestly say i love this girl, i mean ive stuck around for such a long time. But what should i do? I really care about her but it sucks seeing your girlfriend out of school only about 1 time every month or two. Im not sure what to do. My mom and dad have spoken with her mom before. And i push it to my parents to talk to her and try and make her comfortable. Her parents are always working and she has to watch the kids. But days they have off theres always some reason she cant hangout. is there something i can do or is it in my girlfriends hands? Or is this wasting my time, and things wont turn for the better, and be honest, i just need a sense of direction. Parents welcomed for input, they usually know best :)
Help My girlfriends parents wont let me see her?
well i would try to stand up for myself but they told me i am not welcome in there house or on their property. and im sure they are telling her that its either me or family. i mean at first her mom said two months and then if she wants to be with me then she cant stop her but then dad said no he can never see her. so then mom agrees with that. isnt there a way i can see her and talk to her without all this going to jail threats. The last thing she said to her friends was that she did love me and that her mom is just freaking out cuz of the past relationship and thinks i control her daughter but her daughter says he doesnt control me at all.
How can I help convince my girlfriend’s parents to let her go on a camping sleepover with me?
If you are young enough that her parents have a say, then you have to respect their decision on this. If she is “the one”, then she will eventually be old enough that she can make that decision for herself.The camping sleepover may be the most important thing to you right now, but it is only one of many things you will do in your life. If your girlfriend’s parents won’t let her stay overnight, perhaps you can invite them to bring her during the day and you can all go hiking and cook over a campfire together. This can be an opportunity for all of you to do something fun and get to know each other better.
My girlfriend's parents wont let me see or talk to her anymore.?
I am a Dad! . . . of a 16 y.o. daughter !! Okay, you READY? So here goes: First, I will preface this with: You will only know this; you will only experience this when YOU are a Dad of a daughter. Till then, all you can do is be YOU and know that any Dad worth his parent skills will protect his daughter w/ what ever legal means needed. Re: "He acted like he would give me a chance." And he DID. Chance is over with, now; strike three! You see, I HAVE been your age & I DO know what it is like to be in your shoes. I know how you THINK [well, not exactly what you think, but how a 16 y.o. boy thinks]; I know what your sort of mind-set is [w/ in reason]. And so, MYYYY job is to protect my daughter from ALL of those things! AND, for that matter, SOOOO is her Dad's job! And that is precisely what he is doing. Now, I don't want to TOTALLY "knock you down". What I will say, is that you offer to go & talk with . . . . HIM, not her Mom. Go and talk w/ her Dad, man to man. Ask to find out why he does not approve of your seeing her. Then, learn from it. And if he turns you down, learn from it anyways. And if he catches you w/ his daughter behind his BACK? You are Tee - Oh - AY - Es - Tee, TOAST!! Honest! So really dude, better make another choice, there [i.e. DON'T do it!]. Be straight forward & be on the up & up. Okee-doke, dude?
How do I choose between my parents and my girlfriend?
Let me cite a personal story, as I try and answer your question.My parents have been happily married for about 26 years now. They came from very traditional families, and arranged marriages were all that was in the family. They met in graduate school, fell in love and decided to get married.And, obviously their parents opposed at those times.They loved each other, they had a quick marriage at a town hall, with 2 witnesses. My mom's family resorted to accepting my dad, very quickly, but my dad's family never seemed to accept my mom.A year later and I was born. My father's parents didn't see me, until I was 5 years old since they hadn't still forgiven my dad , and sadly, even now accepting them as my grandparents isn't possible from me, they never touched me or kissed me as a child.But my parents showed me what true love was. They loved me with all they have, and I have grown to respect them and adore them and appreciate their love for one another. They respect each other, and never regret their decisions. My dad's family has come around, accepted my mom and me eventually, but the bitterness has remained. My dad decided to marry the one he loved 26 years ago facing opposition from his family! But he claims to have no regrets and he loves us, wholeheartedly. Do you really want to live your entire life regretting about what may have been and was never yours? You should make your stand, tell your parents you want to be with this girl and no one else. Take your stand! Don't lose the one you love :) Try to make your parents understand how much this girl is important to you... Convince them to accept her... If it is true love, it will win. It should win. It can win.... !!!! :)